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thrupages
@thrupages (97)
Philippines • Age 41
Joined myLot 15 years ago
Sharing thoughts matters.
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Should those keepsakes be returned?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
9 Aug 09
The girlfriend of my best friend has just recently left him. Should he return those keepsakes to seal the breakup? Almost everything around him reminds him of her. CDs, books, and other smaller gifts she has given him are breaking...
keepsakes
3 responses
thrupages
I would not know where to draw the line. One fact in life says that we can never eradicate those gray areas. Part of living speaks for them. When was the last time I heard from that friend? If keeping his peace helps, so be it. If we only know what lies ahead...
29 Aug 09
Should those keepsakes be returned?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
9 Aug 09
The girlfriend of my best friend has just recently left him. Should he return those keepsakes to seal the breakup? Almost everything around him reminds him of her. CDs, books, and other smaller gifts she has given him are breaking...
3 responses
thrupages
Closure - one thing he is having a hard time dealing with at this point. I will remember your advice and share your words with him the moment he welcomes me with a smile again. Right now, things are not in a very approachable term. It has been a hard blow on...
16 Aug 09
Should those keepsakes be returned?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
9 Aug 09
The girlfriend of my best friend has just recently left him. Should he return those keepsakes to seal the breakup? Almost everything around him reminds him of her. CDs, books, and other smaller gifts she has given him are breaking...
3 responses
thrupages
I don't really know now. I don't even know how to approach him anymore. Things have changed so much. It was his cry when I posted this with only one thought - to help him out. Now, crying or not... my friend is really in the dark. He is too hurt and too...
16 Aug 09
When is dreaming too much?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
23 Jul 09
Is it still normal when one think of things and shed some tears about those things that may never come? Is is still normal that even in one's own solitary moments of daydreaming he/she gets truly carried away with the thoughts...
too much dreaming
2 responses
thrupages
I have not dreamed a frustrating dream though; one that you say could put one's self-esteem down. That must have been a nightmare. Weighing dreams can be very difficult. It is more difficult that decoding one, in the first place. Probably, my dreams have been...
5 Aug 09
When is dreaming too much?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
23 Jul 09
Is it still normal when one think of things and shed some tears about those things that may never come? Is is still normal that even in one's own solitary moments of daydreaming he/she gets truly carried away with the thoughts...
2 responses
thrupages
I thought you were pretty serious of the lines you have shared until you added that you are inviting me to play. That really disappointed me. What dreams made you cry then? Do you believe that dreaming can be too much? I would be happy to hear from you again...
5 Aug 09
Inspration for poets
mythmanpc
@mythmanpc
(15)
18 Jul 09
I need some help. I've been writing some poems recently, and I've hit a brick wall. I was wondering what kind of inspiration the myLot community can give me, and any other poet strapped for material. Thanks, guys and gals.
inspiration
poetry
writing
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1 person
thrupages
If you'd need to come to that point, why not? Real poets do what they believe they need to do for art's sake.
23 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
ending a discussion
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1 person
thrupages
I have come to realized that there is no need to end a discussion here in MyLot. You see, I am pretty organized and I find it neat that things are marked with an end; well, clearly, not in MyLot. Ending a discussion here is a tragedy. I have learned that in a...
23 Jul 09
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1 person
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
You have shared a very good point. It has something to do with originality then. It keeps an original one fresh so that people just add to it instead of copying stuff. I like the concept. Today, I have started reading pages for reading sake. I have stopped to...
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
Thank you for all the things you have shared here to orient me with the benefits of having an active discussion. Right now, I felt like shrinking. The scene in my head portrays me like a kid being told by adults here in mylot. I feel embarrassed but...
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
I must have gotten much into forums that simply leave one discussion after receiving responses, like marking every thread a definite end. Mylot is more accommodating and open. I have just learned my lesson today, not a very easy one. I felt my cheeks blushed...
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
My question was very simple and I received detailed and well-organized responses. For me, it's a close deal now. After reading the first five responses, I agree that I should be thankful instead that there might still be more brilliant ideas to help me out....
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
Your response is the fifth in this same thread. I just want to say thank you for dropping me a short note. Have your response been the first one, I should have been asking you why should I just accept it. Yet, I have learned from the earlier responses. Now,...
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
I must have skipped a lot of lines in the process of signing up! (^_^) Thank you for sharing your secret. It must have been the OC part of me. I want things clear. A thing opened needs to be closed. The concept of never-ending discussions is very new to me;...
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
Thank you very much.
18 Jul 09
A newbie's cry: How do I end a discussion?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
16 Jul 09
Hello, everyone. I have started a topic and have chosen the best response. I thought that the noted choice was enough to close the discussion. To my surprise, another entry was added the following day. For me, the topic is...
8 responses
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1 person
thrupages
I never knew I'd earn something from getting responses! Thank you. (^_^)
18 Jul 09
How do you describe a true listener?
thrupages
@thrupages
(97)
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Philippines
10 Jul 09
We communicate. We talk. We listen. We want to be heard. How will we know that the person we are talking to is really listening? How will we know that we are really touching his/her life and that we are really, clearly putting our...
really listening
4 responses
thrupages
One needs to be brave and honest in doing so. Thank you very much. (^_^)
15 Jul 09
What if this is matrix we are living in.....
harshrosicky
@harshrosicky
(626)
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India
10 Jul 09
I started this question with a different heading... therefore it became more of a political than fantasy..... responses were on terrorists and obama and press... The thing i wanted to know is what if this is matrix we are...
matrix
real world
reality
3 responses
thrupages
That person needs to define reality, may he be bald or not. Every living brain defines the contours of reality. It is in understanding these unique features an individual wraps his mind with where matrices seem to make sense and contentedly remain baffling....
11 Jul 09
are you afraid of the dark?
acie_21
@acie_21
(5633)
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Philippines
11 Jul 09
i am afraid only when i go to sleep alone i dont off my lights hehehe!when my husband go to work and leaves me at 4:00am.i never let him switch off the lights!hehehehe!meanning im coward..lol.how about you are you scared of the...
2 responses
thrupages
I mind the lights only when I am still half awake. When I've totally gone into the deeper stages of sleep, you can flash a bulb and it's not going to bother me at all. Hehehe...
11 Jul 09