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webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 11 Dec 08

Well it seems I've gotten myself into yet anotyher mess inm my wondertful life. I was looking for my comped tickets and comped buffett coupomn for my upcoming casino trip. I keep things scattered ALL over the house but I know...

always

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Pascha When everything is neat, clean and tidy, I lose EVERYTHING. I put everything in it's place and then.... I forget where it's place is. *sighs* My husband though is a walking filing cabinet! He can find anything and everything in under two minutes flat....

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lorddeath @lorddeath (82) • India 11 Dec 08

Everyone needs to be careful about this problem.. There is no actual solution for it and it can be the most annoying one of all your problems.. You think everything is working fine.. till all of a sudden your webpage fails to...

frustrating and irritating

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Pascha Okay, what programs are you two running that are similar? Do you also have Chrome? what is your system specs and operating systems? Look for some commonalities.

12 Dec 08

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lorddeath @lorddeath (82) • India 11 Dec 08

Everyone needs to be careful about this problem.. There is no actual solution for it and it can be the most annoying one of all your problems.. You think everything is working fine.. till all of a sudden your webpage fails to...

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Pascha Yeah it could still be Chrome. As you said, it installs lots of files onto your computer, etc etc etc. Were you having this issue before you started using Chrome? how long after installing it did you start to have problems? Do all of your devices, wireless...

12 Dec 08

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Pascha @Pascha (65) • United States 10 Dec 08

This is my very first discussion (YAY!) so bear with me, please. We live in a wold that tends to ignore the existence of other people. If a person or a situation has no impact on us as individuals, then we just don't care. It...

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Pascha bill is Bill. He's doing okay. He has a wife now, and he's been put in charge of the mechanic shop he worked at before. He now runs the place. *grins* Great things happen to great people. Everyone comes across hardships, rich and poor alike. That big gap...

12 Dec 08

pinkzebragirl @messageme (2821) • United States 10 Dec 08

I'm not asking for judgements (no negativity please) Im just asking for advice on what would you do, so if you just want to judge and not give advice please pass this by. I have been with my man for 2yrs now. I would consider it...

help

kids

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Pascha *hugs you quietly* You aren't alone. I can promise you that. :) and I think Roselynm should get the best response of the day. *grins*

11 Dec 08

pinkzebragirl @messageme (2821) • United States 10 Dec 08

I'm not asking for judgements (no negativity please) Im just asking for advice on what would you do, so if you just want to judge and not give advice please pass this by. I have been with my man for 2yrs now. I would consider it...

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Pascha Please, don't misunderstand me. I am not saying not to discipline the children. Children need, and actually CRAVE discipline. Just make sure you think through the consequences of any disciplinary method that you choose, both short term and long term. Also...

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pinkzebragirl @messageme (2821) • United States 10 Dec 08

I'm not asking for judgements (no negativity please) Im just asking for advice on what would you do, so if you just want to judge and not give advice please pass this by. I have been with my man for 2yrs now. I would consider it...

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Pascha I did misunderstand then as I thought you two were married. Never the less, you've been these kids' mom for how long now? Even if you two split up, you can't just walk away from that. When you say "I love you" that is a promise. It means "I will always...

11 Dec 08

Pascha @Pascha (65) • United States 10 Dec 08

This is my very first discussion (YAY!) so bear with me, please. We live in a wold that tends to ignore the existence of other people. If a person or a situation has no impact on us as individuals, then we just don't care. It...

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Pascha Hi Karubod. :) It is a wonderful day, isn't it? You said you can't think of big things, right? Most people find themselves thinking just like you. They can't make a difference unless they have power and influence. That isn't entirely correct. Once, a...

11 Dec 08

Pascha @Pascha (65) • United States 11 Dec 08

I'm seeing a lot of family related discussions right now. Maybe it's because it's the holidays, so family is right at everyone's forethoughts, I don't know. So, before I go any further, what does family mean to you? What...

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Pascha Well said, Mhelisa. Family is of the heart. There is a certain communication that happens that is truly heart to heart. No words need to be said for everyone in the family to know and to understand. Very good answer!

11 Dec 08

pinkzebragirl @messageme (2821) • United States 10 Dec 08

I'm not asking for judgements (no negativity please) Im just asking for advice on what would you do, so if you just want to judge and not give advice please pass this by. I have been with my man for 2yrs now. I would consider it...

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Pascha Great answer! Let's think a moment about what these steps will lead to, shall we? First, there will be a power struggle between the mother and the children, all of the children. This is going to create more stress on her, and the rest of the family. The...

11 Dec 08

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Pascha @Pascha (65) • United States 11 Dec 08

I'm seeing a lot of family related discussions right now. Maybe it's because it's the holidays, so family is right at everyone's forethoughts, I don't know. So, before I go any further, what does family mean to you? What...

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Pascha Very nice, Jhenn! Thank you for a well thought out response!

11 Dec 08

pinkzebragirl @messageme (2821) • United States 10 Dec 08

I'm not asking for judgements (no negativity please) Im just asking for advice on what would you do, so if you just want to judge and not give advice please pass this by. I have been with my man for 2yrs now. I would consider it...

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Pascha He's right. Kids really do manipulate their parents, and play them against each other. :) It is perfectly normal.

11 Dec 08

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mcfuddy @mcfuddy (382) • United States 11 Dec 08

that you are her husband? she has kids? etc?

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Pascha I would remind her every day that she is loved, unconditionally, until the end of time. :)

11 Dec 08

sunny7758521 @sunny7758521 (339) • China 10 Dec 08

I'm a teacher. I work in a primary school. In my class, there is a boy, he is very active, he doesn't like study, he always does some little tricks, touch other students, whisper unconsciously.... I think he has a hyperactivity....

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Pascha Hi Messageme. :) I'm a parent. My oldest was once accused of being ADHD. They wanted to medicate him also. I am against medicating kids for a few reasons. 1) they're kids. Their bodies haven't finished growing and maturing. Their brains are still in...

11 Dec 08

Pascha @Pascha (65) • United States 10 Dec 08

This is my very first discussion (YAY!) so bear with me, please. We live in a wold that tends to ignore the existence of other people. If a person or a situation has no impact on us as individuals, then we just don't care. It...

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Pascha Okay, so you would join an organization. But this is a passive type of organization. You're not really doing anything other than shopping. I'm not knocking your response as every little bit does help. But what would you DO. How would YOU make a difference?...

11 Dec 08

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 8 Dec 08

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this discussion are not necessarily those of the author ,just meant to inspire discussion. Many persons argue that because they are poor and can’t afford certain things they need to steal or...

poverty justification for criminality

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Pascha I was homeless with a two year old child. I went to one shelter, but they wouldn't take us in because I was not a victim of domestic abuse. I could have claimed that I was, but they require the abused to file at the minimum, a protective order with the...

11 Dec 08

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