I got married yesterday.

well, i guess the first question to ask is why is she upset about the wedding? i dont think any of us can really give you any advice until we know what the reasons are.

Congrats to you and your new hubby. Maybe Mom is jealous so you need to show her you still have room in your life for her too. After all, what if there are grandkids someday? Try inviting her over for dinner or take her out so you and her can have some one on one time. Don't give up on her. Family is worth more than possessions. You can replace possessions but when family is gone you can't get them back.

Hearty congratulations on your wedding. I sincerely hope you will be able to convince your mother about your selection of the bride/bridge groom and things will be smooth.

Awesome! Congrats! I think that your mom is worried that she'll "lose" you. She wants you all to herself and realizes now that you hve a husband some things are going to change. (which they will) Let her know that even though you have gotten married, that she is still a priority, maybe not #1 but still close to the top. You are an adult and need to have your own life.Reassure her that you will still be there for her no matter what.

First of all Congrats! I went through something similar with my mom a few weeks ago when I got my daughter's ears pierced, my mom claimed that I always hurt her so much and I shouldn't have gotten them pierced without her, ect ect. We had a long talk and I asked her why she feels this way, why it was such a big deal to her to be there when I got my daughter's ears pierced, ect. SO I would suggest sitting down and talking to her face to face about what is really bothering her and maybe you both can figure out a way to work on things together. My mom and I are now doing better and working on our differences after having a similar talk. Good Luck & Congrats!

congratulations Krysy,you made it to the alter,i am so glad for you and your husband and i wish the best for both of you and a happy future. your Mom wants you for herself,make sure you she knows that you are still there for her,show her that nothing has changed between you and slowly she will come round. now get back to your new husband and start enjoying your new married life have fun and take care.....jimmy

Congratulations!!! If you're mom didn't approve of your marriage then It would take some time for her to visit you. Maybe she felt alone and miss your company... you should explain to her that marriage is not losing you but adding a new member to your family. Good luck!!

It seems that your mother is not happy with your marrying the one you have married to.So try to find out why he dislikes your partner.Try to explain her that you love your partner very much and that's why you married.

She says that YOU will not do anything for HER now? Umm...that is a bit selfish....don't you think? You just got married and she needs to be a bit more giving. And just because you got married, does not mean that she is no longer a part of your life. I would say just tell her that you love her and will be there when you can to help her. Besides that...you really do need to live your own life too. She will work it out. And congrats on the new marriage.

Congrats on getting married. It may be just that she is upset for not including her in the wedding. i hope she is talking to you by now, i know it took me awhile to responsed but that is cuz i was having computer problems.

Firstly, congratulation from me to you, my friend and have a great day with your spouse. Hopefully you will always in happiness. About your mom, I think it is something natural for some of the mother because she feel sad, worry about your new life with your spouse which she don't know how it can be progress. This feeling is not so long I think, and its will be over and should okay after a few days. Your Mom will feel anything and worry about her daughter because almost the years from your birthday until now she is the person which take care of you and before this you are always with her share your feeling and soul with her, and after this you maybe separate with her and build up you own life with your spouse.This is normal for something new.

I think you need to really sit down and talk to her just you and her. Find out the real root of this and why she is saying this now. I'm sure it's hurt feelings but find out why and what you can do.

I didn't tell my parents until the last minute when I got married. They were shocked at first because they didn't know anything about the man I chose to be my husband. But only time can really tell if your parents will be able to accept your marriage. Be patient. Today my parents and my husband get along quite well. You're mom someday will get the hang of it too.