sruthisur

@sruthisur (69)

India • Age 50

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Is it wrong to wear black to a wedding?

mamasan34 @mamasan34 (6518) • United States 12 Sep 07

My friend is going to a wedding and asked me this question. Is it wrong to wear black to a wedding if your a guest? I honestly don't see anything wrong with it, but what is the proper protocol? Does anyone know? How do you feel?

black

dress

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sruthisur Its a worldwide practise people follow that they only wear black during death mourning and in many countries its considered as not auspicious to wear black on any good occasion. On the other hand, i also see people wearing black outfits in cinematic...

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What would you do if your husband/wife criticize your body?

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 9 Jul 07

A lot of people around the world are very conscious about the way they look. Some people (not all) regard obesity as something to be avoided because it will bring more negative effects than staying slim. A lot of hearts have been...

body shape

criticism

obesity

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sruthisur According to me i dont consider relationship which goes behind the body than the mind. Now to speak on the context if my husband says so, first of all i'll think from his angle why he said so, if i'm really putting on weight and going out of shape, it...

13 Sep 07

Outgoing Indian President ..Dr.A.P.J.Abdul Kalam

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 28 Jul 07

Dr.Abdul kalam who was the Indian president completing his five year term as the president of India has gone back to Tamil Nadu where he was born, brought up and educated to take up his future career as a teacher in Anna...

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sruthisur Indeed Mr.Kalam is a boon to India. His contribution in the field of science is immense. His motivation to the student community is immeasurable. But its due to dirty politics that he himself got fedup and said that he will not be a candidate to stand for...

13 Sep 07

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How do you vent your anger?

gr8life @gr8life (6251) • Malaysia 12 Sep 07

What will you do when you get angry? Will you start to shout and scream your heart out? Or will you try to avoid others and hide yourself in your room? As for me, when I get really angry, I will cry. I will go and find a place for...

angry

cry

scream your heart out

shiver

shout

vent your anger

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sruthisur Letting out natural emotions like anger is good in our own way, but we should be little conscious that its not affecting others much, but the reality is due to our anger definitely something is getting affected, either people around us or the non-living for...

13 Sep 07

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When was the last time you shared an UMBRELLA with someone?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 6 Sep 07

As the monsoon( term used for rainy season in India) showers announce their arrival, the dusty umbrellas come out of their hideouts in Indian homes. You can find colourful mushrooms moving on streets in the rain showers, if you...

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sruthisur I have not shared an umbrella so far with a stranger. But with an aquiantance recently last week, when chennai faced good showers early in the morning during office hours, i got down from my train with an umbrella, i carry it daily cause i'm used to, i saw a...

12 Sep 07

Is Math really that difficult?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 18 Jun 07

Many students are having difficulty in Math. Most of them take up courses with lesser Math subjects. For me, Math is fun. Once you understand the logic behind those numbers, Math would be easy. I've competed in several Math...

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sruthisur Any subject for that matter, it has its own beauty, till my 9th standard i hate maths, cause i never understood the basic concepts behind the problems which i now blame it on my teacher, at my 10th standard i got a very good master who made us feel that maths...

12 Sep 07

Do you LAUGH even when you don't understand the JOKE?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 22 Aug 07

Imagine yourself to be sitting in a Movie hall along with some friends( suppose, not so close ones). You are in no mood to watch the movie, you just came over there because you are too sweet a person to say "No" to your friends'...

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sruthisur To be frank, i will laugh not because just to laugh but because its a basic human tendency that when we see our nears and dears laughing we too atleast have a smile on our face. Unless and until you are deeply sad for some reason that you cannot laugh at...

3 Sep 07

western fashion and indians

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 1 Sep 07

If the so called fashion within the Indian culture will be appreciatable and acceptable? I could see girls wearing skimy dressess in the name of fashion.Last week a girl who was wearing a dress of this kind was criticised...

fashion changes

indian culture

western fashion

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sruthisur There is a good saying "dress to please others and eat to please yourself" this is what i remembered reading your views on fashions. Yes, many girls now-a-days in the name of fashion they do lot of funny things, which they dont even know what exactly they...

3 Sep 07

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Are my advices mean nothing but only such a waste?...tell me!

add_im @add_im (2712) • Philippines 2 Sep 07

How do you honestly feel like someone is asking you some advice, they come to you and talked to you about their matters in life, sorts of problems etc...but then we you start giving your advices to them, I mean in a practical and...

advices

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sruthisur Yes, i too have experienced the same sort of situation, but i realised why this happens, actually when someone is disturbed, depressed or feel inferior only then they let out things to others no matter whether the other person is close or not, for them its a...

3 Sep 07

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Live and Let Live...

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 23 Jul 07

Religious people believe in live and let live What does it mean? It means religious tolerance. take a street, if residents belong to different religion they treat and love one another as human beings belong to one God. As...

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sruthisur Yes, religion-is just a guidance which makes us to lead a healthy and peaceful life, with certain habits which could be cultivated in a group to form unity and make our life comfortable. That's all it is. But people mistake it other way round. We are one...

26 Jul 07

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Weight Loss - How can I make it actually HAPPEN?!

bloo_equinox @bloo_equinox (422) • United States 11 Jul 07

I will need any reader to answer 2 questions for this one. 1. What kind of excercise works the tummy muscles THE MOST. 2. I know drinking only water and eating nothing for a week can make u lose 10 lbs... but that would make...

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sruthisur What type of diet routine do you follow? And how do you start your day and end up? You need to burn your excess calories which you have added up. Stop taking sweet and fat content food. Do have a regular routine of walking for atleast half an hour in a...

12 Jul 07

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Do you note down all your passwords in a diary?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 9 Jul 07

Many of you must be using different passwords, for the security reasons. Its good to use different and lengthy passwords in different arena. Its always advisable to use more than one password as we won't be losing all our accounts...

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sruthisur Its good to make a note if we use too many then we should surely make a note of it. Recently i had an experience, i got confused with the username and password i created and forgot and could not retrieve it back. Finally i lost that account. That day i...

10 Jul 07

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Do women always have to cook, especially in a family?

caesarin @caesarin (1089) • Indonesia 9 Jul 07

In the past women always cook for the family. These days men make great chefs. I have this story and need your comments. A couple with one difficult child of 2 years. Mother doesn't cook very well but like to try new recipes...

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sruthisur Many a homes more or like the same scenes are observed, mostly in homes where the women too go for work outside, but we can see at homes where women are at home. I dont know why they are not dedicated to the kids as our parents and forefathers were. Men make...

10 Jul 07

Suppose you are 50 and never married.

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 8 Jul 07

I will find somebody to marry me. Lol... I need a companion especially when my age is getting older. We need somebody to rely on, isn't it? What would you do?

relationships

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sruthisur We need a person to care and share throught out all ages of life, why after 50, you mean that after the age of dependence we need a person, no its exactly not like that, yes the feeling that we need more after the age of 50 is because of the fear that we might...

9 Jul 07

Would you leave your mother in the Foster Home?

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 7 Jul 07

Nowadays there are many issues arised about sending parents to the foster house. There are arguments that parents shouldn't be sent there. Children who send their parents to foster homes are considered to be lack of love and being...

foster homes

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sruthisur We should not send our parents to old age care homes. There is no big sin than this we do in our life. If our parents think that we need to earn and we will not raise family we will not be there now, They have been loyal and hardworking to keep up our...

9 Jul 07

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