vustha

@vustha (17)

Indonesia • Age 39

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Love of My Life

vustha @vustha (17) • Indonesia 1 Jan 12

what should a wife do to increase / maintain the husband's love ? any positive suggestions are welcome.

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Positve Feelings vs Positive Thinking

min8esign @min8esign (167) • Indonesia 27 Dec 11

I always wonder, which one is more able to make us happy, positive feelings or positive thinking ?

positive feelings

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vustha our hearts will move our minds to do / not do something, so its two were related.

1 Jan 12

Is it important to use weddingring after married

areskya @areskya (398) • Indonesia 24 Dec 11

Hi, mylotters. I have seen and visited many kinds of marriage. The bridegroom often give a wedding ring to the bride and vise verse. I don't know since when this activity becomes a tradition in almost country all around the...

weddingring

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vustha Marriage is not just a matter of exchange rings and wearing a wedding ring after it, in think is not a necessity. I myself had 2years of marriage, and almost a year ago I wasn't wearing my wedding ring.and it's ok, as long as our hearts are still bound to...

24 Dec 11

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Participating In The Pain Of Others

srjac0902 @srjac0902 (1169) • Italy 24 Dec 11

Where there is noise, laughter and entertainment all participate and enjoy. But when person is sad, many times we respect the privacy of that person and leave her to be alone. Some may not like to be sympathized. They may love to...

sharing the pain halves it

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vustha In some particular situations when someone decides to be alone and not considering the circumstances surrounding, far away in his/r heart, actually they want to be accompanied and sympathetic to them. sometimes they are just ashamed to admit it.

24 Dec 11

Insulted by a Website

Graceekwenx @Graceekwenx (3160) • Philippines 24 Dec 11

Friends.. Today is christmas and i was insulted by a website whom i contacted via email. Just so you know, i had been scouting for websites who sell choral pieces and that i had been inquiring on their shipping cost. I dropped a...

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vustha As far as I know, there are no any official site has the right to judge its customers, and said like that. one thing they need to know is that they've certainly lost a valuable customer. And if they are aware, they should immediately apologize to you as soon...

24 Dec 11

Hi Everyone

kissylyn @kissylyn (25) 24 Dec 11

Hope your enjoying your holiday vacation. I am just new in mylot, and I don't know few things around in here like changing pics and all. Could you please help me? Thanks a lot. :)

being new

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vustha Hi kissylyn, welcome to mylot. you can see here for detail http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq3.aspx#5 Happy MyLotting...

24 Dec 11

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How to make a good relationship ?

min8esign @min8esign (167) • Indonesia 22 Dec 11

I been 2 years of marriage and till now everything works fine, quarrels in the household has become a normal thing for me. now that I fear is boredom in my relationship. Traveling together, is one of the things I do and I'll do...

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vustha To build a good relationship, in my simple opinion is by giving some freedom to your partner to do something right - which still within the limits of reasonableness.

24 Dec 11

What is the most important factor for friendship?

szz1990602 @szz1990602 (188) • China 24 Dec 11

Hi friends, I once have some close friends but estranged with them now. On the contrary, some of my friends have tight ties with me, which takes me to a question that what's the most important thing in maintaining the close...

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vustha In my opinion, rich or poor can not be used as a reference in establishing friendships. And I think the most important factor to build genuine friendship is a same vision and trust.

24 Dec 11

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Unknown Bands/ Groups

FluxNL @FluxNL (503) • Netherlands 24 Dec 11

Hi there (: I was surprised of you guys/ gals have any bands / groups who are not famous or popular, but makes good music? Please share it with me/ us. i have a band called 'Apparatjik' and it is really relaxing music (:...

random unfamous good music

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vustha I used to have a band called 'Say What' and it consists of four girls, but after nearly 3 years together we decided to break up this band

24 Dec 11

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Help Me Find This Song !!!

min8esign @min8esign (167) • Indonesia 22 Dec 11

Hi MyLotters, last night I listened to my favorite songs on the radio. I did not know who sang that song, either group or solo artist. I only knew, the song was often pronounced the words "My Only", I also did not know...

old songs

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vustha It seems I knew this song, I've heard this song before, and I think the title of this song is "My Only", but I don't know who's the singer

24 Dec 11

hello all

sram_450 @sram_450 (2) • India 24 Dec 11

can u please tell me how to earn money online genuinely.....

freshers money making

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vustha There are so many ways earning money online, such as Paid To click, Paid To Surveys, Paid to sign up, and more. but one thing that should be remembered. some sites really pays some it doesn't (aka scam)

24 Dec 11

Do you Believe in Astrology (Zodiac Horoscope)? If Yes, What is your sign?

aboodh007 @aboodh007 (55) • Kuwait 24 Dec 11

What is your Zodiac Sign? The signs of the zodiac can give us great insights into our day to day living as well as the many talents and special qualities we posses. You can discover a great deal of relevant information about...

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vustha I personally do not quite believe with zodiac, with only 12 signs (zodiac) how can it represent a millions people arround the world. well, this is just my simply theory. btw, my zodiac is aries

24 Dec 11

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My english not so well

vustha @vustha (17) • Indonesia 24 Dec 11

Since my english not so well, I have problem with writing and pronounciation. This is my first time english discussions, and I try to convince my self that this community is warm and friendly. Hope everyone here can understand my...

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Get Banned !!!

vustha @vustha (17) • Indonesia 24 Dec 11

Hi My lotters. Im new user here. Will my account get banned at MyLot ?

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vustha Thanks Triple0, it helps me much.

24 Dec 11

Get Banned !!!

vustha @vustha (17) • Indonesia 24 Dec 11

Hi My lotters. Im new user here. Will my account get banned at MyLot ?

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2 people