How often do you do something for your friends?

@polachicago (18716)
United States
January 31, 2007 11:14am CST
I am going to do party for my friend. I decided to do it for my friend who is almost depressed and I don’t want her to be alone. I will have about 50 people in. Everyone is going to bring something to eat or drink. I am also looking for new ideas for my friend, because she is unemployed. She is going to stay with me for few days, because I want to change her mood. How often do you do something for your friends?
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63 responses
• Pakistan
1 Feb 07
Well I don't want to sound exaggerating but I have spent all my life helping out friends when any dire situation falls upon them, even if it means driving at 3:00 am to the hospital. I try to make sure that they remain happy in my presence and let me also add that - that is a very commendable thing your doing and I do hope that you manage to change her mood and I do hope that you can come up with a solution to her problem. Good Luck!
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Feb 07
driving at 3 am to hospital is what frienship is all about.
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@Khokhonut (702)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I do something nice whenever the opportunity comes along. Recently I threw a surprise party for my friends birthday. Another friend, I pick her child up from school when needed. It's little things that help :)
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Great respond, real actions are helpfull
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
23 Feb 07
Well, that is so nice of you. It sounds like you are a very nice person. That is just great for you. I don't have alot of friends, but I would do things like that if I have some friends like that.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
23 Feb 07
we all have good friends....
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
19 Mar 07
well, ive just moved and my friends are far, but i like to do things for them all the time. my one friend was going to have a baby so i helped her set up the babys room. it was alot of fun and we had plenty of laughts. shes a great person and a true friend, i find that i am a giver
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
19 Mar 07
good for you and you friend, sarah..:)
@moreinfo (3865)
• China
21 Mar 07
hehe, i rated nearly all friends' comments and discussions here, and trying to increase thrie reputations here. but seems i didnt get much back. well, its ok.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
21 Mar 07
...:) yes, you did...:)
@omidmao (743)
• India
31 Jan 07
it is very nice of u that doing such thing 4 ur ftiend , i always tru to be the best for my friends ,, anyway it was really nice discussion , and i really liked it , , so i gave u + for this , thanks and have good time ,, good luck
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Thank you. I am sure to find something for my friend.
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yah. doing good things for your friend is really awesome. continue doing great!
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yeah, i think youre such a sweet and caring friend. keep it up... God bless!!
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
I encourage my friends who are all online friends when ever we chat i send them all flowers for their birthdays and am always here at the drop of a hat several of them i help financially if i can when i know they are in need but sometimes just being there to listen maybe all it takes.A shoulder to cry upon or what ever.If your friend is depressed having a lot of people around maynot be the best move either a smaller group would of been better to start off with.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I said she is "almost depressed" by meaning she is not happy...
@vhmehta (621)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I have very few friends not because I dont have time but I am kind of shy guy and throughout my college was shy.... I would be happy to help out my friend if he needed me....
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
23 Feb 07
great...
• India
1 Feb 07
its not like how often , whenever the need arises i am at their service
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Feb 07
great answer
@circuit (347)
• Pakistan
1 Feb 07
almost everytime everyday..... my life is incomplete without friends... and i am very attached with my friends and so are they..... friendship is indeed a very pious relation........
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Feb 07
frienship is always needed...
@vivek6831 (211)
• India
1 Feb 07
i can give my life for my friends.but it was for future but today i arrange a youngsters party.it was only for youngsters.so this proves that i can do anything for my friends.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Feb 07
:)
@kristia (138)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Most of the time, when my friends ask me favor or when they need help, i am there to help them to the best of my abilities. I want to be helpful to my friends and make them happy always. I want to show them how much i ove them and how much i appreaciate them. That is why i try my very best to help them.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
You are very good friend.
@odacfry (31)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 07
iam always help all of my friend iam happy to do that and my friend always give me help too if ihave some problem i love all of my friend
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
good for you..
• India
1 Feb 07
its been very nice tht u are helping ur frnd in giving her a party, but at the same time if u wuld search a job for her it wuld be a much better gift for her.. waise i used to help my frnd nt in monetary terms but i tries to give them some tips 'hw to make life more beautiful and happy for living'. and tries to help them were ever i can..
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
finding job? that's why I have party for her, I want to get all my friends be involved in serching...
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@alextki (923)
• India
1 Feb 07
we can be friends, when we fullfill the needs of your best friends.. so i can do anything they want and ofcourse when they are in my need.. thats my pleasure to help them and keep our friendship going for ever..
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
your friends must be happy to have you...
• India
1 Feb 07
i do things for my friends all the time.what you are doing is a good thing.at this point i would like to tell something that my friends did for me.i was so depressed as i had not studied for the exams that year.but my friends helped me study and prepared me for the exams very well that all of us got good marks that year.i could never forget that incident.that changed my whole life.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
great story, this is what frienship is all about
@mae168 (170)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
You're such a nice friend...I think you're one of a kind..not all friends is like you..me, I help my friend if they need it..I'll will do anything for my friend..and I don't expect anything in return..
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
this is what friendship is all about, not expecting anything in return..
@rudz006 (209)
• Malaysia
1 Feb 07
It is depends on certain situation.If our friends have an important problem,I will try to help them.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
wise thinking:)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
how often do i do thing for a friend? well as long as she/he needs me. someone to talk with, laugh with, and cry with. letting him/her know thats she's/he's not alone in this world. a friend is the only person in the world you can realy on if everybody if against you. they are always behind you. so i guess. friend will be a friend thru thick and thin and to good and bad times of our lives.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
wise thinking. Friends are forever.Friends always understand.
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
My friends always tell me that they are very lucky that they are friends with me because i really love my friends..I treat them like they are my family..So whenever i can i help my friends.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I like it. You are right, almost like family.