I'm Having a Party and You're Invited....all of you!!
By mari61960
@mari61960 (4893)
United States
February 1, 2007 9:25pm CST
I'm having a "Whine" Party, bring your own.
I've had a really bad day and I've noticed I'm not alone. I was really depressed when I got up today and it just got worse. My bird wouldn't shut up when my soaps were on. My dog chewed up a roll of toilet paper I was using for kleenex because I ran out. My car is broken down. I was almost out of cigarettes. No one was going to be home for dinner or so I could get cigarettes unil after 8pm. I ran out of diet coke. It's just not been good.
So come one, come all to my Whine Party..give it your best. I feel better already..lol Thanks in advance.. Check out my pictue, it may make you smile...think of it as Cheese with your Whine.
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50 responses
@GardenGerty (160909)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I did not have such a bad day. Not necessarily my favorite kind of day, but not as bad as yours by any means. The worst thing I did is drive about 15 miles from one job to the other without my billfold. The next worst thing was that I stayed up way too late last night on myLot, so was tired today. Hope you feel better now. That's what friends are for.
@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Oh, I hate when I do that. It messes up the whole day...and I'm up too late every night with mylot...lol Thanks
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I am totally with you! My bad day actually started yesterday when my mom dropped my little 5 year old sister off unexpectedly yesterday for her to stay all night, And I didn't find out till she left that my little sister had ruptered ear drums and so her ears were draining constantly adn had pus yes I agree nasty and plus she had poked a pencil in her ear so now they was blood too and her medical card was messed up and she couldn't get her antibiotics and other medication she cried constantly and stayed in pain most the night whining all I could do was give her motrin for children and then after staying up all night I finally at 5 o'clock got her to sleep and the phone rang at 6:30 4 times and woke her and me up because instead of answering the phone my husband thought a cup of coffee he was making was more important. So up we was again and she can't hear hardly so everything has to be loud well hubby left at 7:00a.m for work and she turned the t.v. on cartoons with the volume up to 68 and I thought it was going to bust my ear drums but when I turned it down to 32 she swore she couldn't hear it so up it went again. At 12:00 my mom comes to get her but desides she wants me to go to I didn't want to I just wanted to have peace and quiet and crawl back in bed, but I went and then had to listen to her and my dad argue and fight baout stupid petty stuff. Little sister crying again because in pain and mom and dad in bad moods is not fun. Then I get to go home at 5:00p.m. just to have my hubby tell me that my sisters house burned down while she is in Ohio with her grandbaby at a childrens special hospital(baby has cystic fibrosis)Took me hours till 10:00p.m. to get ahold of her and let her know and thank god she took my teenage nephew with her this time. cause he usually stays home which we thought he had till 7:00 so everyone was very looney for awhile thinking and imagining the worst. I started having chest pains almost had to be rushed to the hospital but took some aspirin and it helped some. I was kept waiting for her to call till 12:00 p.m. and then find out that I have to haul my fat behind out of the bed early in the morning to go see if anything can be salvage Me, I am severely overweight I have to sit down to do dishes, and cook half the time but I have to go and sift through burned stuff and bag up all the stuff that can be kept I really am weary about going into a house that has been burned and has weakened flooring since I am so obese 400 I do not think that the burned or weakened boards can handle the strain of my weight. But I am the only one able to help everyone else have children and babies. I don't have a health card or making enough to cover any hospital bills if I do indeed get hurt. My hubby works only part time as a carpenter and doesn't have any health coverages either so I am in no way covered by anything does any one also care that I have breathing problems and I huff and puff just going to the bathroom much less bending up and down picking things up I think I would rather watch all the kids and the the others who are by far way skinnier and healthier do it. But I am always the one that gets the you got to thing whether I want to or not. When do I ever get a say in what I get to do?? Lucky for her her landlords nice he is giving her rent money back that she just paid last night and also helping her get some more furniture for when she finds another house and alot of people are coming together giving her money,clothes, and other things she needs to be able to make it she just now has to find another house to rent one preferrably with good wiring. So here's my "whine" do I still get to stay for the party?..lol Sorry you had such a bad day. Hope tomorrow looks bright ,sunny and beautiful for you and everything will fall into place so you have a great day..I am sorry if this post comes off with me sounding like a Queen Bee-yatch but I am truly not one(well not all the time)..lol
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
9 Feb 07
She pratically lost everything we saved a few pictures that was in albums and I think thats the only thing that saved them albums themselves is a total lost. But alot of people have come together and raised some money so she will be able to get back onto her feet. She is staying with my brother right now. Thanks god for selfless people who gives out of the goodness of their hearts to strangers. I haven't been on mylot these last few days because I was busy as a spring bee in a flower meadow. Well I am hoping that today things are going to be great for you! Thanks
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Well you got me beat there, I know how you feel. I went to bed because I figured today would be better....I was a wakened at 7am by my mother. She was leaving for work and letting me know my uncle would be here to pick me up at 9am to go shopping with him. He's trying to make us all think the world is ending because his back hurts. So we all have to be his slaves. Now I'm so mad if my car wasn't broken down I'de get in it and drive as far away as I could even if only for the day.
I know all about the weight and huff and puff lifestyle, I'm right there with you..lol You can only do so much. I hope you have a better day too. Thanks I feel better already.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Tell ya what, I will bring the cheese and another bottle of whine or two. Misery loves company.
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@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
2 Feb 07
oh my God i really need a discussion such as this to let these feelings of distress somehow alleviate.. well today started out as a fine day and then t turned to the worst day ever!. i hated it!. i found out that i was debarred from my class because of the 2 extensions (which is equivalent to 4 days extentions) i got from incomplete paraphernalia.. and to think that this is my 2nd and last time to take this subject. im on probationary status and screwed it all. well no one is to blame but me!. then after that my classmate txted me and told me that i was WANTED in the office of student affairs because i was sanctioned and i have to do "time". the worst part here is the fact that i had disappointed my mother as i told her that i will graduate in time and all that.. my mom is coming here right now and i dont know what to say.. im so ashamed of myself right now because i did it all over again.. i hate this day so much!.
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
So sorry you messed up. Don't be ashamed it happens to the best of us sometimes. Good luck with your mom, I know that can be depressing when we let our families down. Keep your chin up and do your best, I hope you have a better day today.
@kapoet (270)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 07
Oh very nice plan... Get party and happy together. But I can't come because I'm too far here in Indonesia. But no problem. Enjoy your party and don't be depressed again. A bad day always changing everyday. That's just a game in your life. Be fight yow...Cheers...
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
What do you mean you can't come...you're here.
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@mommy2jason922 (529)
• United States
2 Feb 07
i started out with a bad day today also. i woke up with a real bad headach and my son decided he wanted to get up extra early. he cried till i finally got up and changed him and fed him. but as soon as i picked him up and had a big smile on his face. i was like boy.....then i tried to put him down for his morning nap and guess what he didnt want it! he finally fell asleep for 2hrs and so did i. he normally sleeps for 3. so i lost that extra hour cause he cried till i played with him, my head still pounding. i fed him lunch changed him again, and now he is sleeping. yet i still have a huge headach and now i feel nauseated. Ugh!
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Well, I certainly hope you get rid of your headache. I hate having a headache it's so draining and makes everything more difficult.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
3 Feb 07
isn't it so annoying when everything just seem to be out of ordern? you buy a new VCD for a movie you love and it won't just play? or you want to take a bath and that there's actually water interruption for the moment. you're waiting for your friend at the mall and after an hour of waiting for her, she'll text you saying that she could not come?
bad day...
but atleast, we can still sit down after sometime and crazy as it might be, have a laugh about it. then, we feel better.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Since this is two weeks ago, I missed the party. But, I know that your little furry baby arrived today, so I know that you are in a good mood today. But, maybe you should throw another party this time, a "happy party."
I'm happy because my husband has been out of work for a month, and still waiting to start the new job, but God has been providing and helping us though His children. So, I am happy to be alive today. Blessings, M&M
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I'm so glad it's going well. I bet you'll be having the next party when hubby starts his new job...lol
@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
2 Feb 07
That sounds great but it will cost me a plain ticket to join your party... Maybe we we will just be sitting here in front of our computers and let us have those updates on the party... Ha Ha Ha your picture never did made me smile it brings me laughter and joy, reminding me that life is really great... Thank you for this topic.
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@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
3 Feb 07
thanks for inviting, i think i might join lol, ask me twice and i will.....i've had a loooong day as well here.
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@mnksmommy (301)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I must say that I love whine and cheese. Let me just say that my kids were out of school on a snow day and it looks like they will get another tomorrow! Oh the inhumanity! A four day weekend!?!? Yeah, I won't be hearing my soap again in the morning...LOL gotta love them though!!
@justcuitz (91)
• United States
2 Feb 07
So sorry to hear that. I have bad day also, it start this week.( can i call it bad week ?? lol ) I got cut all over my hands. Class got canceled. etc ... hope you'll have a bright weekend
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@teamfreddy (150)
• Mexico
26 Feb 07
Why don't you stop whining about everything? Wash your face with some cold water, put some nice music on that you can hear through the whole house. Life is beautiful, you are awake, ticking, not handicapped. Do you realize how lucky you are?
@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
26 Feb 07
Thanks for your heartfelt advice you big party pooper...
@blueskies (1186)
• United States
26 Feb 07
"Every part needs a pooper, that's why we invited you.. Party Pooper!"
I love that song :D
@Tiffanyvstony (144)
• China
2 Feb 07
Hello!I don't understand your meaning very much,but I wonder how u get a star with mylot?Can you tell me.Thank you in advance
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
The party is here, glad you could make it.
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@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
3 Feb 07
Here is a joke i thought was funny, maybe it will brighten your day some:
One day in the great forest a magical frog was walking down to a water hole. This forest was so big that the frog had never seen another animal in all his life. By chance today a bear was chasing after a rabbit to have for dinner. The frog called for the two to stop. The frog said "Because you are the only two animals I have seen, I will grant you both three wishes.
Bear, you go first." The bear thought for a minute, and being the male he was, said "I wish for all the bears in this forest, besides me, to be female." For his wish, the rabbit asked for a crash helmet, and immediately put it on.
The bear was amazed at the stupidity of the rabbit, wasting his wish like that. It was the bear’s second turn for a wish.? "Well, I wish that all the bears in the next forest were female as well." Rabbit asked for a motorcycle and immediately hopped on it and gunned the engine.
The bear was shocked that the rabbit was asking for these stupid things, after all, he could have asked for money and bought the motorcycle. For the last wish the bear thought for awhile and then said, "I wish that all the bears in the world, besides me, were female." The rabbit grinned, gunned the engine, and said "I wish the bear was gay."
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@happythoughts (4109)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I could go on all day. I woke up at 3:00 am to make my husband lunch before he heads out the door. Im not a superwife, If I dont make him lunch he takes the whole loaf of bread to work, leaves it in his truck, and puts lunch on the visa I am trying to pay off. I have been up fighting with children ever since and it is only 10:26. I cant take anymore screaming. Come on nap time. Thanks for the vent time. I feel better already.
@smurfettewv (359)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I ussually dont whine but here ya go,
hubby had to go to work early havinga slumber party with 8 girls tommorw not counting my kids and my friends children ,trying to figure out the best valentines to give hubby, wondering if Im getting anything,forgot to write daughters name on a note for school lol , my car is gone and no one to hang out with today and Im doing house clkeaning which I despise and I have to cook dinner and shampoo carpets lol. But on a happy note Im alive feeling good and will try to enjoy the peace and quiet til the kids come home lol
Kelly
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Everyone deserves a good whine now and then...hope you get some rest.