soffenr

@soffenr (18)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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I found a great way to make money!!

shootingstar85 @shootingstar85 (183) • United States 30 Mar 09

I have found a great company to work for from home. I dont know about you guys but I am getting sick of getting paid $10 every 2 or 3 months! So I went on the hunt to find a real job that you can work from home and make some REAL...

money

work from home

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soffenr Hi, that sounds attractive and interests me. I've added u as friend and could u pls send me the site? Thx for sharing!

31 Mar 09

Have you ever SERIOUSLY thought of commiting suicide?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 30 Mar 09

Have suicidal thoughts ever come to your head? Was there a time in your life which made you so desperate and helpless, that the only "rational" thing you can think of is taking your own life? As depressed as I am, I've NEVER...

death

suicidal

suicide

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soffenr Yeah, when i met some great difficulties far beyond my ability and when i took a bad knock from some terrible experience, which made me so desperate and lose the faith of life, i thought of ending it by myself. But at the same time, i feared the great pain...

31 Mar 09

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are you friendly with all ??

ivan2000bd @ivan2000bd (1009) • Sweden 23 Mar 09

every day we have to see a lot of unknown faces when we go out for our office. we dont need to talk with them. but in some cases we need to talk a single sentance with some person. as an example when you travel by bus some time...

friendly

smilly face

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soffenr Generally, being friendly to others is an attitude of life. Do to others what you want them to do on you. Be helpful to your friends, colleages and those who are in need. A smiling face indicates a good mood. And when you smile, it is the moment you seem most...

31 Mar 09

Do you have the habit of taking a nap at noon?

my1341 @my1341 (456) • China 31 Mar 09

I had a nap just now. I feel quitely refreshed ,more energetic and can focus more attention on my work. Nap is definitely beneficial to our health. Do you have the habit of taking a map at noon?

at noon

nap

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soffenr Yeah, i do. It's a good habit. After finishing lunch, part of the blood in brain comes to ur stomach to help digesting, which may makes you sleepy. If you take a small nap then, energy will be saved to last the whole afternoon. Only 10 to 15 minutes is...

31 Mar 09

your first time on a plane.

xhaylea @xhaylea (361) 30 Mar 09

what was your first time on a plane like, and how did you feel? My first time going abroad was only last year in june. Anyway, I was obviously scared to board the plane, as ive heard of plance crashes and things. As we boarded...

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soffenr As for ur experience, you were scared and nervous at first, and then turned relaxed and joyful gradually. Mine was just opposite to urs. The first time i took a plane, i felt so excited and curious at the beginning for novelty. Then from the dinner served...

30 Mar 09

Recently I feel myself very bad .I often lose my temper!why?

youetme @youetme (351) • China 30 Mar 09

Recently I don't why I often lose my temper and feel very sad inside my heart. In fact I don't meet trouble on my work. I think myself over and over before going to sleep. But I don't know the reason that I feel boring and...

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soffenr "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy." As a teacher , you have to face the same students with the same words repeated to them several times every day. It's quite a daily routine job which may make you feel bored. You need more refreshment in life....

30 Mar 09

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if you friend has a better job than you, would you jealous?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 30 Mar 09

If your friends have a better job than you, for instance, better income, better work environment, and better benefits, would you be jealous? Would you thought to yourself, you are such incompetent person, who fail to find a decent...

friend

job

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soffenr Of course i won't be jealous, but envious and feel pround of him instead. Everyone's ability is different as well as the effort he has made, which makes peole work in all walks of life. Perhaps i would be influenced by my friend and try to strive several...

30 Mar 09

What do u do, when life hurts you!!

Mithoo @Mithoo (255) • Pakistan 29 Mar 09

Hi friends, as we all know that we have to face both happiness and sadness in our livies as it goes on. But in life, sadness is more than happiness. In my personal experience, when life hurts me, i do get more and more closer to...

life

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soffenr Some misfortunes ocurred to us in life are set by God, such as disease and failure. We feel painful or depressed so that we turn to God for help as well as solace, through which God keeps us more closer to and not deviate from him. God says, "Misfortunes...

30 Mar 09

What would you do?

Redhornet117 @Redhornet117 (1248) • Philippines 26 Mar 09

If you were feeling very very very sleepy and very very very hungry at the same time what you would do first? Would you try to eat while controlling yourself not to fall asleep, or would you sleep and just control your hunger?

crazy

hungry

sleepy

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soffenr Perhaps you cannot even control what you will do first. I have a friend who works at Eearnest & Young, one accounting firm of the notorious "Big Four" worldwide. Once in peak season, he kept working and did't sleep for 72 hours in order to catch the...

28 Mar 09

same food for the whole day....

mz_Ira @mz_Ira (1090) • Philippines 28 Mar 09

I cannot really eat more of the fish... 3 meals = only fish??? I had to visit a not so close friend but anyways, I was there morning til latee evening.. In the morning they already had a fish and rice, which is a bit of change...

whole day dish

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soffenr I could understand if they just prefer fish so much to any other sort of food. Or they belong to those who never care about what they eat, for just being full is Ok. But when there comes a friend to visit, it's not polite to serve him the same kind of cause...

28 Mar 09

Does it frustrate if you alone can not fix your computer?

bluemars @bluemars (952) • Australia 27 Mar 09

That is how I felt a few days ago, I was alone and it stopped working on me. I felt a little bit confused and then I started to get a bit more frustrated with it as I was not able to come online either. Perhaps its just me but are...

computer problems

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soffenr It's still lucky that only your laptop stopped working that day i would say. In technology age we live nowadays, everything can go wrong, breakdown, fall apart at any time. Not only computer, but your cellphone, digital products, TV set, fridege, microven,...

28 Mar 09

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PLEASE Help Me LOSE WEIGHT

camhiliciouz @camhiliciouz (196) • Philippines 27 Mar 09

hi guyz.. i know how affectionate and helpful MyLotters are that's why im asking everyone to help me lose weight... i work 40 hours a week in just by sitting, typing, etc in the office.. the only exercise i do is jogging for...

lose weight

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soffenr First of all, 6kg off in 7 weeks is not slow i would say. Perhaps the relative number 99kg compared with 105kg is still not your ideal weight, but the absolute one 6kg cannot just be ignored. Apparently, following diet combined with exercises is the best...

28 Mar 09

Does or has your religion ever prevented you from something you wanted?

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 26 Mar 09

Almost every religion or religious culture has rules or regulations or promotes or discourages certain things. Do you feel that the one you were born into or chose has certain restrictions that prevent you from having or doing...

choice

not getting what you want

religion

restrictions

rules

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soffenr I believe every believer in certain region has met the problem you have mentioned.To them, it's just the question of choice. First of all, the final aim of a real religion believer is to achieve "immortality", that is ,his soul will never perish despite the...

27 Mar 09

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Living in fear...

scarletwitch12 @scarletwitch12 (562) • Philippines 25 Mar 09

My father had been diagnosed with diabetes. When the diagnosis was revealed to us we felt numb and fearful. My father had always been the strong man we all looked up to. All our lives, he was the one who always took care of us. He...

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soffenr Don't worry so much. Diabetes is common in the medical circle nowadays and is manageable in many ways. People really grow up after experiencing pains. Facecd with the condition of your father, fear is unavoidable. But except for fear, maybe you coud also...

27 Mar 09

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I dreamed I'm going to die...and nobody cares

myhllim @myhllim (272) • Malaysia 20 Mar 09

I was lying on the bed helplessly, the people around me just like waiting for me to go, I couldn't feel the pain, I just felt no energy and I breathed so slow. The very weird thing is my mum was so calm. That is not the one I...

going to die soon but no one cares

weird dream

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soffenr I often have some similar experience as yours, which makes me believe dream itself is a weird and mysterious thing. Most people would contend that "You dream at night what you think at daytime". Maybe you miss your patents in mind recently for some sake, but...

26 Mar 09

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