Edenleng

@Edenleng (21)

China • Age 49

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Edenleng's Responses

What's YOUR FAVORITE COLOR? And what does it say about you?

KaraKATAD @KaraKATAD (246) • Philippines 7 Sep 09

Hi there MyLotters! I was just wondering, what's YOUR FAVORITE COLOR? Why do you like it? And do you think it represents you well? My favorite color is blue, and I love it because it's so peaceful but at the same time it's...

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Edenleng Blue is my favorite color. Because it's the color of the sea and the sky, with the feeling of tolerance. Tolerance and forgiveness are very noble qualities. But I like white and red, too.

7 Sep 09

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Why do people get so defensive when someone disagrees with them?

jen14ed @jen14ed (865) • Philippines 6 Sep 09

Why do people get so defensive when someone disagrees with them? it is not personal can't people just accept that people have different opinion?.

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Edenleng People like acceptance instead of rejection. Disagreements mean some kind of rejection, which makes people embarrassed and annoyed. One's manner to a voice of disagreement represents his upbringing.

7 Sep 09

Do you get scared in dark?

Praveen @cryhapytears (107) • India 6 Sep 09

I've come across a lots of people mentioning how scary it can get wen one is in dark. I personally don feel scared of being in dark, not even wen m alone. My best friend cannot sleep without the lights on. But i ges most of the...

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Edenleng I won't be scared by short-time dark. But it'll be a terrible thing to spend a whole night in a dark room without a partner.

6 Sep 09

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Do you make an effort to be friend those that are of a different race ?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 2 Sep 09

Greetings dear friends, I'm curious if you make an effort to befriend those that are of a different race or different culture than you are? Do you spend time trying to learn of their ways or do you have a set way of thinking...

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Edenleng Yes, I do. I'm Chinese. But I'm very curious about western people's minds, emotions and attitudes to everythings happening. I've made two foreign friends in real life by chance, one English and one American. It's very interesting to communicate with them,...

6 Sep 09

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tell me please, Does my husband love me?

ashbelx @ashbelx (92) • Philippines 6 Sep 09

My sister got married to a German guy 10 months ago. They have the sweetest relationship one could ever imagine. Maybe because they are still newly weds and the magic has not yet faded. But if you truly love each other,does the...

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Edenleng A happy marriage is worht of putting aside one's pride temporarily, I think. I'm a six-year-old boy's mother. And my husband still kisses me when he is awake in the midnight occasionally. We do quarrel sometimes. But both of us don't fear to show our love of...

6 Sep 09

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Do you agree that funeral should be a cheap and simple affair?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 5 Sep 09

In many lands, the wake and funeral is a very expensive affair. In some Chinese lands, some families even hire people to cry with the funeral possession. I dont see what is the purpose of spending money to hire people to cry and...

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Edenleng Yes, I do. When people are still alive,part of emotion may be expressed indirectly with money, such as a diamond ring for one's girlfriend, a car for one's wife. But for those who have passed away, expensive funerls make nonsense.

6 Sep 09

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Do you get annoyed when you caught a stranger staring at you?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 5 Sep 09

I've met some people who's terribly upset when they caught you staring at them. They often react and treat you something like a criminal. When it happened that you stare at them. There's some time that I stare in a certain things...

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Edenleng That's happening commonly to people, I think. I'll decide how to react according to his/her appearance. Someone said when you were stared at, you'd better stare back at him/her, so that you may get some "energy" or "power" from him/her. I'm not sure of it. But...

6 Sep 09