Your husband got another girl pregnant... while you are 7 months pregnant..

my goodness, why havent i watched this on the news? I thought that james yap was nice and all- he looked like he really loved kris- he even had a goldilocks commercial! this is very dissapointing- james yap doesn't look like some guy who's gonna cheat on kris- oh well- it happened already- for me- i am sort of in the same situation- being pregant for 8 months and single- the guy who got me pregnant doesn't want responsibility for this- considering that he was my 1st boyfriend and we were together for 5 years- he doesn't wanna take the responsibility of marrying me (as that would be the most responsible thing to do specially with the culture here in the philippines), because he doesn't love me anymore-and He's in love with someone else... i really wasn't expecting that he would turn out to be THIS irresponsible- and heartless in a way and super selfish. I wasn't expecting all that from the only guy i ever loved- i was very crushed, dissapointed and in so much pain when he told me that he chose his girlfriend over me- its still hurts. I wanted to ruin his life as he did mine- but its futile- revenge is not ours anyway. You could say that i still got some love left for the guy, but this is more of the "I-give-up-on-him" attitude- like i dont care whether he goes to hell or something- i just dont wanna care anymore- he doesn't deserve it, and im tired of giving chances to him and having myself get hurt all the time- Did i forgive him? im still in the process, im praying that i eventually do get the strength to forgive him, its really hard considering that you've been nothing but nice to him and love him and all and yet you get voted out of his life becase he just doesn't love you enough.. sh..t really happens,i dont know if this is Gods way of teaching me that HE is NOT the guy for me and he never will be or if there is still hope that this family wont have to suffer brokeness if I just wait in Gods time... in conclusion: men are not just rats..they are far beneath rats- im sorry but i have completely lost all hope for mEn-kind because of what ive been through- but i do believe that there is still a certain someone for someone- but on the process you will have to go through tons of wrong ones before evetually meeting the right one- your lucky if you met the perfect guy instantly, well for some of us.. love really doesn't come easy... despite of these facts- just be happy sis! put on a happy face and always pray that you find Gods best in time... :)

i think that guy has to get his act together.. or get out ... i could never stay with a guy that got another girl pregnant while he was with me and i was pregnant .. i would dump him faster than he could explain himself.

Ouch. I feel really sorry for the children. Yes, us man sometimes (most of them) are rats. What awful situation.

i've heard about james' affair with a spa attendant, but i didn't know about the rumor that the girl is pregnant. oh well, kris should have expected this to happen. he married a guy who is very much younger than she is, and i think james is not that mature yet. did you know that james left a pregnant girl too before he started courting kris? this is true because that girl was a dormmate of my friend. we all know that no matter how talented and intelligent kris aquino is, she always ends up with the wrong men. i guess that's the price for being too famous and too rich.

men r rats and women r cats. they always want eat them . men have more mucsle mass to be ate, even they doesnt leave the hardest meat of man(jokin). topic u have raised is seen differently according to community.

i heard about this, my mom and i were watching Kris, Boy Abunda and Cristy Fermin program "The Buzz" last Sunday, when they announced that Kris will be speak for the first time about the issue, i was puzzled that time coz im not aware about the issue their taking about, but because its about Kris Aquino - well most Pinoy will be interested in listening to that. well about the issue, i do understand Kris on were she stands she wanted a family ever since a whole family that she can call her own, if were in Kris' situation because were married and im giving birth to our child in 3 months time, ill forgive my husband, give him 2nd and last chance and try to move on. why? if i really love the guy, most probably i could give him a last chance, for the baby, the family and my self as well. im not saying that would be easy but we can try and start a new. they say boys will be boys but take note of this- MEN - before making a decision or doing anything please don't be selfish, keep in mind and understand what your girl would feel if ever you've done something wrong...

Leave him now

Sometimes it's not totally the men to be blamed. Nowadays women are quite aggressive and uninhibited, especially if they are trying to win someone famous or popular. Naturally, men will just succumb without hesitation because they don't lose anything. Men are weak when it comes to temptations, do you agree?

Well, I really think Kris shouldn't abort the baby just because she heard rumors that her husband got another girl pregrant. Even if it was true, she still shouldn't abort the child because the child has nothing to do with his father's actions. Also, I don't think all men are rats, you just haven't found the right man for you. If you say all men are rats then that includes your father, grandpa, brother, priests, the pope, etc. =)

Awe my heart breaks for her . I don't know what I would do in that situation for sure . I would hope I would have the guts to leave and I believe I would but as I have never been in that situation , I can't say for sure . Love has a strange way of distorting things to another reality where you believe what you want to see and not what is right there in front of you . It would be a scary situation for her to leave the lying , cheating *** that is doing this to her when she is so close to having her own baby but at the same time what are the chances that he is really going to change .

Yikes! No wonder James Yap looked odd when came out at the buzz during Kris' bday basg, Kris was kinda cold, i switched channel right after that that's why i did not cathch the one where he said sorry. I don't think this an easy thing to let it slide and a apology accepted. Well, different stroked for different folks. It's a pity just when they looked kind of good together, but hey it's their life, we are just onlookers.

For me, I think Kris should have left James. She's a lot older than he is. James is a basketball player and most players are playboys. She should not have married him anyway. I heard a rumor when they were still dating that James only courted Kris because they made a bet on her. Poor Kris, she can't even find a decent man for her.

extra marital affairs something that a man can hav throughout but women cant after being pregnant.i think man should be barred from doing so it can .it may not only affect his wife but may even effen affect his child.

If I was in this situation I would definitley want to leave him, I mean thats just horrible that he got another girl preg. This is how i see it, all men are rats, there are just some worst than others, but im not going to turn lesbian because of that. lol Its like my grandmother says, your with a man, lets say 10yrs, you find out hes cheating, then what you leave him right, you find another man, what happens eventually his a** cheats on you as well, its like basically having to change men every few yrs. I dont know if you understand what I mean. But in that situation, I would definitley leave him.

Well all I do know is this is sad to do to another person. There is no love when one person in a relationship is doing that kind of thing behind the others back. If I was her Id be keeping the baby and divorcing him and taking half of his stuff when I left.

my! i like kris nad james yap should never mess with her. but then, it's a rumor, right. if i were kris, i will first make sure if it's true. in case it is, i'll tr to calm down for my baby and settle things when i can.

no way i would boot him so far out the door its not funny. i would keep the baby but he would be long gone. that is wrong no man should do that to their wife. she should not for give him. well at least i wouldn't

tsk tsk tsk. for additional info. I was really moved about the interview of Kris during the showbiz talk show last Sunday, The Buzz. She said that she was really hurt and that she opts to stay in the relationship. She stressed that it is her choice to stay "married" it is her choice to stay in the relationship. I also think James, her husband is really sorry for what he has done, I have seen his face as meek as a lamb last Sunday. But I however hate what James has done. I cannot imagine how he ever thought of laying in bed with another woman when his wife is pregnant and needing his attention. Kris is a very strong woman, but I cannot further think how James could have done it. It has been rumored that this SUnday Hope, James's mistress will be showing herself to Philippine television to give her statement. WOW! I just wish they'd give Kris a break. She's pregnant for goodness sake!

Some guys are rats you cannot point at all of them generally theres still one or two good men out there the fact is their just little of them and it seems to change the perception of girls out there that guys are really that evil or what you say rats. Try to not look at it this way because me myself is uncluded when you say were rats. I respect all the women out there i appreciate their feminity and i think the world wont be complete without them. I too a from the phillipines and im shocked taht james yap could do such a thing but when you look at him he's quite the typical good looking trustworthy guy. Too bad that happened. Buy may i ask is the rumor really true?

If i am Kris, i would calm down first and try to get all the facts right. Of all people, Kris should know that in the showbiz that the things you hear, 70% of it is not true and just rumors or just used to take pull somebody down. Then, after i got all the facts, if all things lead to the possibility that it is true, I will personally talk to my husband and ask him point blank if the news is true. Then as a very mature, intellectual and professional person, deal with the situation. I will not just attempt to take my life and the life of my baby because of a so called rumor.