syj070741

@syj070741 (55)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Go for it~~~~~

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What holding you back to enjoy your life

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 19 Jul 11

I was so envy those people who can go around the globe, and see the real world. I also admire those people who has been to almost 50 of states, and they see everything and enjoy every bit of it. When I look back at myself, I...

holding back

life

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syj070741 Hey, we are facing the same situation. How much i hope I have the opportunity to travel around the world! But be realistic, I have a debt to pay, and still saving money for further education. Maybe travel abroad is too expensive for me, but it's okay sometimes...

19 Jul 11

I saw a photo in your wallet...is it ME?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 18 Jul 11

Some people put their loved ones picture in their wallet. Some put their personal photo. Some don't and you can only see cards and money. I have my kids photo in my wallet always. And recently I added one more photo that I...

loved ones

personal things

photo in wallet

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syj070741 Oh!!! I should keep my parents' photo there~~~Going to print it out~~

19 Jul 11

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Which drink to order?

raj_gupta @raj_gupta (311) • India 17 Jul 11

Very recently I was in this cafe having a meeting with the team of one of my potential sponsors for a project. While we were discussing, as is the trend that someone who is not interested in the proposal after only five minutes...

cafe

drink

name

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syj070741 I've never been in this "drink" situation before. But it's fun, you don't know what you are going to get. And it will be more interesting if the waiters are not allowed to let you know their ingredients. There is a restaurant in Shanghai, you'll get a flash...

17 Jul 11

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my husband cheated on me.......

preciousfel @preciousfel (8) • Philippines 16 Jul 11

i love him too much give my very best to him but he cheated on me. At first I didn't find out that he's doing bad things behind my back til I found out that he has a girl. They both deny. The time came that he got the girl...

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syj070741 I'm really sorry to hear this. Do you still love him? And do you think you could still trust him like before? If you said yes to both of the questions. I think you can try to forgive him. But if you said no to one of them, break up with him right away! I have...

17 Jul 11

If you're down, how do you rev up?

visminda_824 @visminda_824 (153) • Philippines 16 Jul 11

Some have said that running can help one get rid of the symptoms of depression faster than any other psychotherapy. In a research conducted, patients complaining about depression had to go out and run three times a week for half...

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syj070741 I will go to a book store or a shopping mall to distract my attention from the depression. I believe once your depression is distracted, it's gone. Sometimes I go to park or amusement park to see children playing or even play with them. It's very helpful.

16 Jul 11

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For My Future Health I Have to Simplify

mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 16 Jul 11

I am reading an article that really hits where I need it. It is talking about living a life of peace by living simply. I do not have any heath problems except vitiligo, which is the loss of color pigmentation. This is worsened...

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syj070741 Hi Cathie, it's important sometimes to slow down a little bit. I totally understand you. But for me, things are not going to work out if I slow down. I have three jobs, and still so much things I want to try to do in my life. That's to say I'm rushing every...

16 Jul 11

Tell me what your name means...

mrshernandez623 @mrshernandez623 (146) • United States 30 May 09

Go to this website, type in your name and let me know what your name means or where your name is generated from: www.20000-names.com/index.htm Its kind of interesting... My name means: Libby - Pet form of English Elizabeth,...

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syj070741 HEY, there is three characters in my name, first one Shen, my family name;second one Ya,in chinese, means be with my dear mom and dad forever! And the third one Jin, a beautiful jade, my father wants me to be elegant and beautiful as jade,not cold!

30 May 09

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Wait for marraige...

Beertjie @Beertjie (976) • South Africa 19 May 09

Are you married, how long did you wait before you got married after you have met. How did you know it was the right person. If not married, how long would you wait after meeting the right person. How would you know it is the...

marraige

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syj070741 We are in the same boat! My family is worrying about me.I told them I just want to wait for the right one,I don't care if he is to come or not! But I will keep myself waiting, that's my words! My mom is up to something, like blind date for me! oh no!

20 May 09

Men who COOK for you!! Aren't they sexy??

asianwind @asianwind (365) • Philippines 17 Apr 09

Hi guys!! I'm sneaking again LOL... Ok... one of my secret fantasy is to have a man who cooks special meal for me...The way men move in the kitchen is so hot. Forget about the food, pretend its good even it is bad just think...

cook man

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syj070741 never agree with you more! hehe the guys are so sexy when they are cooking for you! yes,yes,yes!! unfortunately, there is no such man in life so far, and i'm expecting one!

18 Apr 09

Body Piercings on GUYS! Are you girls OK with it?

asianwind @asianwind (365) • Philippines 10 Apr 09

Body piercing such as ear pierce is very common right now... Are you girls ok with it? If your man has or or planning to have it would you be ok with it?

body pierce earring guys and girls

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syj070741 Hi beauty! I'm not ok with it,I mean if my boyfriend want to have a pierce, I'll talk him out of that. that makes me uncomfortable

11 Apr 09

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I looked in my closet recently and realized...

taface412 @taface412 (3175) • United States 10 Apr 09

I need to go shopping. The only problem is I am low on extra funds for this. So I guess I better get moving on my online earning for the extra dough to supplement my new found discovery of out dated clothing, outdated hair and...

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syj070741 shopping is my career! I'm trying my very best to find a better place to go and to struggle for a good buy!And I dont like the luxuries and i can not afford that! All i want is the competitive price and the style just for me..maybe not so up to trend, at...

11 Apr 09

Can you sleep well in a strange bed?

yinmm007 @yinmm007 (605) • China 9 Apr 09

Do you feel that is difficult for you to fall asleep when you in a strange bed or a new bed you never sleep in?It is difficult for me.I will feel no sense of security in a strange bed. Sometimes only the first night i cann't feel...

bed

sleep

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syj070741 we are the same!Maybe the first one or two night is really difficult for me to fall asleep. But there is one thing that I dont like others including my best friend to sleep on my bed!

9 Apr 09

what is love according to you???

pratik87 @pratik87 (1927) • India 9 Apr 09

Different people have different ideas about how love should be and what love actual;y is. scientists say love is a a state of mind caused by release of chemical substances in the brain or something like that. what is you...

love

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syj070741 i love you not because who you are but because of who I am when I am with you! That is love to my understanding! Maybe a little bit ego-centric. But I dont believe the crap that " i love you because you are the one, you are elegant and blablabla..... Have a...

9 Apr 09

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Big blow ! My boyfriend kissed another girl ,i saw for myself !

hollysun @hollysun (97) • China 9 Apr 09

My heart is broken.I couldn't believe my own eyes .....Several days ago,i came across something heartbreaking.I saw my boyfriend was hugging another girl and kissing her affectionately.My brain became blank suddenly.I have been...

heartbreaking

love

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syj070741 Honey, say goodbye to him ASAP and such playboy doesn't deserve you! I know you are heartbreaking and acturally, this is as far as you can go. Don't hesitate, you'll forget him someday and it is just a matter of time! Believe me! Tomorrow is another day!

9 Apr 09

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Do you miss being a kid?

smooch091784 @smooch091784 (973) • Philippines 8 Apr 09

I do! A lot actually. I always hear this, "You can never turn back time, so make most of it.." Very true! I miss a lot of things being a kid. I miss the times of having fun without worrying anything. The good old times with my...

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syj070741 i miss my childhood!esp. my childhood friends and i dont even know where they are and what they are doing now! it is an truth that we can not turn back time, we have to move on and on! we all have different path. To have the same good memory when i grow old, i...

9 Apr 09

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Do you consider yourself patient?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 8 Apr 09

Patience is indeed a virtue. But I don't think that's one of mine. You see, I don't like waiting. It's not only waiting for someone to come type of a deal, I don't like waiting for news (in cases where I have no idea what's...

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syj070741 i think i;m not a smart bird!So, i guess i'm the patient one!

9 Apr 09

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Should We AlwaysThink For Future

rock2722 @rock2722 (19) • India 8 Apr 09

Dear friend, I want to share about my friend. He is unmarried now and his earning is very handsome. His family condition is also very good. he is financialy strong. But only one thnk is very bad in him, he is too miser and...

dilemma of the life

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syj070741 i'll enjoy my life now, at the same time i'll save some money for emergency,like getting fired or unexpected disease! I dont think sense of security come from money, money is just a part of it!

8 Apr 09

How you get noticed in a crowd ?

tony_terance @tony_terance (219) • India 7 Apr 09

Many people will try to get notice in crowd...and they will succeed in it .How you try to notice in a party or meeting like that?

notice

party

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syj070741 fart loudly!haha kidding ! Have a good day!

7 Apr 09

I REALLY hate to admit this...

miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 6 Apr 09

I've been resisting this particular realization for quite some time now. It's just not something I am ready to admit. I was told that it was coming. I chose not to believe. But it seems that soon I will have no choice to admit...

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syj070741 Don't worry! it is not that bad to wear a reading glass. i'm short-sighted and i wear glass for almost 8 years! You said you don't want to give in to " growing up" and you are already optimistic enough! that's great! Have a good day!

7 Apr 09