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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 2 Dec 16

There are a lot of fatalistic people lately, always letting "fate" take its course instead of doing their part and making things work to their advantage. I do think being optimistic requires a good deal of resilience. Not...

optimism

looking at the bright side

hope

think positive

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xTinx Well I guess so. I think the important thing is to not let the negativity get in the way of living a good life.

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 2 Dec 16

There are a lot of fatalistic people lately, always letting "fate" take its course instead of doing their part and making things work to their advantage. I do think being optimistic requires a good deal of resilience. Not...

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xTinx That's a good point. I'm taking that into consideration. Perhaps many people are a little of both.

3 Dec 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 28 Jun 16

I do presume you guys believe in the existence of a soulmate, so what are you looking for when it comes to such a person? As for me, I do not have a set of standards as long as the person complements me.

soulmate

happiness

love

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xTinx That's great to hear and quite romantic too, if I do say so. Good luck finding your soulmate then!

28 Jun 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 28 Jun 16

I do presume you guys believe in the existence of a soulmate, so what are you looking for when it comes to such a person? As for me, I do not have a set of standards as long as the person complements me.

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xTinx That's a tall order but nevertheless, good luck in your quest for a soulmate.

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

Sometimes, we cannot help but be sad for no particular reason. Even when we're surrounded by loved ones, it seems like we're still alone. How do you handle "the blues"? What do you do to become happier again?

sadness

the blues

lonely

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xTinx Oh that's nice. I guess you're a home buddy. These days, I feel the same way. I don't like spending too much time outside especially when I'm not feeling well.

29 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

How important is beauty in your day to day existence? Will you fall in love with a person more if he or she has a beautiful face? What, for you, is more important than beauty?

beauty

face

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xTinx Would you care to elaborate what sort of beauty?

29 Apr 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

How important is beauty in your day to day existence? Will you fall in love with a person more if he or she has a beautiful face? What, for you, is more important than beauty?

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xTinx True that.

29 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

I met a guy earlier this year and we got along really well to the point that we reached a mutual understanding. Meaning, it's not "us" but we had an agreement that we'll get there soon. He made so many promises and, much against...

forgiveness

disappearing act

false hopes

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xTinx Well eventually you have to forgive him. But forgiving and forgetting what was done to you are two different things. Maybe it's all right to forgive but it's really not that easy to revert back to the old relationship. Perhaps, you can just be civil with each...

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

I met a guy earlier this year and we got along really well to the point that we reached a mutual understanding. Meaning, it's not "us" but we had an agreement that we'll get there soon. He made so many promises and, much against...

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xTinx Well I've decided to ask him but I guess it's just impossible, for the time being, to return to what we once were. There's still a lot of healing to go through.

29 Apr 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

I met a guy earlier this year and we got along really well to the point that we reached a mutual understanding. Meaning, it's not "us" but we had an agreement that we'll get there soon. He made so many promises and, much against...

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xTinx Haha it's okay. Hopefully you won't be in the same situation in the future. It's not exactly a great place to be in.

29 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 26 Apr 16

I met a guy earlier this year and we got along really well to the point that we reached a mutual understanding. Meaning, it's not "us" but we had an agreement that we'll get there soon. He made so many promises and, much against...

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xTinx I really don't know the answer to that. I wish I can say "yes" but that's not exactly what I feel right now. If I say "no," deep down inside I want to give him a chance. But maybe I just need to do that at the right time and place. Now's not the right time I...

29 Apr 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

They say it's better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. No matter how many times our hearts break, we just can't get enough of love. But getting over a current love does take time, usually as long as the time...

relationships

love

getting over

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xTinx I guess it's like that.

18 Apr 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

They say it's better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. No matter how many times our hearts break, we just can't get enough of love. But getting over a current love does take time, usually as long as the time...

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xTinx @saurabhrmp That's really sad. I do hope something can be done so that people can love and express their love freely.

18 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

Some people measure their success through career earnings, others through fame or prestige, and a select few through their level of happiness or personal satisfaction. As for me, I would consider myself successful if I'm able to...

success

happiness

contentment

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xTinx @newest If you do have self-confidence, you can go anywhere without getting intimidated.

18 Apr 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

Some people measure their success through career earnings, others through fame or prestige, and a select few through their level of happiness or personal satisfaction. As for me, I would consider myself successful if I'm able to...

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xTinx I'd say you're very altruistic. That in itself makes you successful.

17 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

Some people measure their success through career earnings, others through fame or prestige, and a select few through their level of happiness or personal satisfaction. As for me, I would consider myself successful if I'm able to...

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xTinx Touche! I am glad a lot of people here don't equate success with material wealth and reputation.

17 Apr 16

xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

Some people measure their success through career earnings, others through fame or prestige, and a select few through their level of happiness or personal satisfaction. As for me, I would consider myself successful if I'm able to...

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xTinx That's a good take on success.

17 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 17 Apr 16

They say it's better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all. No matter how many times our hearts break, we just can't get enough of love. But getting over a current love does take time, usually as long as the time...

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xTinx @saurabhrmp Not really. Unless you belong to a society governed by strict traditions and love is "arranged" or planned out by parents and relatives.

17 Apr 16

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xTinx @xxTinx (49) 16 Apr 16

This has been on my mind lately. I know we're currently in the modern era and many people nowadays believe that women have just as much right as men to make the first move. It's okay for some. I mean, if it works then it works,...

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xTinx Lol not really. I think only during the courtship stage. But it mostly depends on the nature of the relationship.

17 Apr 16

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