Are girls are harder to raise than boys?
By Stephanie5
@Stephanie5 (2946)
United States
March 25, 2007 8:53am CST
In my opinion, YES!! I have 4 boys, and then I got my girl. She is 2 years old. She is wayyyy more demanding and curious than my boys were. She constantly into everything! And punishing her doesn't seem to do any good. She just goes right back to doing whatever it was that she got in trouble for.
They always say "Terrible Two's". For my boys it was age 3, not 2, but now I see where that saying came from cause my girl is DEFINITELY IN THE TERRIBLE TWOS, Lol!!!
Do you agree that boys are easier, or do you think girls are? I think I'm going to have to hang everything important in my house from the ceiling, or hang her from it! Duct tape her to her time-out stool, lol. JUST KIDDING!!!
I look forward to your responses and any tips you can give! Thanks! Have a great day :-)
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56 responses
@excloudstrife6 (157)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I agree! In our family, I'm the only son and all the other siblings are girls. Their so SENSITIVE and sure lot of NEEDS.
Makeup, cellphones, iPod, beauty essentials and other more! Not like us boys, our needs are the basic needs. We can live without those vanity sets.
But to think girls so good in studying. And that's what I adore to them.
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
26 Mar 07
Well I am not married yet, and doesn't have children yet, so I am not speaking in the light of as to how a parent would actually speak.
As for me, the possibility of having trouble raising a girl would be because having a girl would make you want to protect her more, you would probably be more worried of your daughter in terms of protecting her from the outside world. As for boys, it is somehow okay for them to wrestle, and get bruises once in a while, they are expected to do such so the burden seems lighter.
But in fact kids are kids and they act like kids. It is probably just that you want your daughter to behave better than the boys for the plain reason that she's a girl, and she is kinda expected to be more fine and not so hyperactive and physical as the boys.
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@smurfettewv (359)
• United States
26 Mar 07
my kids are differnt 3 girls easy as pie my son lordy lordy he was in everything and demanding still is.
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@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I have seen my nieces BOYS are more active than the girls.
Boys love to climb anything that is high, girls love to touch/get anything she likes.
Boys are adventurous with new things, girls are too curious that they get themselves hurt.
Boys doesnt like reading much, girls LOVE to hear short stories.
In terms of raising them, my cousins are having a hard time with her BOYS because they are so Energetic. However my Brother is having a hard time answering his daughter's curiousity demanding for explanations.
I guess both have its ups and downs. For me i would like to have a girl because i love to dress them up... BOYs i love too... i want to have 2 boys and 2 girls.
@domesticengineer (576)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I think boys and girls are the same nowadays. My eldest is a girl and my youngest is a boy. Though they have 3 years gap between them, they still act the same. They would fight against one toy even if there are a lot more to play with. They're shouting every time. They're really driving me crazy. I can't just let them play all alone because I'm too worried that they'll hurt each other. I just hope I'll pass this stage still be as composed as possible. But there were times also that they truly adore each other and kiss each other. When one is not around the other one would look for her or him. Haayyy. Please help me Lord in this road I'm now traveling.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
27 Mar 07
Yes they are believe me and it gets worse lol
They go through the Madam stage, the spoilt Stage the Tantrum Stage, the Demanding Stage and then the Teenage a stage lol Ok when she is 18 it should all start calming down a bit.
@mom2chriskel (1060)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I have one boy and one girl. My son was very laid back, my daughter is busy, busy. She is more demanding in everything she does. I know my mom said the same about me and my brother.
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@design (849)
• Ireland
25 Mar 07
No in this house it seems to be the boy that is soooo demanding, the girls were great but my little man who is only 15 months is a terror, he pulls everything out of the cupboards at the first available opportunity, He kicks the back door and screams until you let him out, OK he can't talk yet but he is so much harder and slower at a lot of things than the girls were.
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@design (849)
• Ireland
25 Mar 07
He also eats things like coal, drank from the fish antibacterial med, and most recently tried to eat the ink pad from his sisters stamp set. aaaagh, I feel like taping him to the thinking chair too sometimes lol but he's much more affectionate that the girls.
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@ackars (1942)
• India
26 Mar 07
I think its guys...guys are too naughty from childhood itself..they try to explore in to everywhere which is there in their genetic make up...they make too much of noice and when they grow up they develop anger fast...but in case of gals,they usually turns to be calm and problemless as they grow up even if they were naughty when they were kids...guys gets too much more freedom than gals and they like to spent it in their own way..there,if someone even if parents interfere make them really upset.They argue with parents and even talk to them back...their daily expenses and total expenses is too high compared to gals(bikes,movies,money spenting for gal and guy friends etc...) for which parents should tak care of...if you ask about any of these to guys,they get angry so fast..but I do agree that there are gals who also are very difficult to grow up...
@gaofei994 (33)
• China
26 Mar 07
I thing everything is fair in this world. If in early stage,girl is harder to raise than boy,but when they were grew up,boy may cause more trouble than girl.
Do you think so?
So,don't worry,your little girl will be docile growing with age.
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@deesamps (653)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I totally agree on girls being harder to raise. My daughter is such a little drama queen, with her it is all emotions with my son he is calm and pretty much just one emotion at a time going. With her it is like 2-3 emotions all going at once. But I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world!
@ecarol178 (9)
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26 Mar 07
Yes! they are i have a 17,14 and 3 year old all girls! the older they get the worse they get , trust me lol !
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@texasclassygal (5305)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I totally agree with you that boys are far more easier to raise than girls. I had my girl first and by the time my son was born (some 18 months later) I thought something was wrong with him so at 6 months I took him to the doctor to be tested, just knowing that there was something horrible wrong with him since he was not demanding at all, went to sleep right after a nap and did nothing that his sister did at that age. The doctor laughed at me when I brought him in and only said to me "you just got a good baby that is all", to this day (my daughter is 27 years old now) her whole life has been like this, she is still very demanding, needs lots of attention is the drama queen of our household. Even though I believe it takes different methods for different children I believe little girls do require the extra attention they are demanding but just never vary on your discipline for her also, she needs this from you as much as your boys do. Good Luck.
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@krishnasaikanth (117)
• India
26 Mar 07
i feel the same as you say , as they are more demanding and they are more sensitive and demand more attention than boys who learn from things around them , but in the case of girls they have to be spoon fed ;)
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@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
26 Mar 07
Hehe, I've not married yet. but i see your topic is interesting. My sister has a son and a girl, and i used to look after them when they are little kids. i think the common is that boys are much more piquant, and you have to watch on them every time. on the contrary, girls are much more coy, they don't try those dangerous games like boys. at least that's the case in my sisters. to say why girls are harder to raise than boys, i think that's because people often think that boys should be brave, any dangerous games will not frighten them away. while, girls are timid, easy to be hurt. they may cry for falling down, but boys do not. so you have to be more careful with the girl.i think that's the point.
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@mannu123 (144)
• India
26 Mar 07
I have two kids, a boy and a girl. I had a tough time with my son. He kept shouting for every single thing he wanted and his demands were never ending. My girl , she is much gentle than him.Girls are much softer and they behave well.