RE: depression!

@xXmeganxX (4420)
February 10, 2007 8:14pm CST
hiya people, i think im depressed as ive been feeling so down lately, things just having been going right in the home, i really want to know what symptoms can occur when people are suffering from depression for EXAMPLE - a sever headache is due to depression! im not saying it is but could you please tell me what the signs are when you suffer from this! all the help is appreciated! thanks in advance, all users will be rated!
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@hopeful28 (1439)
• Singapore
13 Feb 07
Hi megan (ok to call you this?), I am sorry you are feeling down. One of the symptoms of depression could be frequent tension headaches. Other symptoms could be insomnia, loss of appetite or the opposite, crying easily, losing your temper easily over things you normally wouldn't. Also, not feeling up to doing your daily normal things even like toothbrushing, bathing, washing hair etc.. These are the symptoms I used to have when I was depressed and I also smoked alot then. If this has lasted more than a week, do find someone to talk to or seek professional help. I wish you all the best. You can message me if you need to talk. Take care, I hope you feel better soon.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
13 Feb 07
wow, i have been smoking alot and now today i can't really breathe! i feel like an old woman when they can't breathe! i do have some of those other symptoms too! thanks alot for your help and i will message you if i need a chat! thanks alot for responding! :o)
@1983tyler (507)
• United States
11 Feb 07
I agree with many of the other posts - everyone is different. But changes in habit, such as sleeping too much or insomnia, eating alot or not at all, can be an indication of depression. If your doctor won't help you, you should find a different doctor. If you are unable to change doctors, maybe you could find a therapist to discuss your problems with. A therapist could help you decide if you need to be medicated and give you the name of a psychiatrist. A good therapist can be a lot of help.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
11 Feb 07
hey there, thanks for that, i should ask to speak to a therapist anyone would give more good advice than my so called doctor! well i used to sleep alot, i don't know, i don't eat alot either so maybe i do have this disease type of depression! im going to see someone anyway and i will update it and let people know! thanks for responding! :O)
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 07
Well, Sweet, there are a lot of Signs and it affects everyone different. I withdraw in myself, I go quiet, burst into tears for no reason, feel as though someone is tightening everything inside me, I don't want to do anything and all I want to do is sleep, shut out the World. That is my reaction and it can last for Days sometimes Weeks, I have got like this since I was bullied out of my Job. I also suffer with Panic attacks but that is due to my Illness as I really Panic when my Breathing goes and I feel as though my Lungs are being closed of. If you feel that you are going into depression, please go and see your Doctor. Hugs to you
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
15 Feb 07
Hi Meg I hope you do go Sweet as you need to get a grip of it before it gets you.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
17 Feb 07
yes thanks gabs for helping me out! :o)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
14 Feb 07
wow, thanks very much gabs for responding, depression does seem bad enough in a way without having all that to cope with as you listed above! hope you get beter soon and are doing okay! im going to see my doctor anyway this week to see what he can do to help, i shall also update here on mylot for the people who have responded to let them all know! thanks for the hugs too! :o)
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@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
We're on the same boat, my friend. If i may ask, what was the reason of your depression? .. yes u-r right, headache can be one of the symptoms also. On my part, i'm having some digestive problems from time to time, too much thinking of it that makes me really sad, hopeless and my energy level is so down, i hardly concentrate on things i do cause i'm not inspired and i do lack interest on it, i'm irritated over some little things.. Are you experiencing this too? ... ... I'm 3 days delayed for my response. I hope by now you feeling okay and doing the things you normally do. . I'm hanging on. You too okay? .. Remember, you are not alone. (",)
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
13 Feb 07
hey anjoks thanks for the kind response, i don't really know what the reason for my depression is, ive just not been feeling too good or normal over the past week or so! and yes i do lack interest of most things. im going to see my doctor anyway sometime this week and see if he can help me out. im hanging on too, yes! thanks alot for responding, also i tried to email you last night and got your email wrong, lol! if you could message me it here on mylot, that would be great! thanks! Megan. :o)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
14 Feb 07
thanks v much for getting back to me and passing your email onto me again! i will email you soons as possible! :o)
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
13 Feb 07
Unknown reason of depression? Hmnnn.. i wonder what can that be? lol ...... You take care of yourself my friend. I'm just here. If you need someone to talk to, you know where to find me!^_^ ... it's "anjo_bisakol@yahoo.com" ... godbless. ("o")
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
14 Feb 07
megan if you suspect that you're depressed you should be looking for help as we speak. Depression is one of the most common illnesses nowadays, and there is nothing embarassing with it at all...it can occur for the most diverse causes, and if it's properly dealt with it disappears....i'd find help.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
15 Feb 07
lightninstrike, help is what im definetley going to sek, i should be going to see my doctor tomorrow if i can get an appointment, it's always jam packed in that surgery and im lucky to egt an appointment when i need one! thanks for responding and i shall update on what happens! :o)
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
24 Feb 07
:o)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
15 Feb 07
it would be really kind of you to update...looking forward to read that you're doing much better :)
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• United States
11 Feb 07
This is a good site with lots of information that might help you... http://www.nimh.nih.gov/healthinformation/depressionmenu.cfm I am sorry you are having a ruff time right now, but the first step to getting better is reaching out for help. :) Hope this helps
@xXmeganxX (4420)
11 Feb 07
hi there and thanks for responding, i shall take a look at that link and see if it helps me find my solution out! i do hope to get better soon because i do feel very rough, ive never felt this way before! thanks again
@xXmeganxX (4420)
11 Feb 07
thanks very much for responding, hmm ive felt like some of them things before! im going to see my doctor about it sometimes next week! thanks for your kind words, cheers!
@xXmeganxX (4420)
14 Feb 07
hey thanks very much for your response, it really helped me, ive been feeling some of them things you listed down also! im going to see my doctor this week anyway, so i will update on what happens here on mylot, thanks for the hugs too! :o)
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
13 Feb 07
As a person who has been diagnosed with depression, I can help you out with this question. Some signs that I experienced were: feeling tired all the time and always sleeping, losing or gaining a lot of weight suddenly, feeling lonely all the time, avoiding people and flying off the handle for no good reason. Everyone experiences different kinds of symptoms and it wouldn't hurt to get checked out by a doctor. Hope you're feeling better soon.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
13 Feb 07
hey thanks alot for that, i do have a few of them problems you listed down, im going to see my doctor sometime this week anyway and see if we can sort things out! thanks for your kind words too! :o)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Stop thinking , about all of the things that ..... stop thinking , just do and get stuff done. just live....
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
12 Feb 07
hey jesse, thanks for responding. im trying not to think..hehe. :O)
• India
13 Feb 07
I am also depressed and I want to know the symptoms. I also want to know how to stop worrying. Come out of the pressure/tension. I also need information about this. Please tell me.
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
13 Feb 07
hi there if you look on my first page of my discussion, many people have give some tips on what can cause depression!
@urbangirl (1456)
• Australia
13 Feb 07
Some of the signs is a disruptive sleeping pattern, change in appetite, not finding enjoyment in things you once loved. Basically, a lack of joy that goes on for weeks.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
13 Feb 07
yes i do fall under some of them things you pointed out, im going to see the doctor anyway sometime this week and see if they can help me out in some way! thanks alot for your response! :o)
@xXmeganxX (4420)
14 Feb 07
thanks alot for responding and your kind comment urbangirl! :o)
@urbangirl (1456)
• Australia
13 Feb 07
Very good idea - I am glad you are seeking help before it gets out of hand. I hope you feel better in time.
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@lols189 (4742)
11 Feb 07
i reckon its coz u sleep 2 much as u do sleep 4 bout ten hors a day :-)
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
11 Feb 07
okay lols i hope you know what your talking about..hehe! :O)
@Bizziebod (3497)
11 Feb 07
I agree with your other responses that depression symptons are different in everyone, headaches, moodswings, spontaneous crying! Along with the exercise someone else suggested try having abit of 'me' time if you can - even if it's a soak in a bubble bath for half an hour of a face mask. I've found that helps just once a day for a little boost or even do something 'nice' for someone else, you would be suprised how much of a lift it gives you! Good luck *hug for you*
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
11 Feb 07
awwh thanks bizziebod for the nice responde here, i will try and do some of the things you mentioned! hugs back! thanks for responding! :O)
@Zo0mZo0m (1357)
• United States
13 Feb 07
Ah! Sleepless nights, restlessnes, headache, stomach aches, overeating, under eating, not eating, angry, sad, crying, over sleeping and I am sure there are more symptoms than these.
@xXmeganxX (4420)
13 Feb 07
hey thanks for that, i have had some of them problems yes, as i said im going to see my doctor over this anyway, thanks alot for responding and helping me out! :o)
@Anixie (89)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
One symptom is when you start to cry without provocation. When you feel like there's no hope for things to get better in your life. When you're always sad.
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• Sweden
12 Feb 07
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@xXmeganxX (4420)
12 Feb 07
hey there, is it about depression?
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
Some, who are depressed are having sever headache, dont want to eat, they wanted to be alone, thinking of things that make them depressed, some are eating too much, some are crying alone because they dont want that others will know their problem..if your depress, you need to have a friend or you mom or dad to talk to, because it can relieve your baggages inside your heart and it can really help..
@xXmeganxX (4420)
24 Feb 07
hey cherriemae i did seek help about 3 days ago, yes i am depressed, my doctor put me on medication for it! thanks alot for responding and helping me! + :)