baddying

@baddying (88)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Discussions (22)

baddying's Discussions

Is it a life you really want?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 5 Mar 09

Recently I have been thinking about my life and my future. I start to be confused about what I have been pursuing. Is it a life I really want? What do I really want? I kinda lose my bearings in my life, geting struck in this...

think

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How to forgive people who did bad things to you or your friends?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 1 Sep 08

I find it pretty hard to forgive people when they did bad things to those who I love. I don't know why. It seems very difficult to me. Maybe I am a selfish person or maybe I'm too mean, but I just couldn't help. Every time I see...

forgive

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5 people

Street photography

baddying @baddying (88) • China 7 Aug 08

I like street photography very much, because it shows people's real life and there are lots of such kind of photos that touch me a lot. But recently I have read the article written by Philip Gefter Street Photography: A Right or...

photographers

street photography

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Have you read "The Time Traveler's Wife"?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 1 Aug 08

Has anyone read this novel? What do you think about the novel? Is it good? I have read about thirty pages of it and start to feel boring, though its structure as well as the story is unique. How do you feel about it?

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2 people

Help me--what kind of gifts is good for my friend's birthday

baddying @baddying (88) • China 1 Aug 08

Hello everyone in Mylot, my friend's birthday is coming, and after her two birthdays, my idea is exhausted and I really don't know what kind of gifts I should give to her, so can you give me some advice about my friend's birthday...

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Tell me the feeling when you do bungee jumping.

baddying @baddying (88) • China 28 Jul 08

I haven't done bungee jumping yet and I am eager to do it as I want to experience the death. Whenever I am at the top of a building and look down, I feel like jumping down. I don't what's wrong with me, so I want to jump...

bungee jumping

Be taken for granted

baddying @baddying (88) • China 26 Jul 08

Have you ever been in such situations where your friends take what you did for them for granted? And what do you do with it?

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1 person

Is there pure friendship between man and woman?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 26 Jul 08

I don't think there is real friendship between man and woman. If you make friends with someone, that means that you like him/her in some respects. Nobody can promise this kind of "like" won't become "love". Because there is much...

friendship

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1 person

When you are cruel...

baddying @baddying (88) • China 25 Jul 08

When do you think you are cruel to your lover? I think there are at least one or two times when you think what you do is too cruel to your lover, though it may not be on purpose. We cannot change what we did, but we can learn from...

love

1 response

Do you have good solutions to stomach problem?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 24 Jul 08

I have had chronic stomachache and acid stomach for like ten years. I am very worried about that it may become a cancer as time gose on. I have had a lot of medicines, and they don't work well. So I ask you guys for help. Do you...

stomach

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1 person

What do you do to stop a quarrel?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 19 Jul 08

As we all know, quarrels are inevitable in a relationship, but you let them be, they may lead to the end of a relationship. So the art of stopping a quarrel properly is very important. Then what do you often do to stop a quarrel?

relationship

6 responses

A question I've met?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 17 Jul 08

Suppose you have to go to an alone island and will live there, but there are nothing there and you are allowed to take only one thing, what will you take with yourself? and why?

island

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1 person

Do you think there is pure love in homoerotic relationships?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 16 Jul 08

I have already watched several gay movies. Maybe some people will not agree, but I really believe there is pure love between two boys or two girls. I can accept homoerotism because as long as there is love, it is beautiful...

pure love

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Which part of your face do you fisrt look at in the mirror?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 16 Jul 08

I am very curious about it--When you get up in the morning and look at in the mirror, which part of your face will be the first to come into your sight and why?

face

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How long do you want to live?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 16 Jul 08

Maybe you will say I am pessimistic, but I want my life is about forty years. That's enough for me. I am the person who wants to live a life by myself--doesn't want to be controlled by others, nor want to be others' burden. So I...

life span

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What kind of environment do you like best to listen to music?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 14 Jul 08

I think it is very important to choose proper environment to listen to music. My ideal setting is a dark room with a bed and then I am sitting on the bed with my eyes closed. It gives me pure peace and quietness to enjoy real...

6 responses

Have you ever consider it's our responsibility to inherit cultural trandition?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 14 Jul 08

I see more and more people around me, especially young people, show less and less interest in our own cultural tradition. Less care to tradition from young people who will be next generation to shoulder the task of running their...

SOS--Someone helps me!

baddying @baddying (88) • China 10 Jul 08

I have had a problem for my entire life--I'm always nervous whenever I have to do something in front of many people, and then I cannot do the things so well as I do without being watched. I don't know what's wrong with me....

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SOS--someone helps me!

baddying @baddying (88) • China 10 Jul 08

I have had a problem for my entire life--I'm always nervous whenever I have to do something in front of a lot of people, and then I can't do the things so well as I do without being watched. I don't know what's wrong with me. I...

2 responses

How do you improve yourself?

baddying @baddying (88) • China 10 Jul 08

I have been confused about this question for a very long time, and I still don't know how to really improve myself. I think the real improvement of oneself should be in mentality and spirit, not in health or wealth or something...

6 responses