biglebowskifan

@biglebowskifan (31)

United States • Age 43

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Do you hold your partner's hand in public?

lynnemg @lynnemg (4529) • United States 20 Mar 09

Once in a while, I will reach for my husband's hand when we are in public. Sometimes, he will actually hold mine, but not too often. It seems that he only wants to hold my hand in public when he feels like it, not when I feel like...

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biglebowskifan I, personally am not in favor of public displays of affection. I feel uncomfortable and feel that I may be making other people uncomfortable. I was raised in a house where there was not much affection so this could be the reason for this. My boyfriend likes...

21 Mar 09

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What is the Best music.. POP, RNB, ACOUSTIC or ROCK??

rubypalmes @rubypalmes (269) • Philippines 21 Mar 09

everyday, every month and year theres a lot of music coming in the air.. it depends to the listener what type of music they want. for me i am a music lover but i'd ratehr to choose RnB and acoustic music. for me its very good...

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biglebowskifan I love classic rock and oldies (60's music). It makes me feel at home. Maybe it is because my family played it when I was growing up. To each it's own but some of today's music I feel is lacking. My first album I fell in love with was Slippery When Wet (Bon...

21 Mar 09

What is OK to do on the first date where you live?

valentinesdiner @valentinesdiner (1214) • United States 20 Mar 09

Some places it may be had holding or kissing, but here in my little hometown its different. You want to be yourself and enjoy a kind of intimacy with a new friend. Some cultures may laugh but here it is perfectly Ok to, well ......

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kiss

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biglebowskifan Just be yourself. Never do anything you don't feel like you want to do. See where the date takes you. This is what I use as a rule of thumb...just don't do anything you will regret later in the night or the next day.

21 Mar 09

Friends?

Margajoe @Margajoe (4747) • Germany 19 Mar 09

How many friends do you have? I am not talking about people you are acquainted to. I mean real friends you can trust with everything. Take care

friends

true

trust

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biglebowskifan I know I have 1 that I trust with my life-she has been my best friend for over 20 years (since we were 5). I have a couple others that I know I could call out of nowhere and they would be there for me but nothing compares to by best friend. I am lucky to have...

20 Mar 09

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What would it be ?

jess07 @jess07 (319) 19 Mar 09

What is your favourite song ? or even group ? I have many favourite songs... And my fav artists would be U2, Phil Collins,Robbie Williams, James Morrison ... And you ?

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biglebowskifan I love the Traveling Wilburys, Paul Simon, Rod Stewart, Zepplin, Janis Joplin, many many more

19 Mar 09

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What music did you listen to in the 90s that you are still listening to today?

flyinghi @flyinghi (130) • Canada 19 Mar 09

I am interested in what type of music you listened to in the 90s and if you are still listening to them today.

90s music

enjoyment of life through music

music of the 90s

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biglebowskifan I don't intentionally listen to music from the 90's but when it is on, I enjoy everything very much. It brings up a lot of memories that happened which seems like forever ago. Wow, those were good times and there were some good tunes then as well...even the...

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can a married lady be a girl friend of a bachelor guy?

jassics @jassics (205) • India 19 Mar 09

I observed while chatting or talking or by reading few articles that if a guy is very nice in talking, well behaving with a married lady then she accepts her as a good friend and after sharing thoughts , meeting in public places...

friendship

friendship with a married lady

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biglebowskifan I think that if you have to ask the question if it is appropriate, it's probably not. I think you are just looking for someone else to tell you that it's OK for you to do this. Look in your heart and if you would mind if someone did this to you, then you will...

19 Mar 09

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friends for life???

Dday50627 @Dday50627 (359) • United States 19 Mar 09

Do you hold your friendships to dear or near? I have a heart that doesn't know hate and doesn't know goodbye. If you have been my friend and you suddenly hurt me, I may try to stay my distance to avoid you hurting me more or...

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biglebowskifan I have had my best friend nearly all my life...I am lucky to have such a great friend and that she has never hurt me. On the flip side of this, I have had friends that have betrayed me and I could not forget that. Do wrong by me once, shame on you, wrong by me...

19 Mar 09

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Are you a bossy big sister??

ishi23 @ishi23 (71) • United States 17 Mar 09

Hello Big Sisters!! I have a question for all of you out there..are you a bossy sister? Do you give your younger sibling hard time unintentionally though? The reason I am asking this is because I am the oldest of the siblings and...

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biglebowskifan I was always a bossy sister and with being the oldest--it is normal. I know now that I am older, it was well worth it. Without being bossy, my brother's wouldn't know how to do certain things; such as leaving knives above the sink rather than in it so you...

18 Mar 09

who do you talk to more often?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 18 Mar 09

In your family, do you talk to your father more often, or to your mother? I am more close to my mom, so I would share most of my stuff with her. So, who are you close to?

father

mother

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biglebowskifan I talk to my mother more often. Being the oldest (and the only girl), I think we share a bond in that way. I am older so I acutally talk to my younger brother more often than anyone else in my family. Good question.

18 Mar 09