frustrated
By prttynpnkw83
@prttynpnkw83 (444)
United States
March 7, 2007 9:06am CST
Okay i have a situation. My boyfriend and i have been seeing one another for about three months now and everything has been really great. We see each other normally on the weekends when i don't have to work. Now he currantly doesn't work and lives off of SSI. He also lives with his mommy for the mean time but is moving out he has found a place thank god!!! But any time his brother comes over or his sister he wont come over to my place. He always and i mean always chooses his brother over me. Now his brother comes over EVERY WEEK and there ware times when i want my boyfriend to come over on the weekday and yet my bf says no that his brother is coming over and that he can't. What should i do. Should i just ignore the fact that im getting picked second or should i really let him know this bothers me and tell him to knock it off?
4 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
oh what should I say? Well ... I guess you just have to talk to your bf...you dont have to make him feel that you are against his closeness with his brother. His love for you and his brother is different. Maybe you could ask him to give you a separate time. Anyawy you have said that you're only 3 months... so maybe you should consider the fact that you're relationship in not yet that deep. Maybe the were discussing important matters or for some important reason he cant tell you... Give him enough time...
Anyway just let him know how much you wanted to be with him...=)
@marina1981 (627)
• Italy
7 Mar 07
tell him about your feelings, speak and try to find a solution with him. it is not good at all being picked up in second place...
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
7 Mar 07
be carefull,dont ask him to choose between his brother and you,you may lose him
@KingCold (29)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Tell him that you want to see him, but don't tell him that he should 'knock it off'. He's not a child or a bad puppy. He obviously has a close relationship with his siblings and you should force your way in between them. Tell him how you feel and see what he says. And be open to suggestions. Don't close your mind to options you may not have considered.
