Paarl20

@Paarl20 (20)

South Africa • Age 48

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Paarl20's Responses

What do you do if you think a friend likes you romantically, but you don't?

skaterx @skaterx (530) • Finland 31 Oct 09

If you feel like a friend is becoming attracted to you, but you are not interested in them in any way like that, what do you do? Do you say anything? If he hasn't said anything, but you feel its kind of like that, what do you...

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Paarl20 Romping other people into the fray is one of the best ways forward, and in particular the one you're involved with.

31 Oct 09

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What was the right age or time to get married?

chelley @chelley (129) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

Im now 26yrs old and some of my friends are already married and have kids. do i have to feel pressure bout all of this? my dad is teasing me bout he wants to see a grandchild.. i dont know, i feel like im still not so ready for a...

marriage

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Paarl20 People are different and each one responds to life's transitions uniquely, and acting on the basis of someone's else whims or ideals is a definite no, no.

31 Oct 09

Why do People Marry and Quarrel after?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 31 Oct 09

Before marriage, most people are always wanting to satisfy their partner and then there are full of love, kindness and so on. However, once they have gotten married, they may tend to quarrel for all kinds of reasons without any...

mariage

quarrel

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7 people

Paarl20 Familiarity breeds contempt, and the pressures of today's life exert extra demands on the quality of a couple's relationship.

31 Oct 09

how do you handle a whinner?

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 1 Mar 09

Do you know someone who like to whine a lot and very unappreciative of all the blessings that was given to them. It seems that every time you meet there seems to be that there is a problem though it may not be a big deal. How do...

negativety

people

whinning

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9 people

Paarl20 Give them a disarming advice, that turns their problems into mole hills.

2 Mar 09

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1 person

How do I get my boyfriend to stop hassling me about smoking (cigarettes)

emmelineS @emmelineS (1) • Australia 1 Mar 09

I'm twenty nine and I have been smoking on and off since I was eighteen. I really like smoking but my boyfriend hates it. Here's the bare facts: I love the taste of smoking. I smoke about six or seven a day. My boyfriend is...

smoking quitting hassle boyfriend

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3 people

Paarl20 Taking it from me, the hustling is the best for you - I've been there!!

2 Mar 09

How much money do you expect to make online?

NuttyMomma @NuttyMomma (901) • United States 1 Mar 09

Whether you are employed outside the home or you are a stay at home mom, what are you expectations as far as how much you can make doing things like mylot, ehow and other ptc or whatever? There are an awful lot of scams out there...

computer

money

time

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Paarl20 For more than three moths after doing everything i can online, i struggled to raise $400 but now I am closing in on a $1000 barrier- research & write your way through.

2 Mar 09

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Are You Spending More Than You Earn?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

The mystery behind being broke is the idea of spending more than you earn. Actually its not a mystery anymore, its more of a factual basis rather. Though sometimes we think that we are spending less than we make yet there are...

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4 people

Paarl20 I used to, but with the economic crunch I've become what i should have been all these years.

2 Mar 09

Has "I love you" lost it's meaning?

cyberfluf @cyberfluf (4996) • Netherlands 1 Mar 09

Have you come to the point in your relationship where saying "I love you" has kind of gotten stuck in the routine and doesn't mean that much anymore? The more you hear it, the bigger the chance you take it for granted. [u]How...

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3 people

Paarl20 Yes somewhat, all because people are going into relationships for the wrong reasons, thus you cant serious mean it when you are always with the wrong people.

2 Mar 09

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1 person

It started snowing today. Is it where you live?

hdjohnson @hdjohnson (2981) • United States 1 Mar 09

I didn't believe the news weather man, but he was right this time. The last time he was absolutely incorrect though and had a lot of egg on his face as a result. So my children were very excited that they made a big fuss about it....

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3 people

Paarl20 I wish I lived in your town, in my part of the world - it never snows!! Lucky you

2 Mar 09

Do you always say "Thank You!"?

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 1 Mar 09

Here on mylot, there is a DON'Ts statement that reads: "Thank everyone that responds or comments on your discussion. This will not increase your earnings." This is not a question here for it is clearly stated that...

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10 people

Paarl20 Sometimes you just forget, but whenever it involves kisses of some sort; i seem to be very obliging!!

2 Mar 09

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Reading.....Favorite book.

solson @solson (406) 24 Feb 09

So i was wondering who really liked reading. I can say that i hate reading i find it a wasted of my time; which is funny becasue mylot is really all about reading and posting best reply. I would like also to know if you are a fast...

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Paarl20 Until recently I wasn't much into books, but now I can't seem to let go of novel once I start reading, I've been missing out on something good!

25 Feb 09

The solidarity of the Lot is a wonderful thing. Embrace it!

Sparks @sparkofinsanity (20471) • Regina, Saskatchewan 22 Feb 09

Twice in as many days I have come across a couple of newbie jerks who think that they know us all here better than we know ourselves, or understand the choices between what is right and what is wrong better than anyone else on the...

show a little kindness

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11 people

Paarl20 Very wise words together we make or break this world, starting with a little respect. This is a wonderful place,

23 Feb 09

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4 people

whats your motivation?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 22 Feb 09

when i get on mylot which i haven't in awhile it seems like i can't get motivated to do a lot of posting and i don't really know why honestly because sometimes it comes easy to me and then at other times it doesn't really come...

motivation

what

your

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3 people

Paarl20 The web brings home views from individuals I would have never met, but then here at my lot I learn from Panama, New York, Sydney, and even Bujumbura. Thats my motivation.

23 Feb 09