tbmomin

@tbmomin (25)

India • Age 43

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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tbmomin's Comments

dont get ingredients for Thai food!

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 2 Aug 10

I love to cook. And I specially love to have Thai food. But I Belong to a small town in Asia and we dont get all the ingredients out here. I dont even know what kind of lime is khaffir lime, what kind of lemon grass is used? Can...

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tbmomin Thanks dear. Im from a small northeastern town of India. Im sure most of the things are available in our area but I just dont know them. We dont even get premixed packages in our town and we have to go all the way to the state capital to get it..hehe. Anyway...

7 Aug 10

Do you sometimes have trouble saying NO to a person?

m_perez @m_perez (506) • United States 6 Aug 10

I really think I have trouble saying No to people. Every time someone asks me for a favor and if I say no..then they start begging and that's when I give in and say yes. I think I'm a really a big pushover when it comes to...

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tbmomin Its always me maybe because Im quite efficent and very hard working while others try to find some excuse or the other to refuse the job. Well I work for the Govt so she has no authority to fire me. So I could have refused her anytime. However, my only problem...

7 Aug 10

do your husband help you in your household chores?

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

It is used to be that wie stayed at the house with the children and do some household stuff like cleaning the house, cooking, washing etc,. Men went to work al day to support their families. Nowadays, it takes both husband and...

household chores

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tbmomin Hahaha. Yes you are right. It could be handed down to generations. I just hope my son is not going to be like his dad. Hes just two yrs old now and Im trying my best to bring him up the right way and make him a good,responsible and God fearing person. Let us...

7 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin thank you so much for your response. I think whatever you telling me to do will also work. But yes Im doing one thing, Im praying to God and I know he's answering my prayers cause I've seen a slight change in him. God is a miracle worker!!.thank you very...

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin yes I Know I can and will. I'll try doing whatever you suggested. I love him.

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin hahaha. I will try.

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin I guess youre right. No Im absolutely sure Youre right!! Yes I need to see things from your light. I have a low self esteem and self confidence and maybe its because of the way he treats me. Im trying to gain my esteem and confidence and i hope i'l succeed....

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin Thanks dear. Im trying to do it. :)

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin hi doglady, yes I thought of that myself at one time but God does not allow us to do that and as Christians I think we should do away with such thoughts. Turn yourself towards God and He will show you the way. Pray for him and God will answer your prayers....

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin Thank you puddinggirl. I really hope and pray that things get better for you. Yes there were times when I thought of separation but now with renewed faith in God I have been able to get through the most difficult phase of my married life. I dont know what will...

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin thank you.

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin thank you for your response. well I've tried all these things but failed miserably. He does'nt like to take me out for dinner at all:(. Anyway we have some good times by ourselves by doing other things but the only problem is that he always wants to have fun...

2 Aug 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin Our lives are somewhat similar.Reading your story was like reading my own story about ten years from now. Thank you so much for your response. Im trying hard to make this marriage work and I often pray for it and I know that even though it'll take time, God...

31 Jul 10

how can i be a good wife?

tbmomin @tbmomin (25) • India 31 Jul 10

Iv'e been married for quite a few year now, love my husband and have two wonderful kids, one aged seven and the other aged two. My husband rarely stays at home and goes out and enjoys often with his friends. He usually waste away...

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tbmomin thank you so much for your response. I believe in God and pray to Him often. I give my hubby space that he needs, i sit by him while hes watching his favourite programs, i cook for him, keep the house clean because he gets angry when the house is in a mess and...

31 Jul 10