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rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

living hell

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rajeshfgh I try really hard not to think about her, but I get to see her everyday at work and so all the memories come rushing back. It is her sweet smile which deals the blow and it is very difficult to avoid it. I will try to get busy with some hobby or another person...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Hey, thanks for the suggestion. I think I need to start looking out for a hobby which will keep me focussed and divert my attention away from her. I hope that something happens really soon and ends my misery.

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Hey, nice to hear that you got what you got him in the end. I have even found myself running after this girl, only to feel like a big fool and stupid person, cause she never really had any interest in me. In my prayer to God, I had suggested that either her...

6 Sep 11

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rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Hi cowgirl, at least somebody out there is going through a phase just like me. I don't know if I must say that I am pleased to hear this or I am pained to hear this. Yes, seeing the person everyday, makes things really difficult as you can't switch your mind...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Hi Judy, I agree that we can't force somebody to start liking you or be with you. This is the hard part about life, where one person likes another one, we find the other one is behind a third person. It is like one is chasing the other with no perfect matches....

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Yes, the heart ache is unbearable. I had heard that love is sweet and lovely, but here I am, in my first experience with love all that I have got is sorrow and a mighty heart ache. Love really is very painful! I have tried focusing on her flaws, and like...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Hey, thanks for the blessings! Yes, you have summed it perfectly. Same feelings I am going through, don't know what I like about her. At first I thought that it were her eyes, but I started looking lesser and lesser at her eyes, to avoid eye contact. Now, I...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Thanks fiercepinay, I really hope that what you say becomes true. I have made up my mind to stop thinking about her and even have started to avoid her at work. Yes, I guess it will take a lot of time for even myself to get her completely out of my thoughts and...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Yes, surely triple. I have to stop thinking about her otherwise it will drive me crazy. Having said that, I am still thinking about her I will try and do or think about something which will make me forget about her, at least for the time...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 4 Sep 11

I am going through a very dull phase in my life when the girl I long for has no interest in me. I have tried to pacify my heart ache by making myself understand that the girl is not interested in me, but her memories does not seem...

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rajeshfgh Hey, thanks! It really gives me some hope. I will try and socialize some more and try to find out some other girl who has some feelings for me. As for now, I am trying hard and avoiding her at work. I have even trained my mind not to look at her and just...

6 Sep 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

fallen in love

girls

not interested

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rajeshfgh I don't think that she has any medical conditions, neither that she can't manage two things at the same time. She is quite normal while interacting with other people in the office and even sharing a joke or two with them, in person or over the...

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh Yes, maybe it is the professional ethics which she is resorting to, but why I say her behavior is unpredictable is that she does not do it everyday. Once or twice in a week she will suddenly land up on my desk and wish me a sweet bye while going home. In the...

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh Thanks for the suggestion. I don't think that I can do such a gesture in office as ours being an IT company, there is strict security at the gate and if some gift or parcel arrives, the person is called up to the security desk to claim the parcel. Even if I do...

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh Yes, certainly, I will try and be my own self around her and not go out of my way to appease or please her. Maybe my actions will make my adoration towards her more evident and she might give me some hints too (for a change).

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh I certainly hope so. But, what do you suggest I do if she acts so strange? Should I try and talk to her every time or should I let her initiate the talk? Sometimes at the workplace I get this feeling of eerie silence between the two of us, which makes me...

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh I think you are right in saying that maybe she does not have any interest in me and that she considers me just as any other colleague. This is indeed my concern, I am unable to understand her feelings for me, if there are any. I do send her sms on various...

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh Thanks, I hope that it turns out well. She has gone on a vacation for a week, so this week she will not be around in office. I guess, I can concentrate more on my work, but when she returns it will be the same pain again. I will try and act my normal self and...

15 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh Thanks moondancer, I find substance in the reverse psychology concept which you have mentioned. Since, I am unsure what to do, I may well try it out and try and ignore her at work. But, then it is very difficult to stop thinking about her as she is right there...

14 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh I usually try and get her to speak more about herself. Sometimes I even say some humorous remarks which makes her smile. No, I don't ask questions all the time, but you can say small talk, here and there. When in a group she talks about all sorts of things...

14 Aug 11

rajeshfgh @rajeshfgh (1629) • India 11 Aug 11

I really like a girl in my office and would even say that I have fallen for her, but she does not have any interest in me, or the way she acts certainly seems to suggest so. I have tried to express my liking towards her, but every...

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rajeshfgh Yes, I appreciate your suggestion. I think I am making myself suffer a lot because of this.

14 Aug 11

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