Is it wrong for me to want more out of my fiance, like ambition....

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and a get-up-and-go attitude form him!!!! I love him dearly and he is the world to me but he has a job he doesn't like and ocmplains about it all the time but in the two years we have been together he hasn't made a decision to leave this job. He says the money is good but I don't think that's a reason to stay in a job! Last night I shouted at him and said some hurtful things because he had to fix his bike for work in the morning but he hadn't done it all weekend. So I told himt o do it right away...of course he truned around and said he would do it in the morning, I said he would be late for work and since he is on his last warning he would lose his job for bein a minute late! I told him procrastination was his down fall...he got annoyed saying I always pick on him for it so i brought up the job thing and said he has said he wants a career in IT and I got all the forms for him to do it part-time but he just bins them!!! I told him the only way he will leave that job was when he got fired!!! I know it was hurtful but I went on to say I just want thim to be ambitious and better himself!!!! ( i am currently in the process of completing my social work degree so I can work in my dream job)- i used to procrastinate and now don't so I hate seeing it in others!!!! Was i worng to say it and is it wrong for me to want him to have more drive and ambition ofr more work wise???? PS: We are fine, he isn't mad at me but the words are out....