Online friendships, do they really happen?
By happymommy3
@happymommy3 (2012)
United States
February 1, 2007 2:43pm CST
Have you ever made a friend online and they turned out to be the best friend ever? I haven't but it would be nice to really make really good friends and be friends for a long time. Sounds kind of childish I know but I'm sure it happens. Do you have any stories of how you've made friendships online and really keep in contact, visit, etc? I'd like to hear, tell me about your story?
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@michelledarcy (5220)
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1 Feb 07
I have met some guys on dating sites online with good success. One I went out with for 6 years and we had 2 daughters.
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@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Wow, I'd be too scared to to the online dating sites thing. I'm married though so don't have to worry about all that, lol! Are you both still together?
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@monica1216 (509)
• United States
1 Feb 07
I have a group of online friends that I met six years ago when we were all pregnant and due with babies in the same month. We have stayed in touch and our children are all five years old now. Many of us have also met in person too. You definitely can make good online friends if you have something in common to keep you connected.
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@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Oh, well that's a nice story. Thanks for sharing!
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@coolcatzz (1587)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
Absolutely!! In 1997 when I first got my computer I was working on my own selling products through a mail order company. I had joined the messageboard for that company and instantly became friends with this one girl. She ended up giving up that business but her and I still talk today and it's 10 years later but we have never met. Now I also got to know 10 or so other women through that site and I have been fortunate enough to meet 5 of them and again we still talk today even after 10 years. I cherish my online friends because they have really talked me through some tough times and hopefully I have done the same for them.
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@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Well that's really nice to hear. Friendships to me are very important and I've always thought it would be so nice to make more online, just haven't yet though, but I'd like to one day. Obviously it can happen if it's happend to you all:) Thanks.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Feb 07
I have online friends that I have had for 10 years now. =)
I feel very close to some of the people I talk to online. Not all of them, of course. There are casual friendships for me both online and off. But I'd say many of my close friends are ones I only know online. In my case, visiting them isn't much of an option. I have some major transportation issues.
However, there is one group of friends I met online that I do know offline now as well, including my husband, the woman I consider my best friend, and several other friends. It started when I was going to college in Kentucky, and I became so ill I couldn't continue going to college. I wasn't going to have a place to live, because my grandmother said I couldn't live with her, and essentially my family expressed the wish that I would go away and die quietly. Well... I did the going away part. At the time I was talking online to my best friend, who was in Oklahoma when we started talking. Later she moved to Michigan to be with a man she met online, and met the group of people that are now our friends. One of whom she introduced me to, I fell in love with, and I wound up coming to Michigan too.
So if I hadn't believed in online friendship, I wouldn't have had a place to live, I wouldn't have met my husband, I wouldn't have my child... *shudders*
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
8 Feb 07
*blushes* Umm... thank you. It's good to hear that someone enjoys my responses. I'm sometimes accused of being a little too open with things both online and off, but I really do prefer just being honest and being myself. Thanks for your support. =)
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@happymommy3 (2012)
• United States
8 Feb 07
Wow, what responses you have, they're always great. That's just awful that your family would want you to go away and die quietly. Yes, you are right, I'm glad you believed in online friendship, obviously you found some really great friendships. Makes me believe in them too now. I really love hearing from you, your responses. You sound like a really amazing person and I bet you have touched many peoples lives by your story, you have mine already and I've only heard from you so little on here. Thanks for responding.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Yeah, that would be really nice. I've never met anyone online that became my friend afterwards. I don't mind trying that sometimes to see if it could really happen.
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@aquarian9 (548)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
My years on the net have not yielded a close friend per sey. If you count my spouse then it would be something close to that. I have conversed with likely thousands of folks on many different sites, channels, and topics. The closest I came was a local camping group. Which turned out to not jive either.