realityhaze

@realityhaze (10)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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When is the right time to have children??

tendaheart2002 @tendaheart2002 (495) • United States 6 Jun 07

Everyone thinks that they know, and I believe it depends on the individual. Now my question is acyually what is the best age to have children. Some think you should be young, others believe when you are older. What do you think....

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realityhaze I have a daughter that is five years old. She was a surprise to us and we went through and prepared as necessary to have a child. Afterwards I chose to get and IUD. When my husband and I talked of having another it was a hard thing to do...we would have to...

6 Jun 07

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Help! Mommy's in a time out!

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 6 Jun 07

Lots of parents wonder if their kids are listening. Well, I've got proof that mine is! Today my toddler angrily announced that she was going to put me in a time out, if I didn't give her what she wanted. I laughed and gave...

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realityhaze I have had a similar experience with my daughter. May I ask if you actually did something that you have said to be wrong or did you just not give her what she wanted?

6 Jun 07

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Who like's System of Down ?

soadbra @soadbra (3) • Brazil 23 Nov 06

Who of the Mylot members like system of down (soad) ?

music

soad

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realityhaze I like them and have listened to them since 1998 when their self titled system of a down cd came out.

6 Jun 07

Talking to your children about death

Swtrose @Swtrose (3385) • Canada 6 Jun 07

Conversations with kids about death can be extremely difficult. My daughter was only two when we came home from the hospital without her baby sister. She was three when we took her to the cemetery. We took my son to the cemetery...

children

death

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realityhaze I am not a religious person but I use it to describe death to my daughter. I found that people, children and adults, need to believe that there is more than the lives we live. I guess the hardest thing to explain is the why. Explaining that without making them...

6 Jun 07

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lack of disciplne lately...naive?

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 5 Jun 07

I wonder, is the lack of discipline we see lately a matter of parents not knowing what to do? I mean before spanking was considered ok, but now people get judged by it. So, is the lack of discipline based on people not wanting to...

parenting

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realityhaze Discipline is hard enough without worrying about what everyone else thinks of what you are doing. There is a difference between hitting your child and swatting their butts. It is each parents choice on how they do it, the most important thing (in my opinion)...

6 Jun 07

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learning from my patients..

maribea @maribea (2366) • Italy 6 Jun 07

It is a fact that my patients can often teach me a lot and can do for me more than I can do for them..so yesterday I went and visited a patient: end-stage multiple sclerosis, she could move only her right arm and her head, she...

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realityhaze It is amazing what you can learn when you just take the time to observe and listen to people. It takes a good person to be able to be around people that's body it failing them and still see the beauty of their mind. It must be a rich experience to learn about...

6 Jun 07

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Holding the door

SmokePiff @SmokePiff (436) • United States 5 Jun 07

when u go to a store and have to open the door and someone is behind u that u don't know do u hold the door for them????? what do u think of a person who doesn't hold the door???me personally i always hold the door its just...

doors

holding

holding doors

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realityhaze I hold the door open for people also. I don't so much think that it is rude not to do so though. Anymore it is hard to get a wave or a smile from the people around you. There isn't as much trust in the fellow man these days. I like to be nice to people but I...

6 Jun 07

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What Do You Do With Your Spare Change?

freak369 @freak369 (5113) • United States 5 Jun 07

You you throw it in a jar or leave it on the table? What happens when you get tons of it? Do you take it to a CoinStar machine and pay the 9% counting fee or roll it and take it to the bank? I have to admit, I am a change...

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realityhaze I collect my change in an old coffee can. I do count and roll it myself. When I was a waitress I was able to go on vacation with the spare change. Now I go through and buy surprise gifts for my family

6 Jun 07