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vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 sacrificing the present won't be an assurance also of a secured future right? so it's really hard to choose. Both i guess has it's advantages and disadvantages. An to overcome these advantages, the couple should really be strong enough. thanks for the thought...

4 Jul 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 Life are full of choices, indeed! As a family, the couple should make a very good and wise decision, not only considering the way of living but also the kids. thanks for the thought. :)

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 hahaha sorry about that..but we do appreciate all your sacrifices as a father. It's just that a question on my mind...when do you plan to stop and stay with family for good? Yeah, thank God for all the modern technology. You take care and make sure to make...

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 That's one reality when having a family. Both have to sacrifice to have a decent living. And if your country can't provide enough job, then no choice but to go abroad. Thanks for the thought

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 yes, security of feelings specially on the kid's side still count a lot. and they can't have that if they are growing without the presence of their father. Thanks for the thought :)

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 maybe because of the long time they spent living abroad, they are used to the way of living there that they chose to go back there and stay for long :(

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 You're right. There are many other solutions because if there are no other means of providing, then all of the husbands are away from their families. Maybe the wife and the husband should plan together on how to have a decent living without the husband leaving...

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 that's true. very sad and I think father who stayed away for many years already lack of security in life if they know they can't provide to their families without being abroad or in another country. Yes, owning a business could be the solution to this but...

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 advance technology really helps to make your presence in a family but the thing is that not every move and every concern of the kids or wife can be seen on those technologies. Although, thankful that we have that already :)

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 A year or two would be fine, right but for more than five or more years away from your family, it would be so sad for the wife and kids. :( thank you. have a nice day

14 Jun 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 13 Jun 11

I wonder why there are some husbands who can stay away from their family for so many years giving reasons that they have to sacrifice to give a better living to their family. I believe staying abroad for 3 to 4 years would be...

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vangie26 Yeah, staying too long in another country is not a good idea for a family man. Kids will suffer emotionally knowing that they have a father and yet, they can't be with them physically. Thanks for the thought.

14 Jun 11

la_chique @la_chique (1498) 23 May 11

Even in the bible, God kills over 2.2 million people http://www.godlessgeeks.com/LINKS/godkills.htm I dont understand why so many people all over the world think that God is good when he has killed so many. Especially as...

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vangie26 I agree on your opinion. God is a loving God that He will take lives for no reason at all. And how can sins be forgiven if not asked and repent. We are all temporary in this world to prepare for eternity. We must not question God's way because his way is...

24 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 I already rebuked her on her attitude but it seems that is already her character to be so negative and there are times also that when she found out that what she thought was wrong, she'll find a way to escape. :)

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 Somehow, i guess with the case of your ex, there really is something that made her feel insecure on something that's why she always have negative feelings. So sad that they can't find security in God's hand. :(

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 On the case of others, yes, we must justify their actions or attitudes but when consistently, they are like that, there really is something wrong with their character. thank you :-)

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 Yeah, but sometimes i would rather rebuke her because not good words are coming out of her mouth. But nevertheless, i must stay away from her because it really irritates me :( thanks

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 you're right! Being negative is the right word, not oversensitivity. thanks :-)

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 I guess i had put so much patience on her but I would rather be routed on different places to work than to be with her everyday because even the smallest thing, it would be a big deal for her. argh! thanks :-)

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 Irritating she really is. If not only i am working with her, i would rather stay at home than listening to her negative opinions. Thank you :-)

3 May 11

vangie26 @vangie26 (445) • Philippines 3 May 11

I know someone who is oversensitive on every situation that is happening around. And it really makes me feel irritated because she always has something to say negative. Like now, she heard that one of our common friend invited me...

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vangie26 Yeah, I think that's the best thing to do...to keep away from this kind of people. To hear nothing but trash can really ruin a day. Thanks for your opinion. :-)

3 May 11

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