Too soon to get married?

United States
February 13, 2007 6:04pm CST
if ur in a relationship, when is too soon to get engaged/married? who is to tell us if its too soon? is there a too soon? how would we know if it is or not? is there a right or wrong answer?
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6 responses
@allwin (297)
• India
18 Feb 07
de rite time to get married is that when we can stand on our own legs and support our partner too in life... so we have to be very stable financially and mentally .. that's de rite time to get married!!
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• United States
15 Feb 07
When you're ready to get married, you'll know it.
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@Miriel (1041)
• Norway
14 Feb 07
I do not think there is a right or wrong answer to this. I think this is totally up to each person. For myself. Me and my boyfriend have been togheter for 10 years in May , we have lived togheter for 7 years and have a 5 month old son. We are still not married? Why? Well I have seen too many divorces, and too many relationship that is perfectly good that seems to be messed up after marrige. I do not want that to happen to us. We live togheter as a married couple , and love each other as much as a married couple , but I do not see why we need a ring, or paper to state that?
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@apky12 (769)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I think that if you've known the person for a day or a week and you get married it's too soon. I don't see how you could possibly know that person in that amount of time. I think if you got engaged though in that amount of time and decided to get married later on, it wouldn't be too soon to do that. My parents got engaged 3 months after they met on a blind date and have been together ever since. You just never know.
@aretha (2538)
• United States
14 Feb 07
it does not sound like you are to sure and if your not don't do it,wait. there is nothing wrong with waiting,just don't do it if you are not ready.
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
there is no "TOO SOON" to get engaged or get married... if both parties had known each other for quite sometime already and if they are already mature enough to face the reality of married life.
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