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AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 27 Feb 10

I think I just wasted the last 10 months of my life working on a marriage that was doomed to fail from day one. I married my daughters father. Boy was that the wrong thing to do. He acts like a bigger kid than our 13 year old...

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AMcMahan Thanks to all that have given me the advice to run as far as I can from this creep. Let me start by saying, he was too chicken-sh*t to call me or talk to me face to face. He texted me to say that he was done being married and he didn't care what me and his...

10 Mar 10

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 27 Feb 10

I think I just wasted the last 10 months of my life working on a marriage that was doomed to fail from day one. I married my daughters father. Boy was that the wrong thing to do. He acts like a bigger kid than our 13 year old...

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AMcMahan thanks guys, i really appreciate it. that was my thinking but i feel like i needed more advice.

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AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 28 Dec 09

I have to have surgery in January. In May, I tore the rotator cuff in my right shoulder. I have been through therapy twice, and I have had three injections. I tried my best to avoid surgery but to no avail. I am kind of worried...

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AMcMahan thanks a lot. i was really worried but thank you for your advice and input that relieves me somewhat but i still worry about my kids. i know that they are teens now but you know how moms can be. i'm sure they will be a big help to me too, plus my mom will help...

30 Dec 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 17 Dec 09

Last week, my husband led me to believe that his pay check was $200.00. I bounced a couple of checks and come to find out, his pay check was $13.00. I now have $105.00 in ISF fees, plus the amounts of all 3 checks. I thought when...

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AMcMahan Yes. But still yet, truck drivers don't make $13.00

20 Dec 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 17 Dec 09

Last week, my husband led me to believe that his pay check was $200.00. I bounced a couple of checks and come to find out, his pay check was $13.00. I now have $105.00 in ISF fees, plus the amounts of all 3 checks. I thought when...

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AMcMahan He said it was a short pay check because it was the one that was earned over Thanksgiving week. And he had the pay stub right in front of him. That's what I don't get.

18 Dec 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 17 Dec 09

Last week, my husband led me to believe that his pay check was $200.00. I bounced a couple of checks and come to find out, his pay check was $13.00. I now have $105.00 in ISF fees, plus the amounts of all 3 checks. I thought when...

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AMcMahan A baby? I can't have any more kids. And even if I could, I don't think that would "fix" anything. I think that would just make things worse.

18 Dec 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 17 Dec 09

Last week, my husband led me to believe that his pay check was $200.00. I bounced a couple of checks and come to find out, his pay check was $13.00. I now have $105.00 in ISF fees, plus the amounts of all 3 checks. I thought when...

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AMcMahan I'm not dependent on him. I was a single parent for 16 years, and as a single parent at least we had money in the bank every week. We had very little money for extras but I knew it was there. It has cost me more since we've been married that it's been worth. I...

18 Dec 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 24 Nov 09

My husband is a truck driver and he doesn't have a navigator or a GPS so I told him that we would work on getting one after the first of the year. Times are hard for us right now and I still have Christmas to buy for the kids. We...

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AMcMahan I get his check stubs every week. The only thing that comes out is taxes, insurance, and child support. His gross earnings are not nearly what you should expect from a truck driver that is running like he says he is. There was one week that the child support...

29 Nov 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 24 Nov 09

My husband is a truck driver and he doesn't have a navigator or a GPS so I told him that we would work on getting one after the first of the year. Times are hard for us right now and I still have Christmas to buy for the kids. We...

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AMcMahan That's another part of the problem, he doesn't bring home what a truck driver should. My dad was a truck driver and never brought home less than $500 a week when I was a kid and my husband doesn't even bring home $300 weekly now. We even buy groceries for the...

28 Nov 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 24 Nov 09

My husband is a truck driver and he doesn't have a navigator or a GPS so I told him that we would work on getting one after the first of the year. Times are hard for us right now and I still have Christmas to buy for the kids. We...

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AMcMahan but he has been driving for 12 years and has not seemed to need one until now. I think he just needs to get his priorities straight. And I do understand that it might seem like a tool him but it seems like he acts like a bigger baby than my daughter when he...

27 Nov 09

AMcMahan @AMcMahan (38) • United States 20 Nov 09

Sometimes I think my husband has lost his ever loving mind. I was cooking steaks on the grill when he called (he is a truck driver). I asked him to let me call him back when I got finished cooking. He asked what I was cooking so I...

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AMcMahan thanks, I never thought about it that way. Could have been anything.

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