is valentine's day really just for lovers or couples?

Philippines
January 30, 2007 10:49pm CST
i'm thinking of planning an activity that would include my kids. they are, after all a part of our love story, thy might as well celebrate it with us. anyway, we have our wedding anniversary to call our own. what do you think?
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• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Valentines are traditionally for lovers and couples but since you mention it, I'm planning a dinner date with my husband and daughter. I would love my daughter to see how happy we are together and that she is part of our happiness...I think its also important to let our children see how important we are to each other so that they will learn to value the love that they might found when they grow up. Exposing them to family love during valentines may also help us change the idea that this is for lovers and couples only. :)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
wow! you've got the whole point right there. your daughter is a lucky girl. and so is your hubby, for that matter. happy valentine to you and your family in advance.
@balabrahmam (1071)
• India
31 Jan 07
no it is for all lovers that means if anybody loves their parnets are friends and relatives whatever they must n love so it is the day for lovers so any body enjoy it
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• Philippines
31 Jan 07
you're so right! card companies should reinvent their valentine card covers to feature a family or kids, too.
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• Canada
31 Jan 07
I totally agree with you!!! Mom always gets Becky and I something for Valentine's Day. I like your point about your anniversary. That is your day. I think Valentine's Day is whatever you make of it. I believe it's important to involve the entire family in the celebration.
• United States
31 Jan 07
I think it would make a real good new tradition! Besides it will round out the day, and can remind us of the best blessings in life. Love! And children!
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
you must be a very close-knit family. i'm trying my best to achieve the same with my family, too. they're still little (i mean, my kids) and still very impressionable so i'll start early.
• India
31 Jan 07
valentine day really meant for religious peolple becoz it come from name of saint velntino augustine .
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• Philippines
31 Jan 07
oh! then how come we now associate it with lovers and intimate dinners for two and candles and roses and chocolates? i wonder....
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@apky12 (769)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I think that's a good idea to involve the kids. I know my kids and I are going to make Valentines cards for the family together. Maybe we'll start a little tradition of our own to do something special together on that day. That would be really nice.
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
come to think of it, traditions are something that could be passed on from one generation to another. how nice that would be to be the instigator of such a tradition.
• United States
1 Feb 07
I think Kids enjoy the holidayjust as much as adults. I think its wonderfull, holidays arent just for adults, we do valentine with our kids then after bed time set aside some romentic time for us.
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
ha, ha. of course, leave some time alone for just the two of you alone. what's a valentine without hugs and kisses from your significant other, huh?
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I like that! I think it's a great idea! I think anything that lets our kids know how much we love them and how special and important they are, the better! There seems to be so many angry kids when they get to be teens and older.. and so much crime against children, that I think we should do as much as we can to keep them safe and feeling safe. I don't mean to be a gloomy gus, I'm just very concerned for children in our world of today, and so an idea like yours, to me, is great! I'm thinkin' too, that valentine's is a good time to send a little card to just about anyone! Using it to tell someone we care.. like an Aunt.. or friend, etc.. It doesn't have to be a "be my valentine" of course! :)) just a "thinking of you" card, or even a heart sticker!
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yours are vey legitimate concerns and i'm with you all the way. the world after all is for the children coz they're the ones who'll live in it in the future. we, we move on. a little suggestion for you in connection to the card you mentioned? a handmade card or maybe a card you made yourself using the computer would be even nicer to give to people who mean a lot. what do you think?
• United States
31 Jan 07
I think that is a brilliant idea and so sweet of you to think of. Your children will certainly appreciate to I think. After all, like you said they are part of your love story too. what kinds of things will you do?
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
maybe, the candlelight dinner will still be there, but there will be 5 of us in attendance. all of us will each have a rose and a chocolate (oh, i just know the kids will love the latter!)afterwards, a romantic walk in the park will be lovely, again, with all five of us. it will be a little rowdy, perhaps and not quite the intimate occasion everyone's used to, but it will be twice as fun and thrice as memorable.
@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Although it probably isn't how Valentine's Day was originally conceived, I feel that Valentine's Day is a great time to let ANYONE know how special they are to you! I have always given a little something to my children on Valentine's Day. Afterall, I love them dearly! I used to have a wonderful boss, I once got her a single rose and put on the card, "Thanks for being a great mentor and friend." It is a great day to show anyone a little extra attention!
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
oh, that's sweet! i remember one valentine, when my grade 3 son came home for lunch, he brought three roses with him. i thought, why was he giving me roses again when he already gave me flowers earlier? and then he said, they were from his classmates. they wanted to thank me for the cookies i baked for them a long time back. it touched me. so much!