How do you get rid of hurt when fallen out of love with ur BF/GF

China
April 6, 2007 11:57pm CST
I am very sadness,my girlfriend left me,i love her very much.i don't know how to get rid of the hurt.
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9 responses
@deltax (287)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I'm sorry about that. But if you really love her and she does not feel the same way anymore as you do, then it's really time to let go. It won't be easy but time will mend your broken heart and get you back on your feet. You have to move on with your life. There will still be someone out there waiting for you. Maybe she doesn't deserve you after all. For now, all you can do is to keep yourself busy. Being idle will only remind you of her and its not gonna help you at all. :)
• China
7 Apr 07
Thank you,deltax. it is real bad for me this days.but it is fact that she is never back. May be time will mend my broken heart.
• United States
7 Apr 07
I am so sorry you are broken hearted.I would say only time can heal your hurt.Don't give up on love though.Sometimes things happen for a reason.I believe there is a someone for everyone.Give your broken heart time to heal & don't let bitterness seep into it.Never let a bad situation make you bitter,let it make you better!Take care & give it time.
• China
8 Apr 07
"Never make me bitter, make me better." Thank you very much for your advice.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
7 Apr 07
give it time. Time is the only thing that gets rid of the hurt. When the time is right (and you are the only one who knows when that has happened) you will move on and love again Just take time out and let yourself heal. The best of luck to you blessed be
• China
8 Apr 07
Thanks a lot. Glad to read your comment. i just take my time with my colleagues and my friends for walk,for sport.
@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
7 Apr 07
Just because someone leaves you , it dosent mean you have to sit grieving. Give someone else a chance to have a relationship with you. Meet other people and move forward in a positive direction. Keep yourself busy with things that you enjoy. Try not to spend time looking back and spend more time looking forward.
• China
8 Apr 07
I working hard,go out with my friend to walk evey dusk.i not recall her do my utmost. Thanks for your advice.
• India
7 Apr 07
hey frn, its really terrible to live with a broken heart and especially when the person you love breaks up with you. i'm sorry for you. I'm married and I love my spouse with all my heart and soul but at times when we have big fights I feel worried what will happen if he leaves me and go. I can't imagine how I'll survive if God forbid, someday he has to leave me! Infact, even the same question that you have asked keep coming to my mind. But the answer that my heart gives to me is that I will never be able to get rid of the hurt so I try my level best to avoid any situation that can ruin our relationship. But in your case its different. your girlfriend has already left you and now the only thing you can do is to move ahead in life. I have heard elders saying that time will heal you wounds but if you want them to be heal soon then start meeting with new girls. after all, everything happens for the good.I'm sure you'll find someone who will love you for her whole life. All the best!
• China
8 Apr 07
love is great, if you love her/him,you would do everyting for her/him.and you never complain.so i am admire you,pls love your spouse every day. best wish for you!
@bkfuels (1603)
• Canada
7 Apr 07
Boken Heart - How to mend a broken heart.
Time heals all wounds, she just was not the one for you. I know it hurts now but one day you will find the one you are meant to be with, just hang in there she may be right around the corner. Good luck to you.
• China
7 Apr 07
Many thanks for your reply.
@marci3 (245)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
I'm sorry to hear that but you have to accept that you weren't meant to be together. Be thankful for all the wonderful memories you shared and be grateful that she came into your life. It would take time to get rid of the pain, but your heart would eventually heal.
• United States
7 Apr 07
dieting......oh this works all too good. If you don't have any wight to loose....work on firming, toning, anything that is all about you.
@dpauli (407)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 07
Several reasons to think of to get rid of it : 1. She may be not the best for you, sooner or later you'll get much better even the best for you. 2. At least, you have ever felt in love and be loved. That's better than never. 3. There must be a good lesson in your relationship. Bless and thank for it, you'll be a better one. Cheer up, bro. The sun shines brighter after the rain.
• China
7 Apr 07
Thanks for your advise.i will let me forget it. yes, i have ever felt in love and be loved.it can help me mature.