rexiemay

@rexiemay (401)

Philippines • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

confessions of an erratic mind

Responses (230)

rexiemay's Responses

Is it really possible for ex-lovers to become friends?

risseyprincess @risseyprincess (73) • Philippines 15 May 08

Is it really possible for ex-lovers to become friends? I have been getting different opinions eversince. I'd really like to hear your stand on this issue :)

friends

lovers

relationship

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2 people

rexiemay yes it is possible but it depends on how the couple separated and if they are comfortable of becoming friends even after the relationship. i guess the answer to this question varies from every person. personally, i dont like to become friends with them because...

7 Jun 08

Should I change, for him?

kavanaugh @kavanaugh (1) • United States 7 Jun 08

Im in a relationship for a little over a year. This is my first real relationship. I love him, if he has a number of things he thinks I should change about myself, does he have a right to ask this of me? Am I wrong for changing...

relationships

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9 people

rexiemay we have this idea that if a perso loves us, he would accept us for who we are. but sometimes, this idea is twisted. i elieve that if a person really loves us, he would want us to change for the best and would help us strive perfection in everything we do. do...

7 Jun 08

tips

franxexces @franxexces (1096) • Philippines 30 Apr 07

You should never love someone who would betray you, who would never show his or her trust, and would never ever let you feel loved.. Don't talk too much when your mad.. You might say things you don't mean to say.. Remember there's...

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rexiemay yes i agree with what you said. love is complicated sometimes and the person we love may not love us back. but in everything always remember that we should know how to love our self first in order for other people to love us. and when the right person comes,...

10 May 08

he's dying and he wants me to stay away?

yellowhipon @yellowhipon (793) • Philippines 30 Apr 08

my boyfriend has this rare blood disease... i've tried to be strong for him and i've been supportive all throughout his ordeal. But now he wants to break up with me... He said he lost his lust for life. He doesnt want me to have...

death

love

relationships

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9 people

rexiemay if i were in your place, i will stay with him even though he is breaking up with me. show him that you love him until his last breath so that in the end you will not have any regrets. show him that you care even though his days are numbered already. let him...

10 May 08

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1 person

advice please...

aiyreen @aiyreen (286) • Philippines 10 May 08

i feel really bad due to my ex's ignoring my son. we're separated for a about 2 1/2 yrs now and he lives in the province, about 7-8 hours away. he used to give financial support that's just enough to put his son to school. that's...

family

kids

support

3 responses

rexiemay there are guys who leave behind their responsibility after getting maried. what you can do is to ask him to support his kid. legally speaking, you could ask for support through a court case. in this way, the law can protect your kid.

10 May 08

When You Catch A Taxi...

Malyck @Malyck (3425) • Australia 4 May 08

Do you try to have a conversation with your driver, or do you tell them where you're going and leave it at that until it's time to pay and leave? I got to thinking about this when I was in a taxi on my way home from the theatre...

communication

people

travel

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5 people

rexiemay i have this habit of engaging into conversations with taxi drivers. some get rude but others rae really nice. its nice talking to them because i get a lot of insights about their lives. i also give advices from them regarding erligion, politics,government,...

4 May 08

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love...

dwarfyray @dwarfyray (65) • Philippines 4 May 08

Is it possible to love two persons at the same time???? Or both are just an infatuation??? Can you help me?

glernil love

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1 person

rexiemay yes i honestly believe that a person can love 2 persons at the same time. but i believe that he can commit to only one even though he love both. there are so many people who have endearing qualities and person can be attracted to so many people at the same...

4 May 08

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can you be friends with your EX who treated you so bad?

mkchaves @mkchaves (530) • Canada 1 May 08

i have this belief that when lovers broke up, you wont/cant be friends anymore. me and my bestfriend would argue about it because she wanted to be friends with her EX and i told her that she cant be friends with her EX after all...

friendship

love

relationship

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15 people

rexiemay i will never be friends with someone who treated me so badly. i could forgive and be civilized with him, but being a friend is out of the question. i believe that i have enough friends whom i could trust and i dont need him to be one. besides if you loved him...

2 May 08

can you love someone to much?

foundmyangel @foundmyangel (607) • United States 26 Apr 08

I was just wondering how you feel about loving someone or being loved so much that you felt smothered from the other person? Can you be loved to much? How much is to much for you? ME I am a passionate person and feel like my Wife...

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2 people

rexiemay yes i can love someone so much and it is one of the best things that could happen. it is okay but you have to check if how you express your deep emotions is not smothering the one you love. if you are smothering someone so much, then maybe it is jealousy or...

2 May 08

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how do you get out of love.....

monishavakil @monishavakil (1019) • India 2 May 08

can anyone help me here? what do you do when the man you love very much just does not love you anymore. at any moment in time he reminds you of it, treats you like you mean nothing to him at all. what do you do? how do you handle...

love

12 responses

rexiemay hi. if you feel that the man you love doesnt love you anymore, then let him go. maybe you were not meant for one another. why would you still hurt yourself by allowing him to treat you that? dont ever let a person do that to you. love your self so that others...

2 May 08

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single for a long time

edward_leo_2000 @edward_leo_2000 (4) 2 May 08

it's like you're breezing through life. That's how i feel. As of the moment I really don't feel that I am sigle, in sense of the word. I feel that i have not enough time for myself. Enjoying is a top priority right now. I maybe...

6 responses

rexiemay being unattached is okay. in fact it gives you more time for yourself and also those loved ones like your family. it also gives time for your heart to heal and rejuvenate. it makes you appreciate the feeling of being alone and being attached. it gives you...

2 May 08

Would you choose money over love?

broken_emotion30 @broken_emotion30 (33) • Philippines 2 May 08

It is easy to make money and earn it if you are not too lazy to find it. But we know now adays that our economy is getting down and so many people are unemployed. Everyone is wishing to win a lottery so they could buy what they...

heart with soul

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1 person

rexiemay i will never choose money over love. i believe that you can find monet easily if you are just patient and wise but love, it is very hard to find. you will scour the depths of the earth and you still cant find it. you will experience pai and there is no...

2 May 08

Who many hours can a man should work in a company.

dharma150cc @dharma150cc (539) • India 23 May 07

I say that at the most 12 hours in india are abroud with a good salary and benifits we can work. I feel that it is not all the guys and girls. But for week persons it may be about 8-10 hours is preferrable. So that there body...

company

hours

4 responses

rexiemay i think that normally, a person should work for 8 hours and if he exceeded beyond that time he should be granted an additional payment. the terms of payment depends on the contract and also the law of the country.

26 Apr 08

horror

indirasambath @indirasambath (2) 26 Apr 08

you are the last person in the earth ..somebody knocking your door ... what would be your reaction?

you alone

5 responses

rexiemay i think i would be surprised and happy at the same time that maybe, another human being is alive and would be with me. i would also be afraid since ive been thinking that i am the last person and the one who is knocking may not be exactly what i am hoping...

26 Apr 08