JFinley

@JFinley (44)

United States • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What are some usual pains/uncomforts?

wolfspaw85 @wolfspaw85 (10) • United States 9 Mar 10

I am at 33 weeks with my second child, and although I have been through a pregnancy before and all, I didn't experience half the stuff I am with this one that I experienced with my first. One of them being braxton-hicks, I...

prego pains

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JFinley I felt the same thing in my second pregnancy. I asked my mid-wife about it and she said it's totally normal. With your second child, your muscles are not as strong as with your first.

17 Mar 10

how do i deal with this emotional whiplash with a guy i may be falling for....?

JoEy137 @JoEy137 (17) • United States 25 Mar 09

ok well theres this guy i like A LOT! but the thing is after everything he says he doesnt like me then later on he comes back to me and i take him. then he went on saying there was something about me and he didnt know wat that he...

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JFinley Maybe he just likes to think that he can have you when he wants. I'd stay away from him. He's probably just messing with your head.

25 Mar 09

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Earn Money from your Home

sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 22 Feb 09

I have a legitimate way of making a small income from home. All you need to do is keep doing what you are doing already, use the internet BUT earn money. I am a stay at home mom and sometimes life is tough with a one income family...

earn money from home

income

internet

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JFinley Hey im interested but do you have a start up fee? j927@live.com

22 Feb 09

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information

oneshort2 @oneshort2 (1) • Canada 16 Dec 08

I am looking at gettimg a blue dob.I have heard there is lot of health issues. Please help

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JFinley The only thing I noticed was the occassional dry skin other than that they are very healthy

20 Feb 09

Baking for hubby's co-workers

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 2 Feb 09

Last week I made chocolate chocolate chip cookies, and hubby decided to bring a dozen of them into work with him. He says the folks at work are often bringing in homemade things to share, and he decided it was his turn....

baking

work

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JFinley Do you give out your recipes? I love trying out new dessert recipes.

20 Feb 09

it's really a sad thing

graxey @graxey (10) • Philippines 16 Feb 09

I am so upset. i had him for like 18 months, i've spent 2 valentine's day with him. but then, everything had changed between us. everything had changed. yea, i don't care what else you might think, it's just that i am sad and i...

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JFinley It's ok to feel bad about it, but there does come a time when you have to move on. Don't waste your life wishig things were different. Go out and make your life everything that you want it to be with someone who really loves you, and if you want to stick it to...

19 Feb 09

Babys

Crusherkeyur @Crusherkeyur (9) • Canada 18 Feb 09

Well see I have a 3 month old baby its about bathing him, when my mother gives him a bath he doesnt complain he actually laughs and plays around with her, but when I give him a bath its like hes bathing him self in tears he wont...

babys

mother

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JFinley Try this, make sure the water is not too hot. I'd probably do just body temp. Then, slowly put him in, it might be scaring him to be put in too quickly. Then keep a wet rag over his tummy so he can feel secure. Its not that you don't spend enough time with...

19 Feb 09

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straight back to work from child-birth

oyenkai @oyenkai (4394) • Philippines 18 Feb 09

Would you do it? Wouldn't you want to spend more time with your new born child? Is life THAT hard? I read about accounts where the career-mother went right back to work after a few days of a c-section. I guess that if the...

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JFinley Well personally, I would not feel good at all sending a newborn to a daycare center. First of all theres all the germs and sickness that other children would bring into the center, and secondly, you can probably find a story every day about someone being...

19 Feb 09

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help me out

spazazz5 @spazazz5 (4) • United States 5 Feb 09

i live on my own my x wants 2 live with me but he doesnt wanna work, he's getting kicked out of his place i wanna help him but i dont wanna support him or any of his habits ya know i dont wanna play mommy 2 a 30 yr old man what...

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JFinley Hes your ex. If he broke up with you, I would not let him come back. Hes just using you. He needs to grow up and take responsibility for his life. He won't learn unless he has to. Tell him to get his priorities in order then you'd consider it.

6 Feb 09

Will I marry my girl bestfriend or girlfriend?

sinnedsejatnom @sinnedsejatnom (1311) • Philippines 24 Jan 09

My girl bestfriend told me that if I don't have a girlfriend at 26, she will marry me. Im 26 now, and I have a girlfriend. I love her and I also love my bestfriend, which should I marry to?

help me

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JFinley I say you stay with your girlfriend. why? because why would you just push her aside because you've reached a certain age. Maybe your best friend was not serious and you dump your girlfriend and you ask your best friend to marry you and she says NO. Does that...

5 Feb 09

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Save money, or save a headache?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 4 Feb 09

I've been shopping at Super Walmart for years now, as it's an incredible money saver. With my large family, saving money is one of the most important issues we face. However, shopping at Walmart is a huge headache! The ones in...

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JFinley I think you should be getting good service. If it were me I'd definetly talk to a manager. If that didn't change anything, I'd go to a different store.

4 Feb 09

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