romance

United States
February 22, 2007 3:44pm CST
If you were trying to bring back the romance in your relationship and bought lingerie but didn't think you looked good in it would you still put it on?
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@dusty1020 (174)
• United States
22 Feb 07
if your partner is attracted to you and you just need to spice things up, chances are he'll think you look good in it even if you dont. you can't look any worse in lingerie than without and id imagine hes seen you without d-;
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• United States
22 Feb 07
Thanks, he always tells me he likes the way I look I'm the one that don't, I'm not fat but still out of shape,I just thought I would try something different
22 Feb 07
I don't think I would. In order to spice up your relationship you need to have confidence in yourself and if you don't feel good about the way that you are looking in them you won't help the relationship much.
• United States
27 Feb 07
I agree- I definitely think that we women are way too critical of our own bodies and that half of the stuff that we see as being unattractive, guys don't notice or care about. If your boyfriend cares about you enough to be with you, he's not concerned about every little bulge and dimple that we would focus on and feel uncomfortable with. Easier said than done, right? As far as the lingerie goes, I think that it's most important to go with what you are comfortable with so that YOU feel sexy. If you are willing to to take a chance- try the lingerie. You may be surprised at how you feel when you see your boyfriend's reaction! ;-) Good Luck!
• United States
13 Mar 07
Thanks for your responses! I am very critical of myself I expect more of myself, it's ok for other people to be out of shape but for myself I don't like it, even when I was pregnant I couldn't stand the weight!
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
if i have bought a lingerie and when i put it on and i don't look good, even if its the most expensive i won't dare wear it. I believe that looking good also includes the clothes that you wear.
• United States
4 Mar 07
This just happened to me tonight. I bought a piece of lingerie that was very small. I got it online and didn't want to waste the hassle of returning it. I had to alter it myself. It was a money saving solution, hehe. Well for a while I didn't think I looked good in it at all. But I knew he was looking forward to something new so I worked with it to make me feel good in it. Eventually I did and he loved it! But if I thought I looked hideous in it, like a freakin clown I wouldn't, lol. But I am not as critical on myself than some women are.
• United States
13 Mar 07
It's a good thing you have the ability to alter things, I would have just said forget it and stuffed it in a drawer. Good for you! I'm glad it worked out for you.