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psaradhi @psaradhi (4) • India 11 Jul 13

How to be happy always? Feeling lonely with no one to share my feelings straight.Worried about their reaction if I share with people whim I like.

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vsraovsr Thank u for ur suggestions,Really, I'm trying to do that only now a days.

22 Jul 13

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 15 Dec 12

When do u feel satisfied yourself? How long does it last? Can u come with long lasting ideas for satisfaction in life?

life

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satisfaction

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vsraovsr Thanku for ur reply n I almost agree to it.

2 Feb 13

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 12 Oct 10

Being a mom of two kids aged 8 and 5,I just do my duties towards them and nothing else. I feel that I'm expecting more from them than what they can.Yet, I don't change my attitude towards them. I never spend quality time with them...

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emotions

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vsraovsr Thanku for your support.I'll be changing myself from now to do justice to my kids.

21 Nov 10

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr Thankyou for a detailed reply and I'll definitely implement your tips and hope I'll have amore happier life a head.

27 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr You are exactly right in identifying and under the problem.Yes, I want to have my space which is not happening and I strongly feel that it is the root cause of my frustration. I'm in the quest of getting a good councellor of my choice.Thankyou.

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr It seems to be amazing the ideas you are giving and you rightly said that I have to relax more to gain more and keep my cool.Thankyou.

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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3 people

vsraovsr Thankyou for your prompt reply and definitely implement your tips.Have a good day.

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr Dear KerryMay be I have wrongly mentioned that I'm a perfectionist. You have come to understand very closely the exact problem.Yes, I'm a technocrat and worked for a short while before having kids. I know that it's dificult but still wanted to finish my must...

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr Thankyou my friend for a very elobarate and implenting worth tips. As you said,I spoke to my husband many times and he witnessed this kind of scenes himself. He was totally upset and was totally agitated at my behaviour and abused me for the same. After some...

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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3 people

vsraovsr Your tips seem to be worth implementing and I'll start working that way and thankyou very much for your thoughful suggestions.

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr Ons way I agree with you because I feel that I'm ill treating my kids because I was treated the same way in some occassions unintentionally by my mother. I'm trying to just come out of my bad experiences and forget them so that I can be human to my kids...

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr That is a bit dificult and that is the reason I'm sharing here with my online friends.

20 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr Dear friend, I think writing a discussion here itself indicates my willingness to help myself and hope you don't get me wrong when I say so. Anyway,thankyou very much for a very thoughtful response and I'm really going to implement it right now and wii get...

19 Dec 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 19 Dec 08

My kids are aged 3 and 6. I'm at home 24x7 and take care of them and manage the house almost alone as my husband is busy with his office for more 3 weeks a month. I'm a perfectionist and expect everything to be perfect without any...

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vsraovsr Thankyou for a realistic response and the good part of it is that even I kiss my kids, say sorry and confess that I'll not repeat again. The worst part is that I forget all my confessionsand lose my cool when I'm agitated.

19 Dec 08

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vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 13 Nov 08

My younger one is too sensitive and demands very soft behaviour from me all the time.I shouldn't change my voice modulation even if he doesn't obey me. If I shout at him,he becomes more arrogant and makes the situation worse. He...

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vsraovsr Thankyou very much for your detailed and valusble response which really seems to be workable. Interestingly, I'm doing the same for him rarely but couldn't control my anger most of the times. Anyway ,I liked your suggestion and will definitely come back to you...

19 Nov 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 13 Nov 08

Today afternoon, when I was returning home bringing my kids back from school on my two wheeler,I narrowly escaped an accident.It was drizzling slightly and when I was trying to enter a moin road from a by lane,a person on a two...

accident

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vsraovsr Thankyou very much for your eloborate and very vivid explanation in response to my discussion.I'm very happy and much contended with your reply and feel proud for being a woman for which the credit goes to you. I may write to you whenever I need some emotional...

13 Nov 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 13 Nov 08

Today afternoon, when I was returning home bringing my kids back from school on my two wheeler,I narrowly escaped an accident.It was drizzling slightly and when I was trying to enter a moin road from a by lane,a person on a two...

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vsraovsr Thankyou very much for your prompt and constructive reply,my dear friend.I'm very hapy to have so many friends like you who are ready to help me when I'm emotionally down.

13 Nov 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 6 Nov 08

I wake at 4 i the morning and go to bed at 10 in the night. I do wake up once in the middle of the night to visit the toilet.I don't say that my schedule is too hectic all the day but I don't have time to have a nap for an hour or...

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vsraovsr Thankyou very much for a prompt and enthusiastic reply which really made me very happy and satisfied. I visualise your energy and enthusiasm that you are putting to make the best out of your life and others as well. Ilike to continue our little friendship and...

7 Nov 08

vsraovsr @vsraovsr (734) • India 6 Nov 08

I wake at 4 i the morning and go to bed at 10 in the night. I do wake up once in the middle of the night to visit the toilet.I don't say that my schedule is too hectic all the day but I don't have time to have a nap for an hour or...

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vsraovsr I think I have to wait for a couple of years more tohave enough time to sleep and do other things of my choice as well.

7 Nov 08

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