ARShams

@ARShams (82)

Pakistan • Age 66

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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ARShams's Responses

I know most women are afraid of rats.Why are some men are afraid,too?

berting600 @berting600 (3453) • Philippines 14 Sep 11

I do not believe in what I have just discovered that my friend is afraid of the rodent inside his house.He can not move freely but just stay up in his chair.He is known to be the bad guy in our area,very tought,strong and always...

afraid of rats

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ARShams A very few number men may be found getting afraid of rats or reptiles as like as women, whereas, some women claim that they aren't afraid of even snakes or tigers. men getting afraid of rats etc. and women not of even snakes are just odd and peculiar cases for...

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If divorce is so painful...why get divorced?

mrsbentley27 @mrsbentley27 (662) • United States 15 Sep 11

I have been married 8 years and the thought of a divorce is depressing, even though we are not getting a divorce, the subject has came up. We have 3 beautiful children and I would not want to put them through that. The way I see...

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ARShams Divorce is, of course, understood as unpleasant and unlikable nature of action. However, there are situations when one has to consider the matter of continuing with the wedlock more than thinking of a break of it because, the person who divorces suffers,...

15 Sep 11

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a good friend

millionz22 @millionz22 (1) • United States 13 Sep 11

a good friend is always a good thing to have. *when your lonely *when you need someone to talk to *when you need advice a good friend always be honest with you and will always be there for yo no matter what. a good...

friends

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ARShams A good friend means to me the one that is compromising, tolerant, trustworthy, dependable, similar minded, almost similar aged (older in rare cases), intelligent, moderately optimistic and so on. Lacking too many qualities of them in a person may not be worthy...

14 Sep 11

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Have you ever thought of starting a business of your own online?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 14 Sep 11

I have anew idea just pop up into my mind while I am doing something online. I am working with my ptc sites and just make a few bucks out of it. Then I think why not start up a ptc business myself/I then do some research online...

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ARShams Well, would you please let me know how to start with PTC online business? With regards, ARShams

14 Sep 11

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Do you think about your health while you decide what to eat?

marguicha @marguicha (223010) • Chile 13 Sep 11

Many people eat what they best like, others think of what is healthy even if it´s not their first choice. I tend to do a sort of truce between both. I will not eat something I don´t like, no matter how healthy it is. But I do the...

health and food

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ARShams Healthy eating yet what one likes are the best suited for him/her as per my knowledge and experience and says of wiser people around me.

14 Sep 11

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are paid to click sites real?but an easy way of earning for students to pay fees

nasapiyush @nasapiyush (147) • India 13 Sep 11

i just had came across so many ptc websites .. i dont believe they are real as i had no proof whether they are real or not .. i had just joined incentria.com , clixsense.com,clicksia.com.. are they real if anybody know that.. and...

money

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ARShams In real sense most of them you are talking about are not moderately trustworthy.

14 Sep 11

What is a real man for you?

kearkear @kearkear (963) • Davao, Philippines 14 Sep 11

A real man does not need only a woman to be a real man. It's not about being straight or not. It's about being true to his self, responsible and straight forward. It's not about being strong and pride. It's about determination and...

resposible

straight

strong and confident

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ARShams A real man or woman should have these essential qualities despite having a number of disqualities (negligible/ignorable): Trustworthy, mutual understanding,compromising, moderately well ettiqueted and well mannered.... With regards, ARShams

14 Sep 11

Friends I need your help to solve this situation. Please give your suggestions.

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 14 Sep 11

HI All, First of all I will ask sorry with all my dear Mylot friends for not being touch with you all for very long time. I need your help to try to solve this situation. My sister was also working in my company in the past 1...

situation

suggestions

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ARShams In case her immediate boss isn't the chief of the organization where you and your sister work/worked she should rejoin and continue working and you too as devoted workers there. However, that if in case her boss repeats his/her ill tempered rough attitude...

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Do's and Don'ts in a perfect relationship

kearkear @kearkear (963) • Davao, Philippines 14 Sep 11

For me, there is no such do's and don'ts in a relationship. As long as there is LOVE in each other's heart and everything will follow.

heart

love

relationship

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ARShams Yet there are a number of do's and don'ts even in deep love relationships as like as in other faculties of life and living. Take for example, there are situations when the lovers should care not to keep on arguing constantly on an issue that may hurt the...

14 Sep 11

eating small meals every 4 hours.

kazeesh @kazeesh (13) 13 Sep 11

I have heard that the best thing for eating healthy is eating a meal every 4 hours. In doing this you are only suppose to eat until you are not hungry anymore, not until you are full. Just small healthy things like fruits and...

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ARShams Kazeesh, your theory about eating the least possible 4 times as maximum a day is admirably appreciable and followable, as per my knowledge, experience, practice and observation. With regards, ARShams

14 Sep 11

Love at the first sight

sunli123 @sunli123 (538) • China 1 Sep 11

Do you believe in "love at the first sight"? The first day when I was in college, I fell in love with someone at the first sight. I confessed my real feelings two years later but were rejected. Well, it was so sad but I didn't...

love first sight addiciton

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ARShams Love in the first sight may create often awkward situation as an ultimate effect. One can be seen lovable on the very first sight, whereas, his or her character is the first and foremost thing to consider to proceed further with him or her. Rest of the...

1 Sep 11

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Water

tryxiness @tryxiness (4544) • Philippines 1 Sep 11

Earlier, I attended a seminar orientation about water supply and sanitation. The seminar was about providing water supply services to people who are beyond the reach of a water district. In the session, we're asked what's...

importance

relevance

water

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ARShams Another essential name of water is 'life'. Without water it is almost impossible to live or even survive. So I take water as something 'life'. So its importance can be understood well enough.

1 Sep 11

Why men attracted in another women even he is married?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 31 Aug 11

Please dont laugh on this discussion and dont take this is in wrong way or bad thinking put your thought here so someone life can be save thanks in advance. When I went my native place one women has came in our house & she was...

why men attracted in another women even he is marr

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ARShams Men are in the habit of changing taste of whatever it is. Men sometimes eat out without their respective spouse's consent. If asked they (men who do so) often say being fed up of monotonous things at home I do so even though I may not prefer doing so....

31 Aug 11

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Am I right? For strong relationship understanding and trust is necessary

fantabulus @fantabulus (4000) • India 29 Aug 11

I observed many of the relations break not only between husband and wife but also in between other family members because they not understand the feelings of each other. Even in between friends the trust is must otherwise...

relationship

strong relationship

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ARShams I agree with you on this point that for strong relationship understanding and trust are necessary. Besides that, if I would be allowed to add, I would surely say that in this regard more important has been found is 'COMPROMISE'.

29 Aug 11

Well planned or loosely planned

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 26 Aug 11

When you go on vacation , do you like to plan every activities for everyday? Or do you like to get there and do what you feel like each day? Me? My best trip to date was a little of both. I planned one trip each day but the rest...

travel

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ARShams I prefer planning of things before I start doing them and most wise people consider it as wise.

28 Aug 11

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noticed whether or not your grammar, sentence structure, etc is bad on mylot?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 25 Aug 11

My husband was reading some of my discussions, and others. Has he read a lot out loud he picked on me and other discussions because he noticed how some words were switched around, misspelled or the sentence structure was wrong. I...

typing on mylot

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ARShams I personally noticed many mistakes of syntheses and spellings etc. in MyLot sent by some of MyLot participants here. Hope MyLot authorities would care to have posted those postings which are found correct to great extent or at least they edit them and then...

26 Aug 11

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