Suziecha

@Suziecha (89)

China • Age 37

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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feeling so empty n frustrated

siri26 @siri26 (331) • India 20 Jan 13

Why people play with our feelings. Now a days people became so selfish and easily hurting others. It's hard to find real friends nowadays. Most of them are just acting and simply acting like they care for us. It's our mistake to...

friendship

true relation

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Suziecha Yes, what you said is more and more now days. I'm angry with others' hurt, sad with friends' hurt and disregard. I feel more and more luck that I have so much warm family. And I'm also pain and regret when I hurt my family and friends. What I want to say is...

21 Jan 13

is virginity a big deal?

valorieesquilona @valorieesquilona (442) • Philippines 20 Jan 13

it's been a taboo in the society especially in the catholic countries just like the philippines where i am located. why is it that when it is being talked about in a group, some people would think that you are bad girls or you are...

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Suziecha Ah, I think virginity is important, though it's not a big deal for one today. In my opinion virginity doesn't contact with the words that someone is bad or not pure. The most important thing is that you shouldn't ignore it.

21 Jan 13

Is old ways much better to discipline your child?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 20 Jan 13

I know that in USA for example. You can't spank your children because its against the law. As its consider child abuse. But lets just do statistics right now. In asia most countries discipline their child via spanking. And even me...

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Suziecha Yeh, this just is different countries have different culture, including the style of education. Now, in Chinese spanking children are less and less. In my opinion, I don't like this old way like spanking. But I think disciplining chidren is necessary most...

20 Jan 13

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True friend

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 25 Dec 12

In my previous discussion i have already mentioned that we are shifting to Pune forever and my friend has offered me his flat on rent.His home is well furnished and he has asked us to use it fully. He has instructed me clearly...

true friend

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Suziecha I think I have true friend. Friendship is wonderful for me, I can not give it a denifition. I treat my friends from my heart, I also like to be loved by them. I hope our friendship forever. Also, I think I should always do my best in keeping the friendship.

26 Dec 12

Is MyLot a habit with you?

Emvy548 @Emvy548 (387) • India 25 Dec 12

In my journey with MyLot I have found that it becomes a habit with you over the course of time. I remember when I signed up four years ago I had made a couple of posts and then forgot about it. It was only after I came across an...

habit

post

ylot

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Suziecha I am sorry to say that mylot is not yet a habit with you now. I signed up the web for half a year. In the early time, it's really a habit. Recently, there're some reasons why I didn't login. But, I think mylot is good for my English and I can learn more...

26 Dec 12

Violence is NOT ALWAYS an option

val1234 @val1234 (59) • Philippines 25 Dec 12

Yes, it is true that every crime is punishable by law. There is always a thing called "Due Process" or a legal procedure in confronting acts punishable by law. But the thing is, not everybody has the chance to take this way of...

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Suziecha Yes, I agree with what you said. We should fight for rights, benefits, justice and other things by ourselves. And then I think I have an interest in watching the movie "Enough".

26 Dec 12

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i miss him.. :'(

irhadelgado @irhadelgado (78) 10 Dec 12

I was still young when my parents got separated.. actually my grandfather, on my mother's side,, he really don't like my father for my mother to be her husband.. but still my mother didn't listen to my grandfather.. he was so...

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Suziecha I'm so sad to hear that, I also know you really miss him. No matter what happened, he is your father, that doesn't change forever. I dont't know what to say to you, although my heart cann't be calm. I only can bless you and your family, hope everything is...

10 Dec 12

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Do you find this annoying?

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63594) • United States 31 Aug 12

Okay, so this happened a number of years ago. A LARGE number of years ago... before there was a "Do No Call" list. So, the phone rings and I answer it. "May I speak to Jas M____" (my last name). Now, for those of you...

stupid

stupidity

telemarketers

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Suziecha It occurs to me another problem, I've ever mistaken James Morrison as Jim Morrison...thought,Jim Morrison was really called James Morrison.

31 Aug 12

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replacing of old curtains

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 20 Aug 12

I have curtains in my house for last 10 years since i have purchased the home. I am getting bored by seeing the same curtains for last 10 years but since they are still looking so well that i do not dare to replace it soon. But...

replacing of old curtains

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Suziecha The old is precious not because they are old,but because they are full of our old stories. We are always hard to forget the old,the mainly reason for which is that we are obsessed with our old time. On the other hand,being willing to change and...

20 Aug 12

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Make other people H appy in easy way

Rasedul19 @Rasedul19 (114) 9 Aug 12

Sometimes i make some people anger on me by doing something. But i want to make them happy instead of anger after sometime. And it often is tough for me to make them happy after making angry. I want to know a magic formula that i...

happy

make happy

suggestion

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Suziecha If the people anger on you are your dear ones or close friends,the key to making them happy is to suit their fancy,you must knowtheir favourits or hobbies,do you? The most important thing is to be frank,sometimes you may failed in giving material presents,but...

9 Aug 12

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Are really women complex beings? or men too?

ChoukseyMK @ChoukseyMK (1045) • India 9 Aug 12

It is general saying that a woman is complex being. they are very perfect actresses in real life too. they are expert to tell lie stories even they are caught red-handed. similarly men are also not behind to make their wives fool....

woman men wife

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Suziecha As far as I'm concerned,all human beings are complex beings. Usually,telling lies is an approach to hiding disadvantages or lose,so you can see that women are acted to be kind and virtuous,and generous gentleman is a man's role.

9 Aug 12

Why can't a mother take care of her 1-year-old son by herself?

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 8 Aug 12

My cousin's husband is going on a business trip for two weeks, and my cousin needs her mum's help to take care of her 1-year-old son. During weekdays, the baby is being taken care of the babysitter during day time, and my cousin...

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Suziecha Well,I agree that it's mother's duty to take care of her own babies,but it's also father's,in my view.It's unfair that women are supposed to nurse the children all day,all year.Fathers also piay an important part. Of course, it's none of grandmothers's...

9 Aug 12

I respect my cousin's spirit

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 24 Jul 12

I guess that my cousin always want to do something out of his own. To create a business start from scratch, or searching for something that is lucrative and adaptable to this business. He tried to buy old houses, and rent them...

cousin

spirit

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Suziecha I also respect him. But why did he always buy old things? Hehe. Just a joke. As a matter of fact, I really admire his spirit, persistence, courage and capability. He always knows what he wants, what his aim is and what he should do. I should learn from him...

24 Jul 12

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Where to buy referrals

Hazelme @Hazelme (647) • United States 24 Jul 12

So i want to buy referrals. I just need them to sign up and complete one offer. Anyone knows where i can buy them?

referrals

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Suziecha Maybe you can introduce your family or friends to sign up firstly. Also you can use some advertisments or other platforms. I wish you all the best.

24 Jul 12

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Early start.

suzzy3 @suzzy3 (8341) 24 Jul 12

So hot last night got up early at 6am done the washing ,hoovered the carpets and floors,done some surveys and come on here.What do you do when you cannot sleep or wake up early?

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Suziecha It's really uncomfortable because of the hot days. I don't wake up early but it's difficult for me to sleep early at night. So usually, I like to walk in the street. Because it's not only cooler than daytime but also it's benifit for my body.:)

24 Jul 12

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Do You Use a Pen Name In Writing? Why?

phoenix35 @phoenix35 (384) • Philippines 24 Jul 12

When I was still reading local pocketbooks, I had encountered a male writer who was using a name of a woman. In his profile, I discovered that it was the name of his deceased mom. The writer was using his mom's name as a pen name...

on line writing

writing

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Suziecha I always used "Suziecha" as a name when I write or sign up a site. I don't know if this is a pen name. Haha. And I think the one who uses a pen name will feel relaxed when he write. Is it right?

24 Jul 12

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How painful is Childbirth?(1-10)

Garavegeta @garavegeta (963) • Kochi, India 19 Jul 12

Hello all, Is Labor very painful?Is it more painful than Passing Kidney stone? I know,how painful is to have kidney stone.It felt like my kidneys got frozen and are gradually cracking.Pain was so intense,that you can't walk or...

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Suziecha I don't know. But I think you are right, it will be very painful. Recently, I very envy pregnant women that they are so great. In my company, there's an old sister who is pregnant. And these days it is very hot here, so the old sister is always not...

19 Jul 12

Recent discussions

alberello @alberello (4752) • Italy 19 Jul 12

Dear friends Mylotters. Today a strange thing happened to me here on the site. I wanted to answer some discussion titled "recent", then I found an interesting discussion. After I answered and posted it all, I notice that the...

comments

discussion

recent

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Suziecha Really? It's too strange. I have no idea. I just met the "recent" was not the "recent".

19 Jul 12