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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I think that maybe the 2nd job thing will guilt him into finding a job (at least I hope so!). If you've been reading all the other posts - I've replied to all of them and pretty much the whole picture is there.

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Hi toplen. I guess I have 3 jobs now (just got a 2nd job today). He'll see that I won't be home at dinner time to fix the meal and I'll be tired. He says it's not fair to me to have to get a 2nd job - I told him it's not fair to me that he hasn't had a job in...

30 Apr 07

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Talking doesn't seem to work much with him. Maybe if the electricity got shut off he might get a clue. See my response above - I've tried talking. If he would just apply for anything and get an interview that would make me feel better, because he would at...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Your situation sounds similar to one of my co-workers. His wife does absolutely nothing. He works 10 hours a day on average, does the grocery shopping, cooks the meals, pays the bills, cleans the house, etc. I really feel for him and just don't understand why...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I appreciate your comment. However, the husband has not been working for the last 3 months and has been living off the wife (me). I don't make great money, in fact I don't even make enough to support a family of four. This is part of my problem. Since he is...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Tonight I got home and told him that I was offered a part-time job in a call center. He said he thinks I should blow it off and not go to work for them. I told him I'm going to take this second job until we are back on our feet. He is being too particular...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 You are one of the lucky ones. I wish you much happiness. :-)

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Hi dixie1. I've tried talking to him...bluntly. Told him "you need to get a job" several times. Told him that since it has been 3 months with no work, I was going to get a second job just to make sure the bills are paid. He wanted to know why and didn't...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I'm convinced that he's being lazy. He doesn't act depressed - he seems happy that he's home and doesn't have to get up to go to work. Keep reading my replies to other posts - you'll be able to get the whole story. I'm actually the one who is depressed -...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I feel the same way about my husband. Last night I got online with him and babysat him while he applied for a job online (not an online job). Told him he should hear from the employer in a week. I am the smoker in the house - I know it's bad for my health,...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I'm glad that you have a happy marriage. Sometimes it seems rare these days. I hope you have many years of happiness together.

29 Apr 07

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Hi Rosie. He won't go to an employment agency because they test and he won't pass the testing. I have been flat out telling him "you need to get a job". He keeps saying that something will come up soon. The main problem is that I really think he doesn't want...

29 Apr 07

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