Doing the little things

@charms88 (7538)
Philippines
March 6, 2007 6:33pm CST
One stormy night many years ago, an elderly couple entered the lobby of a small hotel and asked for a room. The clerk explained that because there were three conventions in town, the hotel was filled. The clek, who lived in the hotel, said, "But I can't send a nice couple like you out in the rain at 1 o'clock in the morning," "Would you be willing to sleep in my room?" The couple hesitated, but the clerk insisted. The next morning when the man paid his bill, he told the clerk, "You're the kind of manager who should be the boss of the best hotel in the United States." Maybe someday I'll build one for you. "The clerk smiled, amused by the old man's "little joke." A few years passed. Then one day the clerk received a letter from the elderly man recalling that stormy night and asking him to come to New York for a visit. A round trip ticket was enclosed. When the clerk arrived, his host took him to the corner of 5th Avenue and 34th Street, where a grand new building stood. "That," explained the elderly man, "is the hotel I have just build for you to manage." "You must be joking," the clerk said. "I'm most assuredly am not," came the reply. "Who are you?" stammered the clerk. The man answered, "My name is WILLIAM WALDORF ASTOR." The hotel was the original Waldorf-Astoria, one of the most magnificent hotels in New York. The young clerk who became its first manager was GEORGE C. BOLDT. This article was pass on to me by a good friend, and has been with me for years. Everytime I read it, I was always filled with compassion. The clerk did little thing that stormy night and big thing came to him by nd by. Often we get so caught up in our work and in a world that idolizes higly successful and glamorous people that we ignore little things. As a result, we neglect something if it does not have a dollar value or a direct relationship to our success at work. Do you ignore the little things like dropping someone an encouraging note, or extending them a deserving "thank you?" How frequently do you take time out of a workday to help someone, or to help faithful people reach and serve others?
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@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
7 Mar 07
I have heard this story before too. It really touched my heart as I sat and listened to the preacher. You are so right. People are so self centred these days. We can hardly find the time to say hello as we pass each other much less to reach out a helping hand. I always try to help others because as we help others we find that we too are helping ourselves. Thanks for a great post.
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Thank you for the warm response, bluegem.
• United States
2 Feb 12
Yes, humans have generally had to design many words that start with "self" Selfish, self-centered, self-justifying, etc
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
23 Mar 07
Funny thing happened tonight. I left early to pick up my wife. Now at the end of the highway exit ramp I get off at there's always one or more homeless people standing there for hadouts etc. I almost always give a dollr or 2. Well tonight I was broke. So I asked the young ragged couple if they wanted some coffee. I didn't expect to say yes thinking they needed cash first. I was surprised when they said yes & got into the car. I've given them money before and the police know them so they aren't trouble makers etc. i TRUST THEM AS THEY TRUST ME. I SEE THEM ALMOST EVERY DAY. Anyhow I took them to a coffee shop and we talked for 30 minutes. They told me how nice I was for doing this. And I told them Im not the nice ones they were as they left the only place that they can get cash for every day things. It touched their hearts as well as mine. Damn there goes the topic I had wanted to start tonight. HAHAHA. THANKS FOR THIS TOUCHING STORY. happy postings from grandpa bob !!
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
LOL, grandpa, this topic is old already. You better post your newer ones. Its nice to know that there are still kind hearted souls left in this world. Happy posting, grandpa.
@perugu (5279)
• India
8 Mar 07
hi,friend,yes,a little thing/decision make change whole life.Even we neglect some minor points,but for the successful men,there will not be any minor and major issues,thats why they became successful man. In this incident,the owner wants such a clerk to satisfy cutomers and at the same time collect revenue also.
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@melody1011 (1663)
• India
9 Mar 07
I try to help people whenever i can. However I do that without expecting anything in return. I always imagine my self in their place and wonder if it was me asking for help would there be somebody to help me?? Thats what motivates me to help people. Not the monetory return. the satisfaction of seeing a happy and relieved face is more than enough thanks.
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@jigishap (595)
• India
7 Mar 07
Hi charms its good story I also try to help people as I can.. But you know one thing this all happen in story or rare generally its not happen with general person
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
Sad but true. Its very rare nowadays to find kindred souls.
• Singapore
7 Mar 07
Nice story you've there, charms88. I do take time to appreciate the finer things, and show gratitude for them. Everything happens for a reason, no? The kindness you do for others will ultimately return to you many folds. So don't always measure what you can get out of it when you have to do something. If it feels right, just do it. ;-)
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
Very well said, wizard. We have to admit though, its very rare nowadays to see this kind of people.
• United States
9 Mar 07
in my life it happens a fair bit. i've helped strangers when i can. i've shared cabs, given change when i had it. but this is the most extreme example of this i've ever heard of! this is called 'paying it forward' in spades!
@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Thank You for the *smile*. I do try to help out everyone I can. I say Thank You probally a hundred times a day verbally and typed. I encourage my children to remember to say their Please's and Thank You's too.