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Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 1 Jul 09

But my roomie and so called 'friend' insults me and puts me down all the time, then every now and then when he gets really pissed even though i dont try and act afraid of him he'll grab me and start shoving me into stuff. He's 6'1...

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Seldenta Yea... Well sadly he gives my mom stuff so shes like 'well i dont wanna loose it' and i cant say what it is cause i dont wanna get my mom in trouble..ya. She kinda mentally abuses me too i guess? Like everyone puts me down, insults me. Even she does. Irony in...

2 Jul 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 1 Jul 09

But my roomie and so called 'friend' insults me and puts me down all the time, then every now and then when he gets really pissed even though i dont try and act afraid of him he'll grab me and start shoving me into stuff. He's 6'1...

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Seldenta I told her what he did and she goes 'well what did you do to cause it?' and i told her and she goes 'ill tell him to keep his hands off you' even after i told her i wanted him out and she goes 'your the one that wanted him here' well duh then i should have say...

1 Jul 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 1 Jul 09

But my roomie and so called 'friend' insults me and puts me down all the time, then every now and then when he gets really pissed even though i dont try and act afraid of him he'll grab me and start shoving me into stuff. He's 6'1...

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Seldenta Marks are faded now....... and if i tell my mom its my word against his and she tends to believe him over me. -.- Hes been doing this for the past 4 years.

1 Jul 09

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sjvenden27 @sjvenden27 (1840) • United States 22 May 09

When most people see a Pitbull in someone's yard they tend to get scared; thinking that Pitbulls are some dangerous animal that should be ban or put to sleep. I could not believe my ears today... There was a Pitbull that was...

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Seldenta Cha, and you have to think too. Pitbulls and staffordshire terriers have been bred through out the years to be non-human aggressive. If a pitbull is aggressive towards humans, chances are its how they were raised/trained. Now im not saying this is always the...

26 Jun 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 22 Jun 09

I've often thought about just killing myself to get it over with. All my life i was teased because i was fat and slow and 'stupid'. My sister was a straight A student and i was always told 'Why cant you be more like her?!' because...

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Seldenta Yea on normal cases diet, exercise and motive could fix the fatness..but when ya have a slow thyroid thats different. And as i stated before, fear of ending up like my mom taking 20 pills a day, with lack of insurance and job theres no way to afford the...

23 Jun 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 22 Jun 09

I've often thought about just killing myself to get it over with. All my life i was teased because i was fat and slow and 'stupid'. My sister was a straight A student and i was always told 'Why cant you be more like her?!' because...

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Seldenta I took meds before, but i tend to forget things..alot. Like my mom will ask me to do something and i'll go 'yea in a few minutes' then an hour or so later she'll go 'i told you to do this' and i'll be like 'huh?' because i cant remember it... I forget other...

23 Jun 09

Downwindz @Downwindz (2537) • Netherlands 15 Apr 09

Which season do you prefeer? Spring, Summer, Autumn or Winter? And why do you prefeer that season the most? Personally i find it really hard to choose between them, each season is unique, but in the end i think Spring or Summer...

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Seldenta Hmm you do have a point there. However i often contradict myself because well as much as i'd love for our summers to be colder. I often complain about the cold when we do have cold winters. Why? Well because for one, the cold makes my knees and ankle hurt....

22 Jun 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 20 Jun 09

Have you ever gone to a dog park or been walking your dog and had someone tell you that your abusing your dog if you swat it on its butt? Like say your dogs off leash in a dog park and you tell it to come, but it doesn't and you...

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Seldenta Some people say that, but then again some people say horses are stupid too, which isnt true. We will never know if a dog can understand why its being swatted if it runs off, just like we will never know if a horse knows why it gets swatted if someone smacks it...

22 Jun 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 20 Jun 09

Have you ever gone to a dog park or been walking your dog and had someone tell you that your abusing your dog if you swat it on its butt? Like say your dogs off leash in a dog park and you tell it to come, but it doesn't and you...

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Seldenta Oh a 70lb jumper eh? Yea that i can understand the swatting on the nose/butt. As i said above i only swat as a last minute measure, like if the angered tone and the glares don't work then i have to run her down and swat her butt when i catch her. Luckily my...

20 Jun 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 20 Jun 09

Have you ever gone to a dog park or been walking your dog and had someone tell you that your abusing your dog if you swat it on its butt? Like say your dogs off leash in a dog park and you tell it to come, but it doesn't and you...

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Seldenta I agree there are right ways and wrong ways to discipline a animal, like there are some ways i disagree with but unlike this person i came across at the park, i normally ignore it. My dog, Tuarwen normally responds to raised voices(not yelling but like...an...

20 Jun 09

Seldenta @Seldenta (39) • United States 20 Jun 09

Have you ever gone to a dog park or been walking your dog and had someone tell you that your abusing your dog if you swat it on its butt? Like say your dogs off leash in a dog park and you tell it to come, but it doesn't and you...

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Seldenta Well i understand not wanting to hit small dogs like chihuahuas and pekingeses but my dogs a lab x border collie, shes like 40 pounds. And no i dont go off the deep end and beat my dog half to death or kick her. It just irks me when people but in where they...

20 Jun 09

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