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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

feelings

mortgage payment

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tnaber65 I think that maybe the 2nd job thing will guilt him into finding a job (at least I hope so!). If you've been reading all the other posts - I've replied to all of them and pretty much the whole picture is there.

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Hi toplen. I guess I have 3 jobs now (just got a 2nd job today). He'll see that I won't be home at dinner time to fix the meal and I'll be tired. He says it's not fair to me to have to get a 2nd job - I told him it's not fair to me that he hasn't had a job in...

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tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Talking doesn't seem to work much with him. Maybe if the electricity got shut off he might get a clue. See my response above - I've tried talking. If he would just apply for anything and get an interview that would make me feel better, because he would at...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Your situation sounds similar to one of my co-workers. His wife does absolutely nothing. He works 10 hours a day on average, does the grocery shopping, cooks the meals, pays the bills, cleans the house, etc. I really feel for him and just don't understand why...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I appreciate your comment. However, the husband has not been working for the last 3 months and has been living off the wife (me). I don't make great money, in fact I don't even make enough to support a family of four. This is part of my problem. Since he is...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Tonight I got home and told him that I was offered a part-time job in a call center. He said he thinks I should blow it off and not go to work for them. I told him I'm going to take this second job until we are back on our feet. He is being too particular...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 You are one of the lucky ones. I wish you much happiness. :-)

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 Hi dixie1. I've tried talking to him...bluntly. Told him "you need to get a job" several times. Told him that since it has been 3 months with no work, I was going to get a second job just to make sure the bills are paid. He wanted to know why and didn't...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I'm convinced that he's being lazy. He doesn't act depressed - he seems happy that he's home and doesn't have to get up to go to work. Keep reading my replies to other posts - you'll be able to get the whole story. I'm actually the one who is depressed -...

30 Apr 07

tnaber65 @tnaber65 (28) • United States 29 Apr 07

Does anyone else start feeling negative toward their spouse if you feel the spouse is not pulling their fair share within the household? What kinds of feelings do you have? Resentment? Anger? Can you love and hate your spouse at...

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tnaber65 I feel the same way about my husband. Last night I got online with him and babysat him while he applied for a job online (not an online job). Told him he should hear from the employer in a week. I am the smoker in the house - I know it's bad for my health,...

30 Apr 07

RobinJ @RobinJ (2501) • Canada 29 Apr 07

Hi every one do you know what the recipe for bubble stuff is My granddaughter will be coming over quite often during the summer and she loves to use the big bubble wand, the stuff that is sold in the 64 0z bottle is crap . I know...

bubble tharapy

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tnaber65 I think this is the recipe you are looking for: 1/2 cup Dawn or Joy 4 1/2 cups water 3 or 4 tablespoons glycerin My daughter is 13 and still likes to make bubbles every now and then. We have a 'silly day' a couple of times a year where we let loose and...

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dawnrm69 @dawnrm69 (1174) • United States 29 Apr 07

If you were to win a million or more what would be the first thing you would do?

life

money

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tnaber65 After paying Uncle Sam, which would leave roughly half of the million left, the first thing I would do is pay off all of my debt and my house. Then I would pay for college for my son and set up a college fund for my daughter. The rest would be invested toward...

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mckenziejohnn @mckenziejohnn (85) • Brazil 29 Apr 07

Does the way you wear your hair make you a better berson? Do the clothes you wear make you a better friend? Does it determine your integrity? I wanna talk about that, because in a world where the beauty and values materials...

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tnaber65 We do live in a very materialistic world these days. I do not believe that the outer shell of the person matters as much as what is on the inside. Values and morals are still important qualities to have. I don't wear makeup or expensive clothes, but I have...

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saraelorama @saraelorama (264) • Philippines 29 Apr 07

what would you prefer with your pasta, white sauce or red sauce? do you cook your own spaghetti? share your thoughts!

spaghetti sauce

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tnaber65 We like both types of sauces, but it depends on what type of pasta we're having. I make spaghetti with red sauce. I use Francisco Rinaldi super mushroom spaghetti sauce and add cooked ground beef. We rarely eat "plain" spaghetti anymore as we prefer baked...

29 Apr 07

navinshan @navinshan (3933) • Canada 29 Apr 07

I sometimes wonder it would be stange to hear if we call our parents by their name and also not so respectful as well, how about you all?

formal

informalparents

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tnaber65 I have had to use both for my parents, and it is strange to actually say their names instead of "Mom" and "Dad". My mom does not answer to "Mom" when out in public (this has gone on for years, ever since I was a teenager), so I have to call her by her first...

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