Are you Agoraphobic? Do you know someone who is?
By zuri25
@zuri25 (2125)
United States
February 2, 2007 3:39pm CST
According to WebMd, "Agoraphobia is an intense and irrational fear of being in public places. People who have agoraphobia are afraid of being in any place or situation from which it might be hard for them to escape. Examples of agoraphobia include fear of being in crowds, standing in line, going into shopping malls, and riding in cars or on public transportation."
I was just watching Oprah and she has on Paula Deen, a cook on the Food Network Channel, who spent many years of her life as an Agoraphobic. I thought it was fascinating.
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@CRiley27 (983)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Yes, my mother suffered from agoraphobia for years when I was growing up. In my late teens I was resentful for never having a mother who took me ot, or drtop me off at the mall "like the other kids" It was not until I learned about the phobia, that she truly had no control over her disease. Thankfully she is ok now. She will not drive far, mostly stays in town. I love her dearly, and now as an adult she is my best friend.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I am a mom... of two kids. My daughter was very social growing up, and often resented me for "how I was". At that time I hadn't been diagnosed, so we didn't know. I am glad you have forgiven and understand now what was happening to your mom. I am also glad she is better. My daughter has forgiven me too and is one of my best friends. God Bless you. I know how hard it must have been growing up.
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
2 Feb 07
Thank you both for sharing your stories. I am not an agoraphobic and, as far as I know, I don't have any close friends or relatives who suffer from it. But, I can certainly emphathize with you both. It must have been a terrible experience, but you both rose above it and I commend you for that.
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@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
2 Feb 07
My doctor calls me boarderline agoraphobic. She says that it could turn into full blown agoraphobia at any time. If I am going to be out in public for any length of time, I have to take anti-anxiety medicine. I can't handle being in stores or malls, or anywhere where there are crowds in enclosed places. I seem to do better if it is an outdoor event in a large open place though. I also suffer from bi-polar and PTSD, which does not make the situation any easier to bear. I have been this way for many years prior to my diagnosis, and never knew what was wrong. It was really hard on my kids while they were growing up, because neither of us knew what was happening. My hubby has kind of a hard time with it, but he is very understanding, thank goodness.
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@zuri25 (2125)
• United States
2 Feb 07
God love ya! It takes a strong person to deal with multiple health issues at once; whether it be you or a family member. It's great that you have a support system because goodness knows we can't always handle everything on our own. I hope that it never progresses into full blown phobia. Thanks for sharing with us.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Yeah, I agree that is fascinating. Thankfully, I don't have that condition at all and I don't know of anyone that has one either.
@eslproofreader (517)
• United States
13 Feb 07
I'm better now, but for a few years I dreaded going out. I would force myself to do it, but I'd be anxious, muscles tensed, sweaty. I felt like I couldn't catch my breath. I also hate crowds and confined spaces. But I can't call what I have any kind of 'agoraphobia'; it's more like a mild social anxiety. I really feel for people who are shut-ins because of the sickness.
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@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Sometimes when I am in a large place with a lot of people my heart starts racing and I starting getting very weak. I guess you would call that Agoraphobia. When that happens I try to leave and to eat a candy bar for energy. This does not happen very often (thank God).
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