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sunshine08 @sunshine08 (17) • United States 29 May 12

I have always believed that a person can settle for being friends after an ended relationship. But as they say, the heart is sometimes stronger than the brain. Well, we both tried. As days passed by smoothly, it became harder each...

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sunshine08 I love this response! It made me think deeper. Thank you! I could not agree more.It gets harder when I focus too much on my emotions. Indeed, I have learned a lot.. And it gets better each day. I feel more at peace with myself. It's just that, sometimes,...

31 May 12

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sunshine08 @sunshine08 (17) • United States 29 May 12

I have always believed that a person can settle for being friends after an ended relationship. But as they say, the heart is sometimes stronger than the brain. Well, we both tried. As days passed by smoothly, it became harder each...

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sunshine08 erratum: As of ME, reality is hard to bear.

31 May 12

sunshine08 @sunshine08 (17) • United States 29 May 12

I have always believed that a person can settle for being friends after an ended relationship. But as they say, the heart is sometimes stronger than the brain. Well, we both tried. As days passed by smoothly, it became harder each...

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sunshine08 You are such a strong woman. As for you, reality is sometimes hard to bear. That is why I give my all just so to avoid regrets. Yet in the end, I suffer, give up. It always depends. The level of emotions that you both have and under any circumstand. You are...

31 May 12

sunshine08 @sunshine08 (17) • United States 29 May 12

I have always believed that a person can settle for being friends after an ended relationship. But as they say, the heart is sometimes stronger than the brain. Well, we both tried. As days passed by smoothly, it became harder each...

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sunshine08 Sigh! Thanks for the response.. As they say, time has a way of healing.. I thought I'd feel bad because of my decision. As of this moment, I feel at peace. Knowing that I did what shouldve been done a long time ago.. It took me time, and a lot of strength...

31 May 12

sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 Thanks Alicia! You see, when I love, I love deeply. I decided to continue my friendship with him because I feel that its all I can have. But the consequences is torturing me inside. I just tend to hide it because I dont want him to pressure with my existence....

4 May 12

sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 I know in time, I'd be able to move on.. I have been trying the past 10 months.. At least we both have tried.. Its just really hard to unlearn the things that youve already learn. And not get used to the daily routines with him. It is sometimes loneliness that...

4 May 12

sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 So my first comment was not posted. ugh! Anyway, thanks so much syra. I am still 26. I know I've got a long way to go. And if I havent mentioned yet, He is not yet married. He and his girlfriend has been together for 3 years. He tried to move away from the...

3 May 12

sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 I am not sure if my previous comment was shown.. But This post really made me feel a lot better... Thank you!

3 May 12

sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 I understand. The guy though is not yet married. And you know what, despite my situation, despite the pain, if he has a conflict with his girl, I tell him to understand the girl and all. Martyrdome as they say. That's just really how much I love him...

3 May 12

sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 Thank you so much! Your post made me smile. It is indeed the toughest. All i could do is just cry alone because releasing my emotions to somebody might cause be judgements that harder to bear. I am doing my best though to love myself more. Easier said than...

3 May 12

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sunshine8010 @sunshine8010 (1) • United States 2 May 12

It's the toughest. Judgements, Shame, dignity, self-respect. All these I needed to deal with each day. It was never planned. I just loved, all emotions. Did I care about it being accepted in the society? being understood? I never...

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sunshine08 certainly true. to clarify though, the guy is not yet married. God knows how many time ive tried to just really let go.. sigh!

3 May 12

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