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banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 21 May 08

This was on CNN news several weeks ago; where some states are thinking of allowing people to sue homewreckers who break up marriages. What do you all think about this idea?? Personally, I think it is great. I wish I could...

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banyangirl If the homewrecker KNEW about the married person and STILL carried on with the affair, yes, That is what CNN was talking about.

9 Jun 08

triptadasgupta @triptadasgupta (900) • India 23 May 08

hello friends...how can one know that his/her partner is cheating on him or her.I s there a way to judge that.please let me know your views regarding this.He is not like he was before . thanx in advance.... all the...

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banyangirl I forgot to add one more thing; don't confront unless you have undeniable proof of an affair.

24 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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hollywood stars

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banyangirl I guess you have never judged anyone before in your lifetime?? Sure. Everyone does from time to time. Are you a saint?? I highly doubt that, but if so, kudos to you. It is not the people's fault that cameras are following around these celebs. They choose...

23 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 21 May 08

I think in his own way my husband does love my kids from my previous marriage, but not like his own child with me. How do I get him to stop referring to them as JUST step children?? Or can I?? I am not a step-parent, so...

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banyangirl Bless you! That is so awesome!! I, too tell all my kids that I love them because God gave them to me :) I think it is great that you view your son as your son :)

23 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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banyangirl hmmm, I never said I was stuck on Angelina and Brad. I am stuck on the infidelity part. Get it now?

21 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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banyangirl I take huge offense with you insinuating that I don't parent my own kids. Of course I do!

21 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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banyangirl I do that.

21 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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banyangirl One more thing here I want to say, It is my KIDS that I value. And when they witness hollywood stars doing immoral things, THAT is where my problem comes into play. I understand the stars are human, but come on now. Paris Hilton goes to Jail and she is...

21 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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banyangirl Oh Believe me, I am not a huge celebrity fan. I see too many of them screwing up and sending wrong messages to the rest of the world. Well, when and if infidelity ever touches your life, you might see the point I am trying to make.

21 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 20 May 08

I see everywhere comments of how cute they are together and how beautiful they are, yada yada yada. Personally I don't see anything beautiful with their union out of the fact that it was born out of infidelity. I know it is...

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banyangirl Ok, hmmmm. Let's take ANOTHER step back now. My point was the infidelity part of the spectrum. I get that they are "In Love". However, I personally feel Brad should have done the honorable thing and left Jen PRIOR to hooking up with Angelina. If...

21 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 14 Mar 07

Can a marriage survive if a husband requests a wife to have an abortion over an accidental pregnancy; while the wife clearly would not consider it? Would you be able to forgive this if it were the first thing out of his mouth?

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banyangirl Yes, indeed, there are huge psychological impacts on a mother; especially when the mother is suggested to have an abortion by her husband. A mother has a right to her own body and no man should force any woman otherwise.

20 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 14 Mar 07

Can a marriage survive if a husband requests a wife to have an abortion over an accidental pregnancy; while the wife clearly would not consider it? Would you be able to forgive this if it were the first thing out of his mouth?

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banyangirl I fully agree with you on this.

20 May 08

banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 14 Mar 07

Can a marriage survive if a husband requests a wife to have an abortion over an accidental pregnancy; while the wife clearly would not consider it? Would you be able to forgive this if it were the first thing out of his mouth?

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banyangirl Yes, my feelings exactly. My respect is completely gone for over a year now :( I ended up having a miscarriage, which made it a more traumatic experience...to see him happy about that :( I had another pregnancy scare last week (am not pregnant), but he...

14 Mar 07

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banyangirl @banyangirl (56) • United States 14 Mar 07

If your spouse booked a flight and vacation plans without you ~ without it being discussed, nor with you and your family invited... And if they actually go... Would you forgive that? Could you get past it?

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banyangirl Yeah... That happened back in Jan :( I still cant bring myself to forgive it. It was back to his country too...and we have a new child. I would think he would have wanted everyone to meet us:( I, too think something fishy happened. Or I just have a very...

14 Mar 07

pizzoli @pizzoli (3366) • Italy 14 Mar 07

I have bought some herbals stuff yesterday, and you???

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banyangirl OMG, I didnt realize we were talking about just Ebay! Yes, I recently bought a Banana Republic Gift Card for my H b-day :)

14 Mar 07

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