scorpiobites

@scorpiobites (298)

Age 83

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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My daugther have cancer

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 22 Feb 09

I needed moral suffort from all my lotters who can relate to my daugthers problem. She lives in the Philippines and I'm here in australia, to far buttru text message I send all my moral and any suffort I can extend.I've heard...

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Are you mindful of aniversaries.

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 24 Jul 08

In our busy life sometimes we are not mindful of our improtnat dates in the calendar.Especially our wedding aniversaries.

are you mindful of aniversaries

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Do you keep old letters?

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 24 Jul 08

When we have modern technology,about computer and mobile phones,very few write letters now.Four years ago I recieved letters from my family,now no body writing letters,they tex or send e-mails.so I just go to my old letter to...

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will you remain widow or widower?

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 23 Jul 08

Widowers tend to get involved in a serious relationship or remarry much sooner than widows. Take care not to act quickly. GO SLOW! There's no rewards for speed.

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Division of responsabilities

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 23 Jul 08

In our house we share in pay bills.. I pay ..telephone Council rates My 3 mobile phones 3 credit cards groceries cat n dog food funeral insurance He pays.car and house insurance water bills electricity video...

division of responsabilities

pay bills

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are you a carrer?

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 23 Jul 08

Caring for someone who is sick is Physically as well as emotionally draining. You may be exhausted. I'm a carrer but lucky in this country goverment looks after carrers.Where i come form we look after our sick Love one...

are you a carrer

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Friends Or Family

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 13 Jul 08

If you have to choose...In today's mobile,disconnected society,many people have lost touch with the gift of family. Your friends may come and go but the family, as they say is forever..You can select the friends you want to have...

friends or family

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Sudden death

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 13 Jul 08

If your husband died suddendly, How did you take the reality of his death.Perhaps you're angry that he didn't quit smoking or he did'nt see the doctor sooner. Anger is normal and necessary.

sudden death

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crying time

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 13 Jul 08

You may find yourself crying at unexpected times and places.If you need to or feel safer doing so excuse yourself and retreat to somewhere private.But don't feel shame, for you are entitled to your tears.

strees

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Do you prepare for your own eventual death.

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 9 Jul 08

For us we already see an attorney to make sure our estate is in order.We have funeral insurance and our will is up to date.It's not really good to talk about death but we are ready to face it openly and honestly.

eventual death

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Magic touch

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 9 Jul 08

Have you hugged anyone lately?Held someone's hand? Or put your arm around another human being?You might appreciate massage therapy.Try a session and see how it feels.

magic touch

massage therapy

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cry

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 9 Jul 08

Tears are a natural cleansing and healing mechanism.It's ok to cry,It's good to cry when you feel like it. In the other hand, don't feel bad if you aren't crying a lot.Not everyone is a crier,

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Play in the rain

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 7 Jul 08

Way back Home in the Philippines when rain comes everybody go out to enjoy the playing in the rain.The rain is warm andeven little kids have there bath in the rain.While here in australia no body play in the rain its too cold..

play in the rain

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Family

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 4 Jul 08

My children all grown up with there own family now, but still i keep in touch to see how are they ..I still send them help everytime they are in need .They don't know that I'm in debt now and can't hardly make both ends meet..but...

family

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Do you favorite daugther in law?

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 4 Jul 08

I have 6 boy's all married.I don't have favorite and when they have discussion with thier husbands ,the problem is I'm one sided bad or good I'm with my son's.BUt if to the extend that my son is un becoming I also gave them good...

Had children

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 4 Jul 08

Many countries in asia mothers have children but the goverment have nothing to do with it. Here in Australia they pay big amount like$5000 per baby and I heard it will rise to $7000. That's why so many woman are having pregnant...

had children

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Driving

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 4 Jul 08

My mother in law is85 and still driving,so I tried taking driving lesson but I have to have another learner to learn to drive again..I'm66 do you think I am too old to learn...

driving

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moved

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 2 Jul 08

my husband hates my attitude of hording so many things, i just did'nt noticed as time goes I have accumulated so my stuff that I really will not use. the problem I can't throw them away until it files boxes after boxes,bags here...

clutter

seafood

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 2 Jul 08

about 800 went missing in the sea in the philippines, and many are found floating. and the people afraid of eating fish that comes from the sea.can you blame them for not eating fish?

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When someone HURTS

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 2 Jul 08

I just want to share this: When someone hurts us,we should write it down in the sand,where the wind of forgiveness can erase it away. But when someone does something good for us,wemust engrave it in the stone,where no winds can...

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