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resurrection04 @resurrection04 (271) 24 Sep 08

do you enjoy your life??? in doing good things to other with your own will and your doing it not to be praise by others.. do you enjoy your life??? in doing bad and evil things to others.. do you enjoy your life??? having a...

enjoy

life

living

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aspendreamer This comment is to (resurrection)... I see you cannot understand gloomcookie any better than you understand me... Well I understand her... I do feel her pain like I have it too and I am also restricted in life with not being able to walk properly or bend or...

26 Sep 08

resurrection04 @resurrection04 (271) 24 Sep 08

do you enjoy your life??? in doing good things to other with your own will and your doing it not to be praise by others.. do you enjoy your life??? in doing bad and evil things to others.. do you enjoy your life??? having a...

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aspendreamer Quit bothering me with your guesses as to how my life is... You asked the stupid question and you wanted answers and you got them and now you have to critique each one??? Give it a rest or change places with me and feel my real pain... I do take pain pills...

26 Sep 08

resurrection04 @resurrection04 (271) 24 Sep 08

do you enjoy your life??? in doing good things to other with your own will and your doing it not to be praise by others.. do you enjoy your life??? in doing bad and evil things to others.. do you enjoy your life??? having a...

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aspendreamer Please do not try to second guess me... You comments look like they are way too young to be claiming you know me... I think you need to quit saying the word (Hmmmm)... I am a Christian by God's standard and I was baptized, so leave it be... You do not know...

26 Sep 08

resurrection04 @resurrection04 (271) 24 Sep 08

do you enjoy your life??? in doing good things to other with your own will and your doing it not to be praise by others.. do you enjoy your life??? in doing bad and evil things to others.. do you enjoy your life??? having a...

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aspendreamer This comment is to (deathvans)... I see how happy you are and for some reason you think all others are happy too and don't understand how anyone can not be happy like yourself... Please read my comments and see how it is possible to not be happy... I have...

25 Sep 08

resurrection04 @resurrection04 (271) 24 Sep 08

do you enjoy your life??? in doing good things to other with your own will and your doing it not to be praise by others.. do you enjoy your life??? in doing bad and evil things to others.. do you enjoy your life??? having a...

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aspendreamer Thanks for your comment to me... Unfortunately my husband also has health issues and he works all day too... Thank God he works and pays the bills I cannot pay... I am lucky on that... However, he has problems with not being able to make love and he has...

25 Sep 08

resurrection04 @resurrection04 (271) 24 Sep 08

do you enjoy your life??? in doing good things to other with your own will and your doing it not to be praise by others.. do you enjoy your life??? in doing bad and evil things to others.. do you enjoy your life??? having a...

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aspendreamer No, I do NOT enjoy my life here... I have often felt I was in the wrong place... I have had most family members die off over the years of my growing up as a kid and just this year my mom died... I am very sad... I also have many health issues I deal with...

25 Sep 08

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miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 9 Jun 08

I was going to use the word "elderly", but I'm not ready to put that label on my dad yet. There comes a time in life where our roles reverse. The once that nurtured and cared for us, eventually need us to return the...

getting older

parents

responsiblity

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aspendreamer My mother is 82, can no longer walk, she lost her dentures and has to eat pureed food, she cannot feed herself and must be hand fed by someone, she is incontinent and wears adult diapers and has a catheter inserted into her bladder, she has severe dementia,...

9 Jun 08

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Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

cats

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aspendreamer This comment is to 5000ml... I am sorry you got in on this discussion late as all of my comments were made before you replied to this one out of order... Had you read all my previous posts you would have understood, hopefully... You replied way too soon...

20 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer Again this is to SAC, since you can't seem to understand my posts... For the official record... I DID buy all the toys, scratching posts, cat beds, and spray that you spray on furniture to protect it first before declawing my cat... I let her ruin one...

13 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer Campana, you do not know as much as you think... Humans use their hands and fingers to do so much more than cats do... It is simply stupid to compare cats to humans anyway... Cats sleep all day, eat and go to the bathroom... It wont kill them to be...

13 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer Good you are finally laughing... So am I...in your general direction... My cat is just fine, thanks for not asking...

12 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer Had you ever really read my original post, I said I got my cat when she was already grown, so there was no way to train her... She came from an overpopulated home where she was uncared for and way too many cats were running around uncared for... I rescued...

12 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer Hey numbskull, if you read my other posts you will find I declawed my cat years ago... I wish I could declaw your fingers... You have no idea what you are talking about... My cat is healthy, happy and secure in the knowledge I will care for her till I die,...

12 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer This all happened years ago, quit dredging up old news... Think of something new instead of showing how selfish you are in your own thoughts...

12 May 07

Sunset50 @Sunset50 (1397) • United States 28 Aug 06

What if they are attacked when no one is around to help them?

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aspendreamer You started all this crap, I am finishing it... You are way too opinionated to be here...

12 May 07

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