Would you marry an ugly but intelligent or good looking but with no brains?

i would rather have someone with brains than good looks but thats just me

I would and did marry a man that I have something in common with. Not saying we're smart and not saying we're stupid. People ask why we've been together soooooooooooooooo long and my answer is...you have to be friends first.

I would choose the ugly but intelligent. Why would i want to have someone who I cannot have an intelligent conversation with?! Besides the prettier she the more likely she is to be conceited and superficial! I want a woman who is down to earth!

I married an ugly but extremely intelligent man who was also a great teacher and a wonderful father. I admire a lot of people for their looks, but I wouldn't want to waste my time even talking to them if they don't have brains. Anybody who marries just for looks deserves what they get, and that usually isn't much.

The ugly man, hands down. Good looking is fine and dandy but if I cared that much for eye candy I could always spend my mornings in Starbucks or an athletic club. :) Anyway, let's face it, one day I won't be capable of much in the bedroom, so I'd like to at least have someone to talk to. :)

If I am a man I will choose the latter, but if I am a woman I will choose the first one. As a man, I'm very proud of having a good looking wife. I will take her to all places to show my proud. As a woman, I don't care about my husband' appearance, but he must be intelligent, then I can live a better life. Frankly, it is the social's demands. When I love a person, he will become handsome and intelligent even he is ugly and no brains.

meh i wouldnt want either but if i had to id take good looking lmao

When one gets to know a person even someone they believed to be not as attractive at first can become better looking when you realize how decent they can be . Looks are not that improtant in life as we can all be good looking in our own way as long as we are clean and take the time to dress nicely . I would definitley prefer to have someone who was intelligent then to a good looking guy who would only think about himself and his own needs anyway .

Looks are not as important to me as brains. When people get older their looks tend to go anyway. So if I am around for the long haul and not just a fling, my answer is obvious.

Neither. I couldn't stand being with a man with no brains; I place high value on intelligent discussions and I want a man who I can stay up late with and talk about recent scientific advancements or business strategies. I couldn't be with an ugly person either. I take good care of my body and I expect the same from my partner, and I want to be sexually attracted to my partner. Call me shallow if you want but I think it's important.

Hello, It wouldn't matter if they were ugly,handsome,stupid ,or smart . It would matter if ther were nice and if I connected with them. R

i will choose the former without hesitation because i think intelligence is more important to men. besides a very handsome partner will make me lose self-confidence.

Well it depends on how un-intelligent she is. But i would give looks a wee bit more priority.But if it's the extremes then smart is the answer for me.

i rather go for the brains cus its not his facial looks that will provide money and shelther for the house.i'll go for someone who is determined in life and ready to make hay while the sun shines.

For me it's a lot less about looks and brains and more about if we have similar interests, how he treats me, and if our personalities are compatible. It doesn't hurt to have someone who is smart or attractive, but those are down there on the list of things that I consider. I would marry an ugly, smart person or vice versa.

certainly, i will go out and look for a happy compromise. if there is none that i can find around, then i'd opt not to marry at all.

Good looks aren't important to me, so I would go with the ugly but intelligent man. I would rather have a decent conversation with someone who knew what they were talking about as opposed to someone who didn't and was just DUH :) How boring life would be LOL

No, neither. I can't do the ugly thing and I can't do the dumb thing. He has to be good looking and intelligent. No partialiy for me. I have to have someone good to look at and someone intelligent to talk to. That's it that's all. No ugly or dumb dudes for me. It just wouldn't work out for me.

Brains are so much more important than looks. The truth is, if I like her for who she is, she will always be pretty in my eyes.

well firstly i'm pretty intelligent myself.But i'm going to be vein and say i'd marry good looking with no brains. Why? Well i would have enough brains for both of us and i'd make the important decisions taken away all the presure from her.In turn that would just leave her to carry on looking good.Also i wouldn't want to be seen with someone pig ugly on the end of my arm(well i did say i was going to be vein)when i step out i want someone who'll turn heads. But let me tell you,you can get both intelligent and good looking all in one.My wife turns heads when she's out and is very intelligent.I guess i'm luck