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slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 28 Dec 07

I know that now days smokers have a very bad reputation, and people are really against smoking BUT it is a reality that smokers are here to stay..My husband is a smoker,and even though i know it is bad for your health it is his...

this is about smokers

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Katali slickcut, if I'm understanding you correctly, it's the manner in which these people behave about your husband's smoking, not that they don't like it in general, that you have a problem with. I believe most any smoker is willing to comply with the wishes of...

29 Dec 07

Vucjak @Vucjak (242) • Macedonia 20 Dec 07

I'm sure everybody knows how risky is the smoking, and how nasty habit it is. I don't intend to tell smokers to stop. If they wanna ruin their health, they are free to do that. But, what I have the right to say is, why won't they...

smoking

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Katali I agree that smokers should be respectful to those around them. I smoke, but I also pay attention to my surroundings and when/where it's appropriate to smoke. Off topic, but something along the same lines. Many people think nothing of pouring on cologne,...

29 Dec 07

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 28 Dec 07

Is there one thing that people or a person can do that will hurt you ? That doesnt really sit right with you? For me it's someone saying they will do something and then not doing it or taking about 2 weeks or more to get around...

people

personality

temperaments

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Katali It hurts when people assume things about me, yet haven't taken the time to really get to know me. You can't know the core of a person if you don't peel off all the layers and many fail to do that. In the process their perception can be very distorted and their...

28 Dec 07

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sunshinelady @sunshinelady (7609) • United States 12 Mar 07

You know I have read Janette Oke's books and totally enjoy them. Imagine my surprise when a movie was made out of a couple of her books. The first one was Love Comes Softly that they did a movie on. The actress who played Marty...

book made into movie

excellent

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Katali I love this movie and have it on dvd. I've watched it several times. I also have 3 of the sequels that follow. "Love Comes Softly" has many valuable lessons in it. It's refreshing in it's clean and moral approach. The scenery is breathtaking. There are...

28 Dec 07

slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 28 Dec 07

I know that now days smokers have a very bad reputation, and people are really against smoking BUT it is a reality that smokers are here to stay..My husband is a smoker,and even though i know it is bad for your health it is his...

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Katali I believe homeowners have the right to set their own rules that are agreed upon by who "lives" in the home. Our homes are our haven, the one place we should be able to feel comfortable. I feel your husband has the right to do as he wishes in his own home...

28 Dec 07

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touchnshine @touchnshine (2821) • India 12 Aug 07

Hi Friends, I just want to know your views on guys getting married to gals older than them (say older than the guy by 2,3 yrs) Do u think that the gals should necessarily be younger than the guys ? or do you support the age...

girl

guy

marry

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Katali The best relationship I ever had was with a man younger than myself. 2 or 3 years shouldn't make much of a difference at all. What is important...compatibility, working toward common goals, maturity, character, devotion, commitment, love and not making the age...

9 Sep 07

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touchnshine @touchnshine (2821) • India 12 Aug 07

Hi Friends, I just want to know your views on guys getting married to gals older than them (say older than the guy by 2,3 yrs) Do u think that the gals should necessarily be younger than the guys ? or do you support the age...

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Katali To me, a 2-3 year age gap is insignificant. The best relationship I ever had with with someone several years younger than myself. Problems can arise if the older woman can no longer have children, but the younger man wants children. There is the option of...

12 Aug 07

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afternoontea @afternoontea (1005) • Indonesia 11 Aug 07

I am so sad now...She did not come on my wedding day, no sms, no call or leave a message. She is my bestfriend since I am on the 7th grade. Even we are separated now, because I live in another city. Well maybe she is busy or...

bad friend

is that what a best friend will do

not a bestfriend

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Katali I'm sorry you suffered this disappointment on such a special day. It's hard to tell the reason your friend did this, but she didn't even give a good excuse. She could "hang out with another friend" any time. It could be that she's jealous that your life is...

11 Aug 07

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cecillecarmela @cecillecarmela (3818) • Philippines 4 Aug 07

Here's my dilemma: Despite the things he did to me and after two months we haven't talk, now he's confessing that he still loves me and asks for another chance to prove it... Problem is, I'm afraid to be hurt again.. My last break...

love

second time around

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Katali cecillecarmela said: "Can you also help me how to find out if a guy is really serious and has pure intentions??" Does his actions back up his words...? If a person's actions back up their words, there's a chance they are trustworthy. I also look for...

4 Aug 07

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myfanwy65 @myfanwy65 (1030) • United States 4 Aug 07

Do you like to get new books? Or do you prefer finding them cheap at yard sales or someplace similar? I like both. Sometimes you just can't find the books you want at yard sales. I don't read much romance, which is most of what...

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Katali I love to find good used books. I don't feel as pressured to read them promptly lol If I buy a new book, which isn't often, I feel more compelled to read it soon. Every time I look at it, I'll be reminded of the money I spent and start to feel guilty lol, if I...

4 Aug 07

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meme0907 @meme0907 (3481) • United States 25 Jun 07

Do you think it's best to leave your computer on or turn it off every night? I used to turn mine off each night but then someone made the analogy of a car saying it was not good to turn it off & on like a car restarting it would...

computer

power

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Katali I always turn my computer off each night and when I'm not using it for long periods through the day. It seems to function better with a respite lol and I don't want to pay for a higher electric bill for something that isn't in use.

26 Jun 07

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ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 26 Jun 07

This morning I was busy doing my mylot thing, answering letters, doing my real work and getting ready to go back to prison tommorow, all was fine until i heard the russle of the letter box being interfeared with by one of those...

are they trying to tell me something

lavender

post

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Katali No doubt, a very strange delivery, but I agree that it doesn't sound threatening at all. Sounds like someone is sending a cryptic message - too intimidated to be straightforward - just yet lol

26 Jun 07

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