What should be the age difference between lovers or married couples?

Hmmm... no I don't think that age difference is good. That is way too much of a difference between their ages in my opinion. I can't even imagine that any 18 year old girl would want to marry a man that age. That's kindof sad for her.

i think an ideal age difference between a lovers must be 2 to 4 years and the boy must abe elder , even in case of marrieage also from 2 to 5 years of difference is ok or good, but the boy must be elder to the girl and that will make a nice pair. too much age difference is not good for thier thoughts and feelings.

arre wot r u saying ... it juss lik i touch an electric wire.....r they mad yaar .....or ur kidding da ..... i tnk alts 2-3 years ....or wot is the need of dat same age is also good na .......

i think 3 years age difference is better to couples

I think if people are really in love it doesn't matter on their age. However there are obviously problems related to the age gap that they will need to work through.

I think the 10 year rule is a good one. Generaly outside of ten years, 15 at the most. Usualy outside of thease boundrys you are looking at differnt types of relationships. Like a 71 year old man is probably not going to give an 18 yaer old girl a healthy relationship. Maybe just a chunk of his trust. But alot of people still get married as a buisness arangement.

I don't understand how an 18 year old girl could be sexually attracted to a man who is her grandfather's age. It really icks me out. I tend to agree with those who say she just wants his money. I don't think there is really a limit on what the age difference should be, but 53 yrs is a bit much.

i think 1 to 5 yrs will be good . and thing what u told is to bad that man is almost age of the girls grand father

conditions, pre-conditions, rules ,regulations, laws , by-laws.. donot rule love. yes for marriage i would agree with you for some extent. but still in instances such as mentioned by you. i think such marriages are of some purpose. this could sound horrible, but if we perhaps think positively it could be something like the old man is planning to give inheritance to those who looks after him ..just an imagination... on the whole love knows no bounds and marriage is just one of the results of it.

that is ridiculous. It is not practical and will never be accepted by the society. I think that the maximum age difference between a couple should not be more than eight years.

Ohh come on sissy, you should not be so fallen on this topic. It is such a common thingy from where I hail. It is called the Great Indian arranged marriage. If you think that a super discussion can destroy this grand tradition, then pleez do consider thinking again. It has stood the fury of Time and Change and Generations to get as disgusting as it is today. Only gud boys out there, who are ready to stand up for what they think is right, is our only hope. I'm one of them and I promise thee thou or whatever it is that i shall not marry a girl unless she is able to call me a boy (This is not valid if she looks rite into my heart, I'm alwez young at heart). HAha. If you ask me, the maximum age difference should be something like 4-5 years. I also think that the boys should be older (dont think ill), that doesnt mean "Me Tarzan, Me King of the Jungle". Just have a life folks. For all ur problems pleez visit: www.thesecret.tv or search for torrents on torrentz.com for the secret. Its a movie and u have to tell me what u think abt it.

I think 2 to 5 is ik age between a couples. It's Max Age you my idea. What you Think's

That is a big gap.I just don't get what a couple like that would have in common with one another. I think 12 yrs. would be as far as the age difference should be. I know some people would say that when true love is involved does age really matter? My honest oppion, "gold digger".

see basically a relation between two is successful only if both r understanding. so here level of maturity matters a lot. we often see that between men and women of same age , generally women are more responsible and matured. so a girl should always marry a man elder to her, but then this age gap should not be more than 4 or 5 years or else their thinking wont match at all (spoecially if both of them are of the same profession)

this is really disgusting . there are many such cases these days and its very sad that they are on the rise , these people are really abnormal and psycos , because they do what is really embarassing for the other people to bear , and to be very frank , one should always avoid the company of such people .

personally age difference for me in a relationship is not really a big issue but for your above statement it really a huge gap. You can really question about it. Indeed it is really shocking. Sometimes an old man is looking for a companion that they can be with for the rest of their life since they are alone and they like to have a young one thats why your relative chooses the young one. while for the girl side mostly in that young age who have been through poverty they accept some proposals that will make there life good and some are just really for money in exchange to be a companion. But im not generalizing it it depends. SOme relationship like that will last and some are not.Well both benifit with each other. its just my personal opinion.

see a normal age gap can be 3 -4 years.... thoguh for marriage upto 6 - 7 years in even acceptable.... my opwn parents have a gap of 6 years.... I also dont favor the male being elder always.... what for ,,, why? I don't understand the funda behind male being older... u c the poor rules of society.... But ya defintiely this one is shocking.....

I heared about couples of age difference!But this is terrific!Cant believe this!Unbelievable!Why that girl marry such man?I guess,she wants to have a daddy/grandpa figure!Well, whatever decision she have,its her choice as long as she is happy and the man also!Goodluck for them!

for me the perfect age gap is 3 to five years. i don't like it if it's 10 to 12 years, though I like a more mature partner.

My hubby is 15 years older than me. He just turned 50 and really is depressed about it.