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iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng This is better than cost a lot to get a lawyer showing how to kill the other party without sword... But, once the case in the hands of court, you will have endless "follow ups" ... One day Patti McKenzie told me all the homeless families she helped at...

22 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng That's why your friend really need to act in a "soft" way to reappeal the heart of his daughter's mom, and, as I said, paying of the hospital bill for the mom is first step, and behave like a father as if there is a marriage ... then everything will come...

22 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Very good and clear ...

22 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Making a lot of sense...

22 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng This is true, but try to do it without lawyer ... Again, lawyer is not a good tool to your daughter's mom. If you need to fight with company, then, go ahead to hire a lawyer... Lawyer is good to use to fight with organizations, companies, government agency...

22 Jan 07

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 22 Mar 08

With the economy rapidly falling, we are all trying to save money any way we can. Here is a tip that is easy to do and will save a lot of money when it comes to grocery shopping. Instead of purchaseing those commercial packages of...

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wjcheng With the economy rapidly falling, we are all trying to save money any way we can. Here is a tip that is easy to do and will save a lot of money when it comes to grocery shopping. Instead of purchaseing those commercial packages of instant Oatmeal, make your...

22 Mar 08

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng What is your suggestion if he can NOT afford a lawyer? Would you be willing to pay for the lawyer cost? If not, don't make that suggestion. I said so is because many people at situation like this can NOT afford "fighting" thru lawyer. They need arbitration,...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng This neglect a "timing" factor. If the mother will not agree to access now, that does NOT necessarily mean she will NOT agree later, especially, if your friend paid off hospital bills for the baby delivery. When you have meeting, fight to each other, and no...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Very true except the attorney that many people can not afford, and any legal fight thru lawyers going to cost a fortune and lots of time and emotion. Good people all became BAD GUYS in the eyes of lawyers. Your wife will become evil at your lawyer's eyes, and...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng True. Except don't bother for the lawyer who will show you how to fight and end up cost you a fortune.

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Very true. So, you really need to tell your friend, be patient, and consult parents or relatives, and support mother and baby the way anyone could have support their wife and baby. Imagine if he had married with the poor woman and now had a new baby, what...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Very true. Give her more time to think, and also give her more resources like money to pay the hospital bill ...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng True. as long as it does not cost too much, why not? Especially, if your friend still not sure if the baby is his. Well, otherwise, if he is so sure why not pay the hospital cost?

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Well, if your friend show his sincere responsibility by paying off the hospital bill and agree to provide child support to the mother, there is no reason why the mother will not admit him as the father ... On the other hand, why your friend would not take care...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Take it to court is last resort, and it may not need it; take it to court is going to make both mother and father of baby fight more... Do you have experience that your father fight with your mother in court? and end up their lawyers took all your college...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng Again, legal representation is not free either. I am even curious if your friend who does not pay for the hospital cost, would he willing to spend money to fight? Why? because hospital cost is higher? and legal cost is cheaper? Not necessary, think twice ...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng This is not very complicated situation and it happened hundreds of thousands times before and happening all over the places, and, of course, it will continue happening ... Man felt in love with a woman, and want to have close relationship till preganent, and...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng If your friend chose to go to court, he will not win the heart of the judge if he was asked a question "Oh! so you are car caring father? so, who paid for all the hospital cost?" So, it would be better that your friend, before trying to visit the daughter,...

21 Jan 07

iamnumbed @iamnumbed (164) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

I have a friend who needs some help. His ex girlfriend recently gave birth to their daughter, however, she (and her family) won't let him see their child. Their split up was not a nice one. At first, the girl didn't want to have...

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wjcheng This is good and it should work, except that I believe that his friend has NO direct channel to "talk to her" right now. But money will talk, send her $1,000 with a sincere letter wishing to see the daughter; it should open the door of communications again ......

21 Jan 07

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