I just made a fool of myself today :(

I'm very surprised to hear that you were able to get THAT much information in a text message to someone that your bf would be so upset, I understand you say there were a series of text messages but you could start by sending him a text saying that you were telling your best friend why you were upset yesterday and you were only part way through explaining it when you sent him the message by accident and that you can even show him the later messages to him to prove that you weren't just slating him. Guys don't know how we think, my ex overheard a conversation between a close friend and me years ago but only heard part of it, my friend was talking about my ex's friend and said how she thought he was really hot and I said "yeah XXXX is pretty good-looking, who wouldn't agree with that?" That's the bit my ex heard but what he didn't hear was me saying "It doesn't matter how good looking he is though, he's an arrogant git and I'd never fancy someone who fancied himself so much and he's a real male chauvinest pig as well!" My ex was really hurt thinking I had been admiring his best friend when I was trying to make a point that looks aren't everything. I am crossing my fingers for you that your bf understands you were just sharing a bad experience with a friend and that you are relieved it's all over now and that things are ok between you and him again. Maybe you can even show him your post here!

well, the only thing that you can do is just to explain it to your bf and tell him that you just want to share your feeling with your best friend... that's it... if he is mature enough, he will accept it... good luck...

That's too bad but I can certainly see how this could happen. I believe I did it once with an email a long time ago when I was still green. I would just leave it as it is and wait for him to come to you. You've made several attempts so he will contact you if and when he wants to talk. He really should understand because I think when guys talk it's worse then what we would say to a girlfriend.

Friend, you did an honest mistake, so I think you have to calm yourself first. Though I feel that I should blame you, I think there's no use of doing it so. The best thing to do is approach your man, explain to him everything, and if possible, also bring your friend that you said you were talking to at that time. Bring her, just in case you need someone to back you up. Forget about the things that you accidently send to him, all you have to think of right now is to how you would solve your misunderstandings. I hope that you would do the right thing. If you love each other, then I think only the both of you can patch things up!;) CHEER UP!

i think you have offended him so much.but then,everything has happened.you can't take it back.so accept what's going to come.if you were meant for each other,everything will just come along fine at a certain time.just keep your fingers crossed.if no solutions made,find another but be careful the next time you're into a relationship.find reservations to yourself if possible.take time.

We all make mistakes. Let him be for now. You explained your side that the text message was not intended for him. It is so shallow of him to not talk to you ever just by one mistaken message.

I hope that he will understand at some point and that you two will be talking again and continuing your relationship. It must have been pretty bad for him not to respond to you at all. Hopefully he will not want to break up with you over a text message you sent. I will keep my fingers crossed for you that he calls or text messages you back so you can talk about it and clear things up hopefully.

Honest mistake or not, you felt you could tell your friend more details, harsh ones at that I bet, and that can be what sets a guy off. Personally, I don't have a problem talking about anything and everything with my wife, and although it isn't the same for woman and most men should know this, we still think it sucks to think of our wife/girlfriend as our confidant but not the other way around. When my wife and I were dating, she had a little bit too much of me at one point, and posted a blog (a blog I didn't know about) about it which was very harsh. I came across it eventually- I was very surprised, I didn't know she felt like that at one time. I confronted her, basically stating that it hurt that anyone that came across her blog knew more about certain things in our relationship than I did, and that if she has a problem with me it's best I know about it, or else I'll just keep being a problem. It wasn't much of a big deal, now we confide in each other more and air our differences regularly, and I think that's best. We're very happily married, and I know there is "girl talk" still, that'll never change. Long story short, I think everything will be fine. Good luck and take care! Jim

I think you have bought this upon yourself, if you want to confide in someone, confide in your bf, that is what a relationship is about, not b1tching to you gfs. Not only will he probably not, as you put it, understand about girl talk, he should not. all the best urban

INteresting topic since I have experienced the part of your boyfriend. Where my girlfriend and I had a fight including through text but then she accidently send the message intended for her friends to tell bad things about what happened between us. It totally hurts. Im a guy and I admit it. Yeah it hurts. I dont think ill be embarrassed with what you told your friends since I think that you have told them everything, Good or bad things about me. If I were you, you should just let him cool down. Give him some space. Never rush things. He is still upset maybe. Just like I did when I experienced the same thing. Girls, girls, girls. Often, text messages are misread and are misinterpret. Maybe you need to talk to each other, personally. And settle your problems and explain and so & so. Best of luck

That is terrible. I think you really need to have an explanation to your boyfriend. See him in person and plead. Sometimes we need to be careful with our actions.

don't be scared, try to talk to him face to face and explain him everything, tell him you did a mistake. I hope he will understand!

hi again! how are you doing? is everything ok with you and your boyfriend now? :) hope everything's fixed now.:)

hi there! wow, that's kinda embarrassing but dont feel bad now. accident do happens. no one is perfect. things will be ok. he'll come around once he's cooled down. so just relax and have some patience.:) when he comes to you, just have him listen to your explanation and apologized for things what he read what you texted about him. it happens to me before and i came to him and explained to him personally just to make him believe that i didn't mean it. if you can't take it to wait for him to come around for couple days, try to come to his place or call him to talk.:) i hope this helps a bit. good luck and i hope things will be alright between you two.:)

if you make a fool. why not you do that again?

i understand how you feel. i too have a longdistance relationship and its really hard with only texting or emails. its easy to misunderstand each other then. i think when hes calmed down, it might be better and when hes prepared to listen, you can try again to explain him what happened. i wish you good luck

a friend of mine just sent a wrong message to her brother and girlfriend, but unfortunately, it ended with her brother beating up on my friend. just because of one message.

that's awful. someday, you will learn that it's not always the right thing to gab to g/fs about issues in your relationships. or, if you do, you don't go into major details. for example... you are having an arguement and a friend asks you what is wrong. you just simply tell her that you two are having a fight and you aren't happy, but you'll work through it. or when relaying info to a gf about a situation, you still try to keep your bf in a positive light. i talk to my gfs about my marriage, but i also know that i don't want to tarnish their image of him b/c he's a wonderful man. so, i keep everything very real and not too in depth b/c i know eventually we'll get over our issues and everything will be fine. your bf probably feels betrayed and hurt b/c as far as he was concerned it was over and then you just brought it all up again! poor guy. i feel for him. i feel for you too, b/c it would be great if guys understood us women, but they don't and few ever will. if he's worth it, then call him, leave a voicemail stating that you were sorry and you didn't mean anything by the message and you hope he can forgive you and give you a chance to explain. then, wait a day or two and try to call back if you don't hear from him. if he still doesn't answer,then unfortunately, it all may be over.... sorry.

hey buddy its also a day now just wanted to know what happened now. Did you explain to him? Is the misunderstanding over. Friend remember "some misunderstanding is needed for good understanding"

everyone will do foolish ths,so about me.do not worry