redhotcurl

@redhotcurl (7)

United States • Age 52

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My Family - I can't seem to stop enabling them

linda345 @linda345 (2661) • Canada 10 Dec 06

I have a very mixed up family. My oldest daughter is a 20 year old single mom. My 19 year old son is a drug addict and an acholic. My 15 year old is in foster care because we both decided it would be for the best. She also has...

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redhotcurl Only you can stop the cycle.You have to let them accept responsibility for themselves.People have to learn to take the bad and turn it into whatever they want it to be.Quit enabling them.Your husband has a right to be mad.It sounds like he cares about you and...

10 Dec 06

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Searching for Mr. Right seems like forever

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 10 Dec 06

Searching for my Mr. Right has made me feel more alone as before. It has almost been forever. Love lost, love found, fling here and there but still no Mr. Right. Is it really that hard to find the right someone? Or my...

love

mr right

searching for love

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redhotcurl Quit searching and he will come.There is no mr. right out there. If you can find one person that has 80% of the qualities that you are looking for then you can learn to deal with the 20% he doesn't have.If you love him and he loves you then the rest can be...

10 Dec 06

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Love or be love

rebel_angel @rebel_angel (60) • Singapore 10 Dec 06

Have anyone of you ever consider this before, is it better to be love or to love someone. If there's a person who loves you more than his/her life, but you don't have that feeling for him/her...and you have a someone whom you love...

love angel

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redhotcurl I have had both loves in my life. To be loved by someone but not to be in love with that person makes life difficult. You tend to think the grass is greenier somewhere else until you get there.Then when you love someone else and they don't love you that same...

10 Dec 06

I Need your ADVISE plleeeeeaaaaaassseeee!!!

sweetbabe77 @sweetbabe77 (224) • Philippines 10 Dec 06

I have been separated from my husband since april this year due to some personal problems...He is too irresponsible, no job at all and flirty..but i admit i also have some shortcomings when it comes to our relationship, then i...

relationship

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redhotcurl you can't taech an old dog new tricks. You will be better off with out him. Take care of you and your kids.

10 Dec 06

Love, and all that is entailed.

chrisie @chrisie (207) • United States 9 Dec 06

I have been in love with someone once in my life so far that I can say, I really loved unconditionally and with my whole heart. I lived and breathed for that person. I made sure that I stopped and considered my actions and how it...

love

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redhotcurl You will know when you find love. Love does't hurt and love makes you feel good. It sounds like you may have lost who you were in that other person. When you find yourself you will find someone to share love with.

10 Dec 06

Do you remember what you did wear as clothes to your first date?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 8 Jan 10

Is not easy to forget your clothes, what you wear first time when you meet your actual husband or wife, or your lover...can you remember? Do you still keep this clothes?Are like a nice memory for you? You remember your hus/wife...

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redhotcurl Is not easy to forget your clothes, what you wear first time when you meet your actual husband or wife, or your lover...can you remember? Do you still keep this clothes?Are like a nice memory for you? You remember your hus/wife clothes too?what...

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Opinions please......

wahmoftwo @wahmoftwo (1296) • United States 9 Dec 06

I have a ten year old daughter from a previouse marriage. She recently spent a weekend with her father. When she returned home she was telling me about what they had done over the weekend. She said that they had seen two movies...

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redhotcurl I think it depends on the maturity of your daughter. I think some ten year olds are very mature while others are not. Do you trust your daughter? Do you and your ex have a good relationship maybe you should ask him about it? I think kids know a days are alot...

10 Dec 06

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