sandy_xtine

@sandy_xtine (29)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

just be yourself!

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third party - is it their fault?

amaine @amaine (2027) • Philippines 13 Jan 07

i have known a lot of relationships falling apart because of a third party , , whose fault is it really? , , the third party? , , what do you think? , , i mean , , if that person knows that her guy has a girlfriend already , ,...

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sandy_xtine Cheating whatever the form is, is stil wrong!! I had a relationship where I allowed my guy to flirt with someone but he must be careful that they will not be caught. I did that because guy likes that way and it's cool..You just have trust to that person. But...

26 Feb 07

hate these!

fujin1985 @fujin1985 (684) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

I hate it when some people call me selfish after denying on a single favor, considering all the petty and huge things I have previously done for them. I hate it when some people don’t appreciate the good things I’ve done for...

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sandy_xtine that's the reason why we always say SPEAK UP!..Don't keep to yourself what you feel. You may suffer from heart disease if you always do that..hahaha!.. seriously, if someone done something that you don't like, try to confront them so that they will not...

24 Feb 07

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my boyfriend always tells me what to do

make7upyours @make7upyours (287) • United States 19 Feb 07

like when to go to bed, get off of the computer, don't go on myspace, don't talk on msn... It feels like he is my father and it is getting on my nerves... Is this an unheathy relationship or normal

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unheathy relationships

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sandy_xtine Men wants to be dominant in a relationship. They always want that what they say should be followed. Why not tell him what you feel about that?Maybe he can understand if you will just explain it to him. You're not a child to be treated like that.

19 Feb 07

New interest categories!

BunGirl @BunGirl (2638) • United States 4 Feb 07

I don't know if anyone else noticed yet, but it looks like myLot has added some new interest categories: Products that I use Technologies that interest me Automobiles I have driven or would like to drive Roles that I play in...

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sandy_xtine thanks for the info

7 Feb 07

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kid-infested friendster! help!

fujin1985 @fujin1985 (684) • Philippines 4 Feb 07

Just a while ago my 11-year old sister and her peers were surfing the net, with me finding out that they've had their friendster accounts already! Oh, and they're wise enough to put in that they're 16 years old just to be...

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sandy_xtine well. internet is open to all. you can't blame your sister for doing such because they want to be"IN"..just guide your sister and i know you will..

5 Feb 07

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how to keep relationship last forever?

jules2007 @jules2007 (10) • Philippines 15 Jan 07

hey guyz wanna know your opinion or suggestion on " HOW TO KEEP RELATIONSHIP LAST FOREVER? thanks...

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relationship

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sandy_xtine trust and love are always the foundation..if you can keep that i think your relationship will last long..

4 Feb 07

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Breaking Up... Through phone, text, email, or personal?

annalie823 @annalie823 (23) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

This is really weird. My friend's boyfriend just broke up with her through text message. Isn't just that a cowardly act? I mean why would some people do that? Some would probably prefer this kind of break up because they can...

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sandy_xtine The boyfriend of your friend is really a coward. Why do some people do that. Maybe they are afraid of what will that person do. Another reason is guys don't want girls to cry. Some guys are really soft hearted when they see there girls cry and they wil not...

4 Feb 07

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I Have Never Insulted Like This In My Life !

ILANEDRI @ILANEDRI (1921) • Israel 3 Feb 07

I met a girl online. We used to talk a lot, and she always send me messages. She is originaly from Poland, so our conversations is in English. Anyway, yesterday we talked in the Microphone on MSN. I told her that I will be back...

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sandy_xtine maybe she misunderstood. I have a colleague who is from Poland. She is hot- tempered and don't have that long patience. Well, maybe generally speaking they are like that. It is right that you forgave her. ther's nothing wrongg woth that. It's your nature that...

4 Feb 07

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Working Overseas....

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Im really confused right now.. believe me and this has caused me sleepless nights... i have a stable job, i work as a supervisor but i hate the pressure we got at work, and its not worth the stress i get there, they pay too little...

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sandy_xtine going abroad is not really a solution. It means you're unning away. Are you there for the salary or for the job?what really makes you happy?...before you decide ask those questions to yourself..Pressure is always part of work. here in abroad, there are a lot...

4 Feb 07

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i fear fate!

fujin1985 @fujin1985 (684) • Philippines 9 Jan 07

nine months have passed after i have achieved my dream of finishing school, and all the while i thought it would be easier now to handle things without pressure. still, i've got no plans for myself. it's most difficult to make my...

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sandy_xtine hi karen!thanks for recommending this site..it helps a lot.. well as for your problem, you don't have to fear fate.as the saying goes EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON..we can never tell where life will leads us. As early as now you should make plans of what...

3 Feb 07

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Do you love you job or you are just there for the money?

alindahaw @alindahaw (1219) • Philippines 2 Feb 07

A friend of mine popped this question a while ago and it got me wondering. A lot of people around the world are forced to stay with the job that they hate simply because they believe that they could not find another one better....

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sandy_xtine I am a fresh graduate. I am working as a teacher but very far from what I finished. But I love what i'm doing now.Yes, I went abroad to help my family and to experience how to work far from my family. If people don't love there work but it pays good they...

3 Feb 07

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What should be the age difference between lovers or married couples?

shedii @shedii (1486) • India 2 Feb 07

One of my relative (male) who is 71yrs old married an 18yrs old girl. I was quite shocked to hear about this on phone yesterday. I mean a person who is 71yrs old married only 18yrs old girl. I always thought the age difference...

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sandy_xtine As generation changes, age gaps are just like normal. It doesn't matter now how big is the age gap. As long as they love each other then there's no problem wuth that. But if the woman married the old man because of her money I don't think that is such a nice...

3 Feb 07